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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

What is your true motivation for writing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not let it bother you, let them carry on, it shows their true colours although you only have one person's view and don't know exactly what went on. Men do it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

Totally with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

abusive people enjoy being abusive, they won't listen to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over

What is your true motivation for writing this "

Reverse psycology at its best lol

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Well said I agree OP

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"What is your true motivation for writing this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave them to rant like little bitches it gives the decent blokes a better chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over

What is your true motivation for writing this "

Haha nice switcheroo there mate but it just annoys me to be honest there's no need for it is there just show a bit of respect for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's looking for brownie points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustration has alot to answer for if you ask me, i know noone has asked me lol

Some women are as bad if not worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over

What is your true motivation for writing this

Haha nice switcheroo there mate but it just annoys me to be honest there's no need for it is there just show a bit of respect for people "

Why does it bother you and how does it effect you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to be important but its much more important to be nice, just like its ok to be afraid of monsters, but its not ok to become one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone's looking for brownie points "

Brownie or brown nose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone's looking for brownie points "

I suppose it does seem a bit like that doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the drama queen ladies. Gotta love them. Just as bad as the idiots they're shouting about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone's looking for brownie points

I suppose it does seem a bit like that doesn't it "

Just a tad

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nice sentiment, but it's never gonna catch on.

Plus only about 1% of Fab use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "
i totally agree with what you've said , however this post really isn't going to make much difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day we cant expect can we ? Expectations are what dissapoint us all

Live for today as tomorrow aint guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't write a childish status moaning about an abusive message.

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By *eshzMan
over a year ago

0151


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

In the process of trying state the obvious which everyone on this site knows, you've now come across as holier than others.

If you're trying gain angel wings for a shag. Here's a tip dont do it by coming across as a saint and trying to score brownie points.

What a jackass. Do you want a job as a morale police on this site?

Everyone can read through your bullshit kid and at 26 how freaking mature can you be? Obviously still a kid if you have to use such tactics to try and score brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't read profiles what makes you think they're gonna read a forum post?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block and move on x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Their profile their choices... as with other indicators (forum posts etc) it can show folk who to avoid as well as who to interact with..

I'll nominate the OP to be the guardian of the status updates..

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Someone's looking for brownie points

I suppose it does seem a bit like that doesn't it "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just block and move on x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know where you can shove it op

Let them be abusive it just makes the decent guys stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know where you can shove it op

Let them be abusive it just makes the decent guys stand out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people looking bad should make you look better. Don't blame anyone else if someone thinks you're acting like a dick.

There's nobody who can make me look like a dick better than I can myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

That is very nice of you. I applaud your concern for abused women. Very politically correct.

Except, perhaps, for the assumption that those poor weak females are quite able to deal with any abuse that they might receive.

But thank you for the patronisation. Eeek. A spider. I need a strong male. Not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah the drama queen ladies. Gotta love them. Just as bad as the idiots they're shouting about. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other people looking bad should make you look better. Don't blame anyone else if someone thinks you're acting like a dick.

There's nobody who can make me look like a dick better than I can myself. "

And what a dick you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women on this site ain't that fragile OP.

Status updates are for letting off steam & attracting someone's attention not for serious abuse alerts.

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By *s1981Couple
over a year ago

halifax

There are wankers in all walks of life , equally spread between men and women. Just saying!

Also, you can only be offended if you want to be offended. 'Bollocks to them' is always a good policy to take.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Brownie points + brown nose =. White knight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brownie points + brown nose =. White knight. "

Perhaps a brown nose?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Read it. None the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or a brown nosed horse

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I don't think the actions of a few reflect on an entire gender? I thought we were past all that crap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

My hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate I hate to burst your bubble but majority of those guys don't come on forums and wouldn't listen to you if they did

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Right every day I come on here and I see status' off women regarding men being abusive when they get rejected! Whoever you are you need to grow up! What do you think it's going to achieve if you start being abusive to a woman because she said no? It just makes you look childish and it gives us all a bad name so grow a pair and move on and don't let it get to you!

Rant over "

ok mister white knight but you need to balance this out . I'm never abusive to couples or single ferns who turn me down but my god have I suffer some abuse at the hands of single ferns I've turned down. who couldn't seem to get there head around the fact a guy said no to them and as for couples its normal the husband doing his nut because you don't fancy his misses .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call them 'drama queens' it's really unpleasant getting called all the names under the sun for just being honest and saying 'no thanks'.

It's not just exclusive to fab though. It happens all over life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think we've ever had a man be abusive for us turning them down. Having said that we don't get very many messages.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool...see the competition isn't improving. Good stuff

They can keep doing what they're doing as far as I'm concerned..they have no bearing on my time here whatsoever

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