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people who dont actually read the profile first

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely

Hi...now I'm no saint...ive looked at a profile's pics first many many times BUT...before I do anything else i actually check a few things...age range, is the girl Bi? ( for the Mrs benefit) distance...( can't be doing starting a conversation that would hopefully lead to a meet only to find out they live 480 miles away in another country...( irland)..... And then the actual profile...hoping that it might give us some clues as to what kind of people they are...

Is it really too much trouble for soo many people( men and women) to take the time to actually read our profile??? It's not as if its a book...tho I think this post is turning into one...lol...anyone else feeling a bit fed up with time wasting morons that see a pretty picture and automatically send a mail,or a wink,or worse a friggin friends request..HELLO....earth to moron...not even spoken to us yet and you want to be friends?? Fuck off...sorry about that...got a bit carried away...but you get my point???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm only hear for the clunge photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read a profile before messaging, often i like the look of someone but then read the profile and decide they arent for me, i dont get how people can want to meet someone off just a picture. Need to know more than just looks, whats the point in messaging someone when you haven't look to see what they want or looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me!!!

I know for a fact that not many people actually read my profile, as since I've changed it to say I'm not currently meeting, I have had more mail asking or meets than I have in the last 6 months..

mind you that could be due to the pics I recently posted

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Remember what bambis mum said ....

""If you can't say nothing nice , then dont say nothing at all .... "......

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Mehhhh! Too much text...

Some nice pics though!

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"I always read a profile before messaging, often i like the look of someone but then read the profile and decide they arent for me, i dont get how people can want to meet someone off just a picture. Need to know more than just looks, whats the point in messaging someone when you haven't look to see what they want or looking for?"

We know exactly what you mean...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me!!!

I know for a fact that not many people actually read my profile, as since I've changed it to say I'm not currently meeting, I have had more mail asking or meets than I have in the last 6 months..

mind you that could be due to the pics I recently posted "

So, you don't fancy a meet, with a couple that's out of your age range then x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If its obvious to me that someone who's messaged me hasn't read my profile it makes me less likely to reply to them

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"Me!!!

I know for a fact that not many people actually read my profile, as since I've changed it to say I'm not currently meeting, I have had more mail asking or meets than I have in the last 6 months..

mind you that could be due to the pics I recently posted

So, you don't fancy a meet, with a couple that's out of your age range then x"

But you are within our age range...cool profile..some great pics...but sorry to say the Mr is way too hairy for my Mrs...sorry if that sounds harsh but its just her personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I think a guy hasn't bothered to red my profile then I'll usually ignore. Sometimes even block.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We always read the profile,saves wasting our time and theirs .

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi...now I'm no saint...ive looked at a profile's pics first many many times BUT...before I do anything else i actually check a few things...age range, is the girl Bi? ( for the Mrs benefit) distance...( can't be doing starting a conversation that would hopefully lead to a meet only to find out they live 480 miles away in another country...( irland)..... And then the actual profile...hoping that it might give us some clues as to what kind of people they are...

Is it really too much trouble for soo many people( men and women) to take the time to actually read our profile??? It's not as if its a book...tho I think this post is turning into one...lol...anyone else feeling a bit fed up with time wasting morons that see a pretty picture and automatically send a mail,or a wink,or worse a friggin friends request..HELLO....earth to moron...not even spoken to us yet and you want to be friends?? Fuck off...sorry about that...got a bit carried away...but you get my point???"
And breathe........ Luckily for me i love reading peoples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Favourite opening line

" Hi , I've read your profile and ... "

clearly you haven't as you have no face pics on public and haven't sent one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always read the profile, it's just difficult what to do first though, look at pictures or read the profile.

If we read the profile and think great , they're our kind of people, then look at the pictures and not be attracted it can be dissapointing.

If we look at the pictures first, think they are really hot, then read the profile and find out they're not what we're looking for, or we're not what they are looking for I think that can be more dissapointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a "please put "......." As message heading so we know you have read our profile towards end of ours.

No key word. Immediate delete without opening.

Saves so much time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a "please put "......." As message heading so we know you have read our profile towards end of ours.

No key word. Immediate delete without opening.

Saves so much time."

We used to do that, but gave up to be honest as it was still ignored.

Also it became apparent without doing that if someone had read our profile, and a lot of people learned to scan the profile just to find the key word to use it.

Additionally we felt if we have to prompt people to read our profile, then we didn't want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, the toy soldiers! I used to play with them for hours and hours, setting up convoys, bases, hq's ! Thanks for the nostalgia feeling .

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"Hi...now I'm no saint...ive looked at a profile's pics first many many times BUT...before I do anything else i actually check a few things...age range, is the girl Bi? ( for the Mrs benefit) distance...( can't be doing starting a conversation that would hopefully lead to a meet only to find out they live 480 miles away in another country...( irland)..... And then the actual profile...hoping that it might give us some clues as to what kind of people they are...

Is it really too much trouble for soo many people( men and women) to take the time to actually read our profile??? It's not as if its a book...tho I think this post is turning into one...lol...anyone else feeling a bit fed up with time wasting morons that see a pretty picture and automatically send a mail,or a wink,or worse a friggin friends request..HELLO....earth to moron...not even spoken to us yet and you want to be friends?? Fuck off...sorry about that...got a bit carried away...but you get my point???And breathe........ Luckily for me i love reading peoples profiles"

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"Omg, the toy soldiers! I used to play with them for hours and hours, setting up convoys, bases, hq's ! Thanks for the nostalgia feeling ."

No problem...thought it would be a laugh...gotta have a laugh now and then ( tho it is sad when its just after I drop my trousers...).. Hehehe

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Hi...now I'm no saint...ive looked at a profile's pics first many many times BUT...before I do anything else i actually check a few things...age range, is the girl Bi? ( for the Mrs benefit) distance...( can't be doing starting a conversation that would hopefully lead to a meet only to find out they live 480 miles away in another country...( irland)..... And then the actual profile...hoping that it might give us some clues as to what kind of people they are...

Is it really too much trouble for soo many people( men and women) to take the time to actually read our profile??? It's not as if its a book...tho I think this post is turning into one...lol...anyone else feeling a bit fed up with time wasting morons that see a pretty picture and automatically send a mail,or a wink,or worse a friggin friends request..HELLO....earth to moron...not even spoken to us yet and you want to be friends?? Fuck off...sorry about that...got a bit carried away...but you get my point???"

Yep and as we have single guys blocked its couples, 3 yesterday & 2 already today. Not one of them fits our profile & we put it down to exactly what you say, male looking at pretty pics or a forum post takes their fancy & they just send a wink/friend request without reading the profile..

S

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We hear you OP our profile is quite specific with our requests and it's not even very long, yet people still can't be arsed to read it. I think out of the last 100 messages we have had only about 4/5 that have match what we are happy doing

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I havr done it before when I have got excited by a profile pics and just wanted to send them a message...

It is the most annoying thing though so I really try not to.

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

The story of our lives on here

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By *limandtrim300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ely

Well at least we aren't alone and hopefully we can all see the funny side of it...yes its annoying sometimes but like so many have said ..points out those we probably wouldn't get on with anyway ...

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