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"I don't think a relationship can genuinely work if both parties want different things. Someone will always be disappointed wanting more" | |||
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"We always said that if one of us wanted to stop for any reason then we would stop. No recriminations, no feeling sorry for yourself. We entered this lifestyle as a couple and we will carry on as a couple or leave as a couple x" | |||
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"We always said that if one of us wanted to stop for any reason then we would stop. No recriminations, no feeling sorry for yourself. We entered this lifestyle as a couple and we will carry on as a couple or leave as a couple x" We made the same pact ourselves. | |||
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"We always said that if one of us wanted to stop for any reason then we would stop. No recriminations, no feeling sorry for yourself. We entered this lifestyle as a couple and we will carry on as a couple or leave as a couple x" | |||
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"I don't know if these categories of monogamy, polyamory, etc really apply to us any more. We've always been very open as a couple and that's unlikely to change. Now we're sexually open too. Could we go through a phase of not playing with others? Sure. There are plenty of exciting adventures to be had in this life. If someone gave us a few flirtatious winks would we ignore it? Probably not if we found them attractive. Lets call it "post-monogamy" " "non-monogamy" | |||
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"If one person of the marriage/couple decided that they no longer wanted to swing, but the other person still wanted to, what would be the solution? And do you think both parties would be able to settle down and be completely happy with a monogamous marriage /relationship? Interested to know people's thoughts on this. " If one of us wanted to stop we would stop, this is a joint venture for both our enjoyment And yeah we would be happy with a monogamous relationship we were for 15 years so would be able to go back to it | |||
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"Depends on the reason as to why one of the partners just couldn't cope with anything else but monogamy I mean you don't just wake up in morning after swinging and say hey guess what; no more. There has to be a reason behind it; is it insecurities? Is it that someone pushed the limits beyond tolerance; " The reason we don't do it anymore, just drifted out of it is because it's boring .... whereas our monogamous relationship isn't. This isn't necessarily where we are going to stay, but as of now, its quite the opposite of insecurities. Every now and then this idea that there is something insecure in relationships which don't include swinging pops up .... it's a weird one as relationships evolve. | |||
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