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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what is the general consensus on blind meets ? (ie without seeing a face pic of the person you are meeting)

i have had a few and with 1 noteable exception (sorry, but a man in UGG boots is never a good start) the people i have met 'blind' have certainly not been a disappointment looks or sex wise

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry but I could never consider it - I'm too much of a fussy bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive meet one on a blind meet he was very nice looking

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would if they were hung..

and if they turned up and had a small one.. I would take an axe to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to see a face picture first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would if they were hung..

and if they turned up and had a small one.. I would take an axe to them.

"

would much sooner someone have a nice face than a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet without seeing face pics first...would be sooo awkward if there was no attraction, i'm too fussy x

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By *oger meMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Got to have a face pic, imagine if they had a mouthful of black teeth and more hair on their top lip than I had Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would never meet unless i saw a face pic and a phonec all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few blind meets and i have to say theyve all been good looking guys.ive never met a minger yet.and the buzz of meeting a total a total stranger is all good. and if there is no attraction there then il tell them a coffee is their lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blind meets

Just shows how different people are on this site .

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

ive never had a meet with a blind person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works both ways. They will be wondering what we look like too

Wonder who will be first to run off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do it. I find it embarrassing enough when i've not fancied someone in the flesh after i've seen a pic without upping the risk by having no clue at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I did not have to travel to far to reject someone or be rejected , its probably not a bad idea . Oh , yes it is , maybe not

Is talking on the phone allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would never meet unless i saw a face pic and a phonec all"

I add a social meet to that too... before talking with my master about if we allow them a meet.

I'd never ever meet without seeing someone.. unless it was something master had set up, but as I'd not see them at all it wouldn't matter. (Blindfold on lol ) but that's different as master picks and I am ordered but I know master knows my tastes

Katie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had blind meets but thats all part of the fantasy for me. Ive gone out in blindfolds and kept it on all night and never seen the single guy Ive played with on the separate occasions ive done this. However my OH has seen pics and had phone conversations etc and he knows what I would be attracted to, so I feel safe that way.

And of course theres been one time when it might as well have been a blind meet. The tall, tanned adonis picture I was sent was nothing like the guy that actually turned up. It really bothered me refusing to play with him, I bottled in and went to the loo while the OH told him, but it bothered me and I wasnt comfortable so I wouldnt go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way in a million years I could do this, Im ridiculously fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because everybody uses upto date pics and actual pics of themselves, dont they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because everybody uses upto date pics and actual pics of themselves, dont they? "

I do lol

in fact sometimes I dont recognise myself from my avatar lol-musta been a great camera man lol

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Sorry but I could never consider it - I'm too much of a fussy bugger "

me niether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given up on them, like some idea of who i'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, why set ourselves up for potential disappointment, plus we would hate to see the look of disappointment on their faces too.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were sent a face pic by someone on our friends list, he seemed ok, tonight he arranged a party, we were invited and decided to go, got there he answered the door, he looked like the wifes dad in his slippers, nothing like his face photo he sent us, we got back in the car after saying sorry but no thanks and went home, bottom line is blind dates or face photo you dont always get what your looking for.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

A face pic and phone chat doesn't tell you everything about a person but it's a good start.

Why wouldn't you do that first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could never be seen on a blind date.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Cant think of one good reason for a blind date and wearing a carnation is so two decades ago! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after a bad meet years ago when he said good looking work out and really he looked like sreck and as big never again even had the green teeth , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol how true, just goes to show pics can lie, meet and and be grown up about things, easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after a bad meet years ago when he said good looking work out and really he looked like sreck and as big never again even had the green teeth , lol"

did you still go through with it though ?

i must admit i tried with the guy that 'did nothing for me' but my cock simply retained 'king prawn' status to the degree where it was just uncomfy so i asked him to leave

thing was, he wasn't putrid or anything, he was just more effeminate than i like guys to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after a bad meet years ago when he said good looking work out and really he looked like sreck and as big never again even had the green teeth , lol

did you still go through with it though ?

i must admit i tried with the guy that 'did nothing for me' but my cock simply retained 'king prawn' status to the degree where it was just uncomfy so i asked him to leave

thing was, he wasn't putrid or anything, he was just more effeminate than i like guys to be

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no i told him i like to meet for drink and chat first and never play on first meet yes was a story but i had to think fast i could not do it , He was that bad ...... not just big all over 25 stone had on dirty things and hair looking like not seen shower for a week ,, smell of BO and that was not even sitting ner him ...... and his teeth ooo my god green.. so you see why i will now never meet with out face pic ..... and close up pics x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"after a bad meet years ago when he said good looking work out and really he looked like sreck and as big never again even had the green teeth , lol

did you still go through with it though ?

i must admit i tried with the guy that 'did nothing for me' but my cock simply retained 'king prawn' status to the degree where it was just uncomfy so i asked him to leave

thing was, he wasn't putrid or anything, he was just more effeminate than i like guys to be

no i told him i like to meet for drink and chat first and never play on first meet yes was a story but i had to think fast i could not do it , He was that bad ...... not just big all over 25 stone had on dirty things and hair looking like not seen shower for a week ,, smell of BO and that was not even sitting ner him ...... and his teeth ooo my god green.. so you see why i will now never meet with out face pic ..... and close up pics x "

i suppose i shouldn't laugh but fkin ell you poor thing

i think your caution is hence well founded haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the general consensus on blind meets ? (ie without seeing a face pic of the person you are meeting)

i have had a few and with 1 noteable exception (sorry, but a man in UGG boots is never a good start) the people i have met 'blind' have certainly not been a disappointment looks or sex wise"

I wouldnt do it. There is no need nowadays with camera phones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would anybody agree to a blind meet? Surely there has to be some attraction, even the slightest meet?

And thinking about it, if you ain't seen a pic, how do you know you're talking to the right person?

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Meting someone "blind" does seem to be adding an unnecessary element of risk to a first meeting, which is usually nerve-wracking enough as it is!

That said, I accept that photos are no guarantee you'll fancy the person in the flesh, and it could turn out to be a nice surprise when they're drop-dead gorgeous...

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By *INKKKYMan
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL/ WIRRAL

Iv had blind dates so yer id be game?... Any offers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady from another site blind. She turned up in a mankey old blokes jumper.!!!!

Urghhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sod that! maybe theres a reason why they dont wanna give u their pic! lol

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"ive never had a meet with a blind person "

This could be your lucky day then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldn't do it way 2 picky any meet must have atraction 2 start with.

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

Is it only a visual attraction for you fabsters though? I meet based on the attraction of that personality; you want to try it some time - it may sound scary, but other than Katey who's got close with the blindfold, you guys don't know what you're missing

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

not a chance would we do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

defo need to see a face pic because there has got to be some level of attraction

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

attraction is only visual then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only visual just looks are a good place to start,

You can get on really well with someone just due to their personality but not want to have sex with them cause there is no physical attraction, unless of course its more of a relationship you're looking for and not just a bit of fun sex

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish

Always wise to take two brown paper bags with you if going on a blind meet. One to put on his / her head and one for your own just in case theirs falls off!!

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

I'd have no problem meeting a blind lady, the last one said I was soooo handsome

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By *arkandjaneCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster

we have met people off here, and they didnt look anything like their photos because they were taken a long time ago, it might aswell have been a blind date.

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By *hiz2112Man
over a year ago

south wales and gloucestershire

no picture no meet,to risky,and if you dont like the look of them if you did meet ,it would be a disaster!

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