FabSwingers.com forum: Dont blow it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably a popular question, a friend was discussing this earlier and asked for advice on premature ejaculation and i drew a blank other than knock one out 2hours before. whats a decent response time for most girls? Is a guy cumming first a huge problem? Seems to put alot of pressure on people. A few questions in one go so be ready! Haha

Me personally have gone 30 seconds 30mins and over an hour.. all mixed lots of times. i think a good hard 15 minutes and another 15mins chilled close encounters banging is enough. Sensitivity issues bother some men so question one is..

what are your ways around sensitivity without blowing it after 5 pumps.

And question two is..

What is a decent time in the sack before it gets boring or unsatisfying? In your own opinion?

Shoot

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

To me it depends on the situation, how much foreplay, oral, are they a repeat cummer, etc

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I think for most ladies its the sooner the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cool cool, i can cum twice in an hour, less if im been seriously aroused. filling in with oral whilst rebooting systems

the friend.. Nah hes done and out for the count after 4 minutes im told. Poor guy but fair play he does alright.

Anymore for anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the suitation to be honest. Have had a guy who was litterly gone in 60 seconds. Did I enjoy our night over all. Yes I did.

Also had the a guy who went for hours and just wouldn't cum. Didn't enjoy it.

It really does depend on ones mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it depends on the suitation to be honest. Have had a guy who was litterly gone in 60 seconds. Did I enjoy our night over all. Yes I did.

Also had the a guy who went for hours and just wouldn't cum. Didn't enjoy it.

It really does depend on ones mood."

Makes sense, i was aiming towards that i think the hour sessions personaly arent asss enjoyable as a 10 minute hot animal mood moment. Good to know different opinions thanks for replying guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a balance......if you take forever then does the lady think she isn't arousing you sufficiently?

If you come too quick then do you risk leaving her frustrated?

It's a fine line guys!!

I've had it both ways from a friend.....she had a meet arranged. The guy came round. She had nibbles sorted and wine and was dressed (or not) to impress. (she thought from the online chat he was going to be great....and apparently he was drop dead gorgeous...her words prior to the event).

Couple of nibbles, glass of wine....she had slipped her lacy bra off....went to undo his button fly and .....SPLOOSH. He came in his boxers. Stuttered an apology and left! Left her uber frustrated!

Next I get a "booty call" (I lived just down the road at the time). 3 mins later she is out of her car and at my door wearing a big coat and lacy nics....she hadn't even put bra back on. Straight to the bedroom, bent over my bed, I strip off and peel her nicks off...first touch of her pussy and she gushes over my feet and her legs buckle.....so yes it can happen to ladies too.

Luckily after a brew and a 20 minute rest she was ready to go again....so fun was had all round in the end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy is forever known as "pandaman " now.....eats, shoots and leaves!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pandaman thats amazing.

cool story thanks for sharing. Sometimes its just medically gunna happen to some guys. Frame of mind at the time dont help but at the same time you cant think of titanic its just not a sexy thought lol

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