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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging?

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

It was a joint decision after someone we had a d*unken 3 some with told us about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

She told one of her fantasies was watching two guys playing together,in said I could organise it which I did,she watched and joined in the rest as they say is history

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

He promised me a whole selection of new handbags.

(I should add, I'm prone to telling the odd porkie pie. )

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By *hsofriskypair13Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

We got into it through talking about our fantasies and what we would Love to do to/foreach other.

A week later we went away for a night away where I (mrs). Suggested googling local clubs, we found one And the rest they say is history.

Bottom line talk to each other about it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm thinking of talking it out with her

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

It all started from watching porn. It got us talking about, what we liked the look of and would like to see each other doing.

Things led on from there.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"I'm thinking of talking it out with her "
. Are you going to tell her that you have already been doing it without her? Or just delete and start again, either way you are going to need to be very careful and hope she doesn't feel cheated if she finds out Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here,best of both worlds

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her "

best you delete your profile then, unless you want to come clean and say you have been on here looking already

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

I didn't. She was into it before we met.

-Matt

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her "
. Ah right, so is that your wife in your pics?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her "

So you've only been with your partner/wife two months?

Also not sure why you'd be directing your question at the male half of couples specifically? It works the other way round too

Either way the answer is you don't GET your other half into swinging - but you do discuss it with them, see if they're even interested and take it from there agreeing what you'd both be looking to get out of it and setting boundaries etc along the way.

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her

So you've only been with your partner/wife two months?

Also not sure why you'd be directing your question at the male half of couples specifically? It works the other way round too

Either way the answer is you don't GET your other half into swinging - but you do discuss it with them, see if they're even interested and take it from there agreeing what you'd both be looking to get out of it and setting boundaries etc along the way.

Mr G"

Not 2 Months I started the profile 2 months ago after I deleted it. I am atm mainly perv ingredients and chatting not meeting anyone.

Thanks for the wise words

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

What makes you think that it's the husbands that get their wives into swinging? We know some couples where the wife took the lead, but for almost all couples we know it is something that they come to together.

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her

So you've only been with your partner/wife two months?

Also not sure why you'd be directing your question at the male half of couples specifically? It works the other way round too

Either way the answer is you don't GET your other half into swinging - but you do discuss it with them, see if they're even interested and take it from there agreeing what you'd both be looking to get out of it and setting boundaries etc along the way.

Mr G

Not 2 Months I started the profile 2 months ago after I deleted it. I am atm mainly perv ingredients and chatting not meeting anyone.

Thanks for the wise words "
. So is that your wife in your pics, if not does she know there are pics on here of you with others? Although you say you are not meeting, your profile says different, does your wife know that you have been or still are in here? You see I have this vision of you introducing your wife to this world that she knows nothing of, only to open your msg box one day, to see a msg along the lines of' mr m, is that you? Would you like to put your willy up my bum again' not sure how she'd feel about it all Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet them on a swinging site, worked for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U haven't been meeting anyone. Only met before I was with her

So you've only been with your partner/wife two months?

Also not sure why you'd be directing your question at the male half of couples specifically? It works the other way round too

Either way the answer is you don't GET your other half into swinging - but you do discuss it with them, see if they're even interested and take it from there agreeing what you'd both be looking to get out of it and setting boundaries etc along the way.

My old pics are of those I've met off site.

Mr G

Not 2 Months I started the profile 2 months ago after I deleted it. I am atm mainly perv ingredients and chatting not meeting anyone.

Thanks for the wise words . So is that your wife in your pics, if not does she know there are pics on here of you with others? Although you say you are not meeting, your profile says different, does your wife know that you have been or still are in here? You see I have this vision of you introducing your wife to this world that she knows nothing of, only to open your msg box one day, to see a msg along the lines of' mr m, is that you? Would you like to put your willy up my bum again' not sure how she'd feel about it all Mrs blue eyes"

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

Simple. I concentrated on being really crap in bed for years, then simply said "let's try swinging, I'll keep the wife busy while you find yourself a proper man"

(or at least that's the *true* answer apparently )

Seriously, it was just something we talked about until we both felt ready to give it a try - safe in the knowledge that it wasn't a big deal to stop if either of us didn't like it.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

Show her your profile, especially those photos.

We are sure she will be ecstatic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon it is to keep her sexual appetite healthy

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

He didnt "get me into it". We met at a swinger's party.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She told me she was bisexual so we arranged a ffm rest was history

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

He didn't! I set up the profile... I like to play with ladies!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

He didn't.

I wanted to explore my bi side this seemed like a good way to do that. Cal set us up on here, we did some research, went to a club and jumped in with both feet

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. Told him I wanted to have sex with other people. He said ok fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a war of attrition. It took months and months but finally I made Her day and said yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was a joint decision to give it a try as Lincs had trouble keeping it in his trousers lol started swinging he's not bothered since in vanilla land nor on fad world for over two years lol,seems I get the fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just asked haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just spoke about our sexual fantasies. One we had in common was to involve others with each other. We went to a club 6 days later.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging?

He didn't! I set up the profile... I like to play with ladies! "

Thats the one .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Questions for the hubby half of couples how did you get your Mrs into swinging? "

By being honest and telling her I go to a swingers club

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