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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been asked a few times what attracts the fem to black guys and what are my thoughts when she plays with them. I love watching and think it's so erotic and such a turn on seeing the 2 different skin contrasts together also seeing fem enjoying herself is a big turn on. Fem half says that the skin colour and smoothness of there skin is the first thing that turns her on. Also in her experience black guys seem to be more gentle and aren't selfish when playing. Also the way they approach a couple or single female they like to chat and are respectful to everyone involved. She was asked if the saying about black guys being well hung plays a part. She isn't bothered about the size of there man hood it's all about the personality and behaviour that really attracts her to black guys. What attracts others to black guys. Or what have been your experiences with black guys? Do black guys get more attention than most other single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What attracts others to black guys. "

Their personality and sexual interests, generally. The same as any other man. Or woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would prefer someone meeting me as person not for the color of my skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally would prefer someone meeting me as person not for the color of my skin"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I met a black guy once, and I knew me and everyone of his skin colour would be good friends forever

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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" What attracts others to black guys.

Their personality and sexual interests, generally. The same as any other man. Or woman."

I didn't realise black people had softer skin...

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me."

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


" What attracts others to black guys.

Their personality and sexual interests, generally. The same as any other man. Or woman.

I didn't realise black people had softer skin..."

Most of the black people i know actually have quite dry skin so they look after it well and moisturise regularly.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly "

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter' "

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations."

Everyone has a choice as to how they behave...those of real character anyway

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


" What attracts others to black guys.

Their personality and sexual interests, generally. The same as any other man. Or woman.

I didn't realise black people had softer skin..."

I've yet to meet anyone with hard skin...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations."

Yes really, damned if you do ... and all that.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations.

Everyone has a choice as to how they behave...those of real character anyway"

Obviously you have no experience of being on the receiving end of living with stereotypes .... and having to find yourself in amongst them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations.

Everyone has a choice as to how they behave...those of real character anyway

Obviously you have no experience of being on the receiving end of living with stereotypes .... and having to find yourself in amongst them."

I most certainly have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really read the entireity...but my honest opinion..I fucking hate an insistance on black(and yes I am mixed/black), it does my fucking head in being generalized..regardless of the positives or negatives.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations.

Everyone has a choice as to how they behave...those of real character anyway

Obviously you have no experience of being on the receiving end of living with stereotypes .... and having to find yourself in amongst them.

I most certainly have..."

What stereotype do you have to live up to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never really read the entireity...but my honest opinion..I fucking hate an insistance on black(and yes I am mixed/black), it does my fucking head in being generalized..regardless of the positives or negatives."

Doesn't everyone generalise on here in someways or other or in other terms have things they like/dislike or fantasys that in normal life wouldn't be able to carry out. I.e. Some want gym fit, vwe, body hair all things that some like or dislike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been asked a few times what attracts the fem to black guys and what are my thoughts when she plays with them. I love watching and think it's so erotic and such a turn on seeing the 2 different skin contrasts together also seeing fem enjoying herself is a big turn on. Fem half says that the skin colour and smoothness of there skin is the first thing that turns her on. Also in her experience black guys seem to be more gentle and aren't selfish when playing. Also the way they approach a couple or single female they like to chat and are respectful to everyone involved. She was asked if the saying about black guys being well hung plays a part. She isn't bothered about the size of there man hood it's all about the personality and behaviour that really attracts her to black guys. What attracts others to black guys. Or what have been your experiences with black guys? Do black guys get more attention than most other single guys? "
interesting comments I will keep an eye on this thread

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


" What attracts others to black guys.

Their personality and sexual interests, generally. The same as any other man. Or woman.

I didn't realise black people had softer skin...

I've yet to meet anyone with hard skin..."

Love your posts (him)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never really read the entireity...but my honest opinion..I fucking hate an insistance on black(and yes I am mixed/black), it does my fucking head in being generalized..regardless of the positives or negatives.

Doesn't everyone generalise on here in someways or other or in other terms have things they like/dislike or fantasys that in normal life wouldn't be able to carry out. I.e. Some want gym fit, vwe, body hair all things that some like or dislike "

it is real life...

if people think I want to be classed as a bbc then that's fine..i will tell them to fuck off if thats all they see me as...not really here(in life), or on a site to be reduced to something as little as 'he's a black guy he'll do' 'cos we like black guys', and in most cases that means I have to act like someone similar in looks to me...while skirting around the issue that I'm quite a voicey sentient being, I'm quite happy to tell mrPorn director hubby he is a cunt while I fuck his hotwife..if I think he is a cunt they way he speaks to me.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I have had partners of different ethnicities and have never been attracted to someone because of the colour of their skin.

I find it a massive turn off if i see BBC on someone's profile. If that's all they can think of to try and get a meet they are probably not for me.

Plenty of black guys use the BBC card in the chat rooms ...they get laughed at and tend to leave very quickly

There are many young black guys who try posting on the forums for a while, but don't last long either. They tend to come in for a lot of stick, so only the old toughies can handle that type of 'banter'

It must really suck to grow up feeling like you have to fulfil a particular sexual stereotype (otherwise you're worthless in the eyes of many), only to find that people then mock you for trying to live up to societies expectations."

It goes to prove that nothing beats being yourself. After all why pander to a stereotype that is created by parochial and narrow minded people.

I truly fee sorry for a lot of men who fall into this trap..

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