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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Maybe it did to her | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " I never get these threads Why do you care what we think if you didn't like her you leave And it wouldn't make you look bad if you didn't go round telling everybody | |||
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"Maybe you could have tactfully told her why so she knows for the future. " I agree Though I always find it hard to believe people who smell don't realise But maybe some people do need telling | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " No it does not make you look bad and I don't see why you should have to tell her either. If she smelt bad, maybe her pussy wasn't clean either. I don't see why you should have to take one for the team, what team? No, sorry everyone, if someone smells bad when you meet them for sex, why should you have to fk them. Consent can be withdrawn at any time from men as well as women. | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Which bit was smelly? | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Leaving/changing your mind about getting down and dirty ( pun intended ) doesn't make you look bad. Everyone has a right to change their mind. Posting it on here, doesn't make you look that great. | |||
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"Just look at his previous posts too. " oh that post! | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! " I could I'm not a rude or nasty person but if somebody dared to turn up to meet me unwashed and smelly and expected me to get upclose and personal with them knowing they hadn't washed first I'd have no problem telling them they smell If you don't wash you smell surely you shouldn't even need telling that, it just smacks no pride in yourself to me | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! I could I'm not a rude or nasty person but if somebody dared to turn up to meet me unwashed and smelly and expected me to get upclose and personal with them knowing they hadn't washed first I'd have no problem telling them they smell If you don't wash you smell surely you shouldn't even need telling that, it just smacks no pride in yourself to me " I think I'm more a make your excuses kinda person. Maybe that confidence to say that will come with more experience. And, I agree... I don't know how you can be so unaware of smelling! | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Was it baby bio? | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP " Thanks for introducing the green arrow. I can see me and her getting on just fine! Well they do say you learn something new everyday... | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Depends on how you extracted yourself from the situation. I wouldn't expect anyone to play with someone who smelt offensive but how you communicate or make your excuses says more about if you look good or bad. I would say though if she reads this then its probably going to upset her and its a bit crass of you to put a thread up about it and stipulating today so its obvious who it was. | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! " Thank you and yes | |||
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"It is just a fuck at the end of the day, in and out." I have standards I dint fuck anything I see . And I take a huge amount of time to get ready before I go for a meet shower, gel up hair etc I always make a effort | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP " Thank you | |||
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"A BIO smell ..... like washing detergent ..... sweet ...... or did you mean sweat ....." Sweat like you been in the gym for 1 hour | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? Depends on how you extracted yourself from the situation. I wouldn't expect anyone to play with someone who smelt offensive but how you communicate or make your excuses says more about if you look good or bad. I would say though if she reads this then its probably going to upset her and its a bit crass of you to put a thread up about it and stipulating today so its obvious who it was. " She not on here from another site | |||
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"No not at all. You deserve someone that actually makes a effort before a meet " Yes thanks as I always make a huge effort when I have a meet and if I don't have a meet it's a daily routine for me | |||
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"No not at all. You deserve someone that actually makes a effort before a meet Yes thanks as I always make a huge effort when I have a meet and if I don't have a meet it's a daily routine for me " I think some women..not all..think it's OK to not make a effort because they know some other mug will be more then happy to meet them | |||
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"How's the new start with the girlfriend working out, OP? " Well good thanks x just not sure what to do for her birthday | |||
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"No not at all. You deserve someone that actually makes a effort before a meet Yes thanks as I always make a huge effort when I have a meet and if I don't have a meet it's a daily routine for me I think some women..not all..think it's OK to not make a effort because they know some other mug will be more then happy to meet them " Not good its a big no | |||
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"Some people might like it....a quote about Napoleon..... ". While some cultures consider body odor offensive, many find it acceptable and even sexy. Ashenburg relates Napoleon's directive to his wife, Josephine, to "stop washing" just five days before he returns to her in Paris."" The smell of piss and shite | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you " Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me " | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me " | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me " Yes she my gf know and we went to Spain had a good time even tho we spend most of time in bed x | |||
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"Could have done it style and suggested a sexy shower. I suppose it's a confidence thing to tell someone something personal like that. But it's got to be done to spare the poor lass it happening time and time again. She may start thinking all sorts when all her meets make their excuses. " That's what I was thinking! If the attraction was there in other areas then get her in the shower and join her! | |||
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"Some people might like it....a quote about Napoleon..... ". While some cultures consider body odor offensive, many find it acceptable and even sexy. Ashenburg relates Napoleon's directive to his wife, Josephine, to "stop washing" just five days before he returns to her in Paris."" Supposedly the origin of saying: the sweet smell of success | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me Yes she my gf know and we went to Spain had a good time even tho we spend most of time in bed x" Didn't you get all sweaty in bed most the time in Spain | |||
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"The green arrow should be everyone's friend. I've just laughed reading a few of your contradicting threads OP Thank you Your most welcome , found them most entertaining. Did you find a black BBW to take on holiday? Was that your girlfriend ? Sorry I'm genuinely curious please entertain me Yes she my gf know and we went to Spain had a good time even tho we spend most of time in bed x" Ohh you lucky bugger, does she have a single profile too? | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! " Totally agree - met someone once and were thinking they could have made more of an effort to look good and smell nice - didn't have the heart to say anything - didn't kiss him though | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! Totally agree - met someone once and were thinking they could have made more of an effort to look good and smell nice - didn't have the heart to say anything - didn't kiss him though " Aww very sorry to hear never mind him then but I always fresh and clean you could message me and we can chat sexy x | |||
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"I would of apologied about me being a bit grubby , mad rush to get here , awful joirmeynetc and asked if you could freshen up in her shower and then invite her in ! " I'd have done this - great way to break the ice too. | |||
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"We find this really irritating. Why on earth would you turn up to a meet and not wash or even a social and present yourself not at your best? First impressions and all that. " I washed and made a effort I did ask for a social but as the lady does play meets only | |||
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"Why on earth are you asking us?! Did you feel bad?" Yes I did it was a big shame she was very pretty but smelly | |||
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"Why on earth are you asking us?! Did you feel bad? Yes I did it was a big shame she was very pretty but smelly" Sex in the shower/bath didn't appeal? | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " Maybe she loved house plants and that's why she smelled of Baby Bio | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP " Or didn't fantasize about having meets. I mean seriously? You walked out on a meet instead of politely asking her to freshen up? | |||
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""Smelly cat, smelly cat, what are they feeding you? " " At the OP'a social is where he is fed | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP " Hahaha He was worried about smelling of her perfume for a minute | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP " Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx | |||
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""Smelly cat, smelly cat, what are they feeding you? " At the OP'a social is where he is fed " Well yea I'm thinking for organising a social who would attend | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx" I stink though | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx I stink though " Lol of what | |||
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"Okay right, so u cheated on ur gf cuz u enjoy 'swinging' then given advice to approach the subject wiv sed gf of swinging together. U both agreed to do it together. But only today u cheated AGAIN on ur gf... Nah mate, ur not gona get much interest off here anymore in my eyes. Also personally, going by ur previous forum discussions, I think ur just a kid looking for attention or just a dirty playa that women should steer clear of. Thats my opinion anyways, I dont like cheats or liars Mazza x" I think the official term is bellend | |||
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"Okay right, so u cheated on ur gf cuz u enjoy 'swinging' then given advice to approach the subject wiv sed gf of swinging together. U both agreed to do it together. But only today u cheated AGAIN on ur gf... Nah mate, ur not gona get much interest off here anymore in my eyes. Also personally, going by ur previous forum discussions, I think ur just a kid looking for attention or just a dirty playa that women should steer clear of. Thats my opinion anyways, I dont like cheats or liars Mazza x" Well its my choice really and wish I could show u my inbox I had alot of attention so please don't bother upsetting | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP " | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx I stink though " It's true! She does | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP " Well I'm in Manchester she's in London so how can I have fun every day | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Well I'm in Manchester she's in London so how can I have fun every day " It's a long distance relationship, either stick at it or don't, your just not making yourself look good on here | |||
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"An awful lot of bullying going on here. He's entitled to post (within rules). " I wouldn't say there's any bullying, people are just sharing their views | |||
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"An awful lot of bullying going on here. He's entitled to post (within rules). I wouldn't say there's any bullying, people are just sharing their views " I would. | |||
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"Im not bullying im just putting my views across x" I'm sure you feel better for it. | |||
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"Hi I had a meet today turned up on time but the women who I was ment to have fun with had a bad bio smell so I left does that make me look bad?? " no OP you did no wrong in not playing as no one in there right mind would want to play with someone who didn't smell nice . but if you left her with out a by or leave in other words snuck off then I'm sorry to say that wasn't a very nice thing to do to her in my opinion. a case of two wrongs not making a right at the end of the day she was a fellow human being and smell or not deserved better than be left hanging around wondering what happened to her meet . | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! " This^^^ I'd probably make my excuses and leave, without telling them the real reason too. It's a little difficult telling someone you know that they smell, let alone a stranger. The woman is off another site, so unlikely to see this thread. The OP is obviously feeling a little guilty, and wants a little bit of reassurance that he was not wrong in making his excuses and leaving before play. You were not wrong OP. If you didn't want to play, you shouldn't. Telling her you left because you had a work thing, was much kinder than telling her she smelt. She may still be mortified now, if you admitted that little doozy on a first meet. | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx I stink though It's true! She does " Your fault fucker | |||
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"Maybe if you stuck to just Fucking your gf you wouldn't end up in these predicaments OP Yeah but lets forget her for know and message me your well sexy xx I stink though It's true! She does Your fault fucker " Almost dried out now though | |||
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"If someone turned up dirty or smelling. I don't care how nice/hot they were, I wouldn't be suggesting a bath or shower together. I'm actually suprised at how many have said it. I'd make my excuses and leave. " Me too | |||
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"I think you're maybe being a bit hard on the OP! It's a difficult thing telling someone they smell - I don't think I would've been able to. Also, maybe he's posting it on here as he doesn't have others to talk to. It's not as though he's named his meet! " He said it's from a different site too | |||
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"An awful lot of bullying going on here. He's entitled to post (within rules). " They wouldn't do it face to face. Keyboard courage. | |||
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