FabSwingers.com forum: No Veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a guys mails , great body including six pack , can accomadate , half decent profile but been on sight over a year no photo verification or not met anyone . Does this raise suspicions with anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wonder why he couldn't photo verify, but it wouldn't really bother me that much. I'd just arrange to meet them for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd wonder why he couldn't photo verify, but it wouldn't really bother me that much. I'd just arrange to meet them for coffee."

Do you think chances are they wouldn't show ?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes it would

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not really with guys as they do struggle on here due to the sheer number of them and for some of us the guy needs to offer more than just an hot body and the willingness to accommodate

A single fem or couple (that wasn't just seeking MFF which is also challenging) is another matter

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

A straight delete for us due to the time span. If it was a newbie we'd hotlist and make a note for the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a guys mails , great body including six pack , can accomadate , half decent profile but been on sight over a year no photo verification or not met anyone . Does this raise suspicions with anyone ?"

Yes he's really a woman x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes he's really a woman x"

Lol then someone needs to tell him he'd stand more chance as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here a while and really struggled to get a meet, but there's no excuse for not having a photo veri.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Arrange for a coffee

Ask him to get photo verified (it's not like the pic has to be public gallery).

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lack of veris wouldn't put us off meeting a guy ,he's hardly gonna be a woman or couple pretending to be a guy. however if a couple or fem have been members for that long without veris there is no way we'd swap face pics or arrange a meet without a fem/fem phone call first

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not photo verified but I don't think not being so is a sign of being a fake. I'd give the guy a chance to appear for a coffee social. At least if he doesn't turn up, it hardly matters.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Not necessarily suspicious... but do your own investigations to proove authenticity.. eg skype.. calls... but ultimately this will not garantee him turning up to a meet anyway..

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having veri's is way down our list of concerns.

arrange a social,

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd wonder why he couldn't photo verify, but it wouldn't really bother me that much. I'd just arrange to meet them for coffee.

Do you think chances are they wouldn't show ? "

No, I've never noticed a correlation. People say they won't meet me because I don't have veris on this profile, but I've never stood anyone up.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri"

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Not being verified after a year makes me weary that they won't show for arranged meets and are part of the contingent on here that are here for different reasons than I am

I don't put any stock into photo verified, as that doesn't show that they turn up for arranged socials or play meets

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Maybe he's 'borrowed' those pics from someone else and does look quite different in reality. Anyway a social meet would reveal, if he turns up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are."

It doesn't prove that you're going to turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri"

I feel the same. If it raises suspicion then maybe consider blocking non verified people in your message filters. He may have created the account and for whatever reason, not used it in months but go with your gut instinct. As someone else suggested, arrange a social and see what happens. Reverse image search his pics also.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

No.

But I would google his pics, but I do that for most pics anyway.

He may have created his account, had second thought and left it sitting there for months before coming back to it.

Could have been ignored for months as he has no veris and people think he is fake.

Who knows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are.

It doesn't prove that you're going to turn up."

Would you have a builder in your house without checking with someone he can do what he say he can ??? Of course verification is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are.

It doesn't prove that you're going to turn up.

Would you have a builder in your house without checking with someone he can do what he say he can ??? Of course verification is important "

Indeed but as that poster said, a veri doesn't prove they will turn up, I've had a no show from a verified person. Also, there are fake veris, must take a lot of trouble to do but it is obviously possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we'd offer to have a coffee or a drink and a chat somewhere where we were going to be anyway then if he doesn't show our time hasn't been eased because we'll have had a nice time out together anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him.

My profile says I set it up 10 months ago. To be honest that surprises even me because I haven't used it for the more than the last couple of months at the very most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??"

We wouldn't dismiss on photo veri alone but yes, it can be one of many factors, but having zero history is what would put us off from the off. We meet a guy with a very successful meet rate and very popular who's never been photo verified, we didn't notice until about six months later due to his profile being so good with 'solid' veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

When we're meeting, we never even check to see if anyone has been photo veri'd...it's utterly meaningless and so easily faked...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I've been here a while and really struggled to get a meet, but there's no excuse for not having a photo veri. "

Why are people so insistent on photo veries?

They are a waste of time, they prove nothing, and are too easily faked.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are."

interesting after one adult conversation with me you can tell instantly I'm the type of guy who will be there .

I find after one adult conversation with someone who has arrange or is looking to arrange a social with me I can tell there the type to cancel a day or two before hand .

let me tell you all those who have done this to me off of the site have veri in fact out of every site I have every used this site is the worst for that sort of thing .

I blame that sort of thing on this being a swinger site where single guys are ten a penny so if a single fern or a couple mess guys around its not a big deal for them . as there's another 5 in the queue much like busses no big deal another will be along soon enough or we can just go back to that one from earlier .

as for my attitude to those who do this I'm ok with it I'm not responsible for how others conduct themselves when dealing with those they are looking to possible play with ,I'm responsible for how a conduct myself with those I maybe looking to play with .

the only thing I will say is this yes I will chat to them leave them on my friends list but what I will not do is ask them for another meet .I believe if your the one cancelling on another your the one who has to ask for the next meet not the one you cancelled on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get them on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that."

Why are people who haven't/don't wish to take a photo holding a piece of paper with their name on it shooting themselves and everyone else in the foot? There is a message filter for non verified people so it never has to be an issue if you don't want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??"

We are genuine and we havnt done it. Personal choice.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,not everyone asks for veries

On my old single profile i met people with no veries,we all have to start somewhere.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are people who haven't/don't wish to take a photo holding a piece of paper with their name on it shooting themselves and everyone else in the foot? There is a message filter for non verified people so it never has to be an issue if you don't want it to be. "

I thought I'd just explained why?

If everyone who was genuine was photo verified then we'd immediately know that a profile which wasn't must be a fake.

This works perfectly until a genuine profile decides they aren't going to bother. At that point now nobody knows.

Anyway... It's simple to us. If you want to meet us, ensure you're photo verified.

Because if you're not then you are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

We are genuine and we havnt done it. Personal choice."

A fake profile would say that,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd just explained why?

If everyone who was genuine was photo verified then we'd immediately know that a profile which wasn't must be a fake.

This works perfectly until a genuine profile decides they aren't going to bother. At that point now nobody knows.

Anyway... It's simple to us. If you want to meet us, ensure you're photo verified.

Because if you're not then you are fake.

That's you running your profile as you wish and people who don't want to verify for whatever reason (maybe fake who knows) doing exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd just explained why?

If everyone who was genuine was photo verified then we'd immediately know that a profile which wasn't must be a fake.

This works perfectly until a genuine profile decides they aren't going to bother. At that point now nobody knows.

Anyway... It's simple to us. If you want to meet us, ensure you're photo verified.

Because if you're not then you are fake.

That's you running your profile as you wish and people who don't want to verify for whatever reason (maybe fake who knows) doing exactly the same. "

Yep

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

I do not have veris.. I have my own reason.. But at least a verif photo means is not a fake...can ask for a short skype session before decide to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd just explained why?

If everyone who was genuine was photo verified then we'd immediately know that a profile which wasn't must be a fake.

This works perfectly until a genuine profile decides they aren't going to bother. At that point now nobody knows.

Anyway... It's simple to us. If you want to meet us, ensure you're photo verified.

Because if you're not then you are fake.

That's you running your profile as you wish and people who don't want to verify for whatever reason (maybe fake who knows) doing exactly the same. "

People can run their profiles as they wish.

If you choose to not have any pics, have no photo verification and no history whatsoever, the that's absolutely fine.

But please don't bother trying to say you're genuine. It's a waste of everyone time.

We all know there are massive a of fakes on this site. The genuine people should do as much as possible to counter them.

Not bothering to photo verify doesn't help the overall genuine community much.

If people can't see the logic to that.. Fine... Have a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I'd just explained why?

If everyone who was genuine was photo verified then we'd immediately know that a profile which wasn't must be a fake.

This works perfectly until a genuine profile decides they aren't going to bother. At that point now nobody knows.

Anyway... It's simple to us. If you want to meet us, ensure you're photo verified.

Because if you're not then you are fake.

That's you running your profile as you wish and people who don't want to verify for whatever reason (maybe fake who knows) doing exactly the same.

People can run their profiles as they wish.

If you choose to not have any pics, have no photo verification and no history whatsoever, the that's absolutely fine.

But please don't bother trying to say you're genuine. It's a waste of everyone time.

We all know there are massive a of fakes on this site. The genuine people should do as much as possible to counter them.

Not bothering to photo verify doesn't help the overall genuine community much.

If people can't see the logic to that.. Fine... Have a good day. "

I've never found it to be an issue. There are many other factors I take into account when considering a meet with someone, its just one of those many things. Thank you, you too my lovely

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over a year ago

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we have neither the time nor the inclination to arrange a social only meet , we wouldn't risk arranging a meet with a guy who appears hot but has no veri after a year .

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?"

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know! "

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke."

I don't have any issues with that, I don't have any issues with meeting people either. The way I run my profile means I cannot recieve veris because of my age filters. I really don't mind as I have no interest in them. People with will either want to meet me or they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

If you are chatting to people on here they can verify you, irrespective of your age filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

If you are chatting to people on here they can verify you, irrespective of your age filters

Not according to the last person that tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

We are genuine and we havnt done it. Personal choice.

A fake profile would say that,"

I guess we are fake then

Or maybe we have different ideas to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

If you are chatting to people on here they can verify you, irrespective of your age filters

Not according to the last person that tried. "

Maybe he didn't try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

There are sometimes polar opposites on here .

Your position is clear , and that's your choice .

Others are actively seeking contact , arranging meets and engaging in a completely different way to you .

All part of the rich and varied lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

If you are chatting to people on here they can verify you, irrespective of your age filters

Not according to the last person that tried.

Maybe he didn't try

Maybe he didn't but he said he sent one so I belive him. The only veri I have I had to change my age filters to be able to recieve it. Maybe its different now.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know! "

When I first joined on my previous profile, it took nine months of meeting a few people before getting a meet verification and I've never photo verified either

If the person wants to fuck you about and waste your time they will irregardless of any form of verification they may have, if a person wants to meet you they will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke.

There are sometimes polar opposites on here .

Your position is clear , and that's your choice .

Others are actively seeking contact , arranging meets and engaging in a completely different way to you .

All part of the rich and varied lifestyle

Exactly, everyone has the freedom to run their profile in a way that suits them.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Yes it does, and if it were me, I would do something to call their bluff as it were, ask for a phone number for a quick chat to discuss meeting, for example.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Nah...guys struggle on here..plus it may not be something he's flat out on because of how hard it is..he probably logs in now and again, and messages people thinking he won't get a response anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

We are genuine and we havnt done it. Personal choice.

A fake profile would say that,

I guess we are fake then

Or maybe we have different ideas to others

Who knows if you are or if you aren't.

But your profile, to us, would suggest that you are more likely to be fake than genuine.

So we wouldn't reply if you mailed us.

That's all we're saying.

If you are genuine.. Why aren't you acting it?

A fake acts fake because he's fake

A genuine acts genuine because they are genuine

A genuine who acts like a fake... .?? Seems foolish to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

I agree, photo verifications are worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

You have of course alerted admin to this haven't you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

Worth pointing out that you would hold this position as you have no photo veri, no history, and no pics.

Your profile screams single bloke."

I'm having a whale of a time meeting other people when I want to. And this profile isn't verified... and some of the people I meet aren't verified...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

I agree, photo verifications are worthless "

Again, you would say this... You don't have one.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new....."

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

You have of course alerted admin to this haven't you."

He did it as a little party trick for me and a few other attending the party and deleted the fake female profile straight after so there isn't much to report

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

I agree, photo verifications are worthless "

I've had it where I guy photverified as a 30 year old man and when he arrive for our meet he was easily in his sixties he'd just used pics from when he was younger on his profile

You could tell it was the same guy but was still not what photo verification to show "genuine" people should be used for

And yes I did send him packing and report him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only meet people whom are verified X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for all those saying photo verification means your genuine does it bollocks I've seen it faked first hand by a close fab friend

You have of course alerted admin to this haven't you.

He did it as a little party trick for me and a few other attending the party and deleted the fake female profile straight after so there isn't much to report "

Well it's not impossible to do.

It just adds an extra layer off authenticity, which may or may not be valid.

But if we all knew that everyone genuine profile was photo verified, then... All non photo verified profiles are automatically fake.

It's straight forward logic guys.

Do it, don't do it, meet whoever you want, wherever you want.. Be happy.

But if you don't... Just please don't moan in the forums about fakes..

Happy weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have verifications and photos which we happily and freely show to giys we are interested in meeting if they wish to see them.

However we have often met guys who have no veris and no photos. I guess we have been lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm getting a pattern here the people who seem to think verification is worthless are the ones that don't have any themselves

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm getting a pattern here the people who seem to think verification is worthless are the ones that don't have any themselves

I've got verifications and I think they're worthless

As I've said earlier up thread people that want to meet will, people that want to duck you about will it's really that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab gives you many tools to use to run your profile exactly how you want. People are free to use them if they wish or not, again, as they wish. There is no need for people to slag others off or get shirty with people who choose not to do things they way they do them. Too many people spend too much time worrying about how others go about their business on here.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"We have verifications and photos which we happily and freely show to giys we are interested in meeting if they wish to see them.

However we have often met guys who have no veris and no photos. I guess we have been lucky. "

Another lucky one here too, unless it's more to do with me being able to use my own common sense and take each person (even the unverified one) on their individual merits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting a pattern here the people who seem to think verification is worthless are the ones that don't have any themselves

I've got verifications and I think they're worthless

As I've said earlier up thread people that want to meet will, people that want to duck you about will it's really that simple "

Yes.... Don't forget... All the above blather about verifications has got nothing to do with actually turning up.

The most authentic, genuine people still may not show up. And the profile which looked a little dodgy may turn out to be very very genuine.

There's no real way of knowing how reliable anyone is.

It can be scary stuff this swinging malarkey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting a pattern here the people who seem to think verification is worthless are the ones that don't have any themselves

Not at all. I have verifications on my other profiles, and I could have a fair amount on this one if I wanted to.

On my other profile I hide the verifications usually, and then that leads to more questions about why I hide them. Usually from guys saying 'I bet you've slept with too many men, that's why you won't show me them'.

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By *ime 2 CumCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"A straight delete for us due to the time span. If it was a newbie we'd hotlist and make a note for the future."

^^ this, too long to be on and not even pic veried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't come on here to meet. Profiles that dont interest are easy to avoid.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??"

For the same reason I don't show face pics publicly

I have no desire to have a photo held on the Internet that clearly shows me holding a piece of paper saying I'm a swinger

Being photo verified doesn't show that you turn up for arranged socials or meets

Turning up for socials and meets does that, and getting verified as a result

I'm quite happy with how long I've been on this site and with the meets, parties, clubs, festivals I've been to and the other genuine folks I've met along the way, to know that being photo verified on here means nothing to the vast majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This - exactly covers it!

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

For the same reason I don't show face pics publicly

I have no desire to have a photo held on the Internet that clearly shows me holding a piece of paper saying I'm a swinger

Being photo verified doesn't show that you turn up for arranged socials or meets

Turning up for socials and meets does that, and getting verified as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... I think we agreed that verification doesn't mean you'll turn up.

"No photo veri equals no meet for us.

We've done it and expect any genuine profile to have done so too.

There's too many fakes and photo veri is a way of thinning those out.

Why would a genuine profile not do it??

For the same reason I don't show face pics publicly

I have no desire to have a photo held on the Internet that clearly shows me holding a piece of paper saying I'm a swinger

Being photo verified doesn't show that you turn up for arranged socials or meets

Turning up for socials and meets does that, and getting verified as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be wary but I also know the same guy could have a 3 week old profile and people would be less wary. Just follow your gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new....."

_eeside do you ever go on cam?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new.....

_eeside do you ever go on cam?"

No cos my fone can't use it and im not a pade member.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Ask him why no meets in over a year.

That answer he gives can be full of clues

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

At the end of the day and verified man can still be a no show ... I've had them!

If you like the look/ seemed to get on just arrange a coffee ... if after 15 mins or how long it takes you to drink up get up go shopping!

Build the social into a situation that you would do anyway.

No harm either if he does or doesn’t! !!!

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

From my experience definitely a time water. Had so many,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day and verified man can still be a no show ... I've had them!

If you like the look/ seemed to get on just arrange a coffee ... if after 15 mins or how long it takes you to drink up get up go shopping!

Build the social into a situation that you would do anyway.

No harm either if he does or doesn’t! !!!

Exactly this, its what I do. If unsure, suggest a possible time and place to meet then leave it with them to get back to you. If they're fake or a time waster they probably won't. Don't waste time exchanging messages, just say let me know when you fancy meeting and leave the ball in their court.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new.....

_eeside do you ever go on cam?

No cos my fone can't use it and im not a pade member."

Aww.

I would've done you a cam veri.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know! "

I did! Never bothered with it at all . Didn't actually really realize it existed until someone gave me a blasting for not returning a veri that she had given me.

I didn't even know she had sent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People could always try doing something novel;

Making up their own mind.

Or is that something no one ever does nowadays?

Non verifed people could be having a whale of a time meeting other non verified people every day of the week for all we know!

I did! Never bothered with it at all . Didn't actually really realize it existed until someone gave me a blasting for not returning a veri that she had given me.

I didn't even know she had sent it.

I'm not really fussed about them either, I'm here to have fun, not obsess over them. They have their part to play for some, and like myself, others don't really care. I prefer to make my own mind up about a person, not go on what a complete stranger has said about them after one meeting.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ive been on hear for 7 weeks now.

I no im still new atm but I've not even come clos to a meet yet and not expeting to get 1 any time soon cos as people well say thay want to meet thos with meet verifications.

This makes a looping problem to all hoo are not meet verified.

Ezakley how do you get a meet verification if no 1 is willing to meet them in the 1st place

And not everyone can get to a club for a possible random meet cos sum of us live miles away from them so its just not practical.

I sor 1 guy get 1 meet after 8 munts.....not ezakley a good rep of the site wen your new.....

_eeside do you ever go on cam?

No cos my fone can't use it and im not a pade member.

Aww.

I would've done you a cam veri. "

Thanks for the thort

its enoying me fone can't do it cos it just makes it harder on my end. I just hope it don't take 8 munts or Mor for my 1st meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would set my spidy sense tingling

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that."

Any 14 year old could fake a photo veri, and by using it as a benchmark for who is genuine, you are setting yourself up for a fall.

We put in the legwork early, got out there, went on cam, got to socials and parties and got veried, that's the only way to prove you are not fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send him to see me. I'll sleep with him and verify him for you. Love a six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always I would decline for sure.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

well we not read to much into veries.we have met lots from on here and never bothered.some we do if they ask.after we have played with them.tonight we are going chams and will have fun and games .but it wont prob get a verie for on here.still be a good night though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. Guys struggle on here so need to be given a chance. Although I'd ask him to share some pics first just to check there's an attraction

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri

Suppose it just prove's to other's that you're going to turn up and you are who you say you are.

It doesn't prove that you're going to turn up."

I didn't mean on every occasion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting a pattern here the people who seem to think verification is worthless are the ones that don't have any themselves

I've got verifications and I think they're worthless

As I've said earlier up thread people that want to meet will, people that want to duck you about will it's really that simple "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

A red flag. Either a sad tosser, a classic example of a guy who gets off on perving pics and looking to boost his fragile ego

Not interested

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

It would make me suspicious as to wether they are real/meet but at the same time I don't read veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

A red flag. Either a sad tosser, a classic example of a guy who gets off on perving pics and looking to boost his fragile ego

Not interested"

Women do that all the time but it's only bad if it's a man right.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Yes

A red flag. Either a sad tosser, a classic example of a guy who gets off on perving pics and looking to boost his fragile ego

Not interested

Women do that all the time but it's only bad if it's a man right. "

well said scarlet I really do like your forum personality you know one day I'm going to have to have a social with you as I feel we would really have a great natter on that social

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

The only thing worse than "no veris" is fucking "cam veri's" what a load of old bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing worse than "no veris" is fucking "cam veri's" what a load of old bollocks

To be fair, pretty much everything on here is a load of old bollocks that some take way too seriously!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"The only thing worse than "no veris" is fucking "cam veri's" what a load of old bollocks

To be fair, pretty much everything on here is a load of old bollocks that some take way too seriously!"

I tell you what's a load of old bollocks.....that planet zog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that.

Any 14 year old could fake a photo veri, and by using it as a benchmark for who is genuine, you are setting yourself up for a fall.

We put in the legwork early, got out there, went on cam, got to socials and parties and got veried, that's the only way to prove you are not fake.

What a stupid comment,

Any 14 year old can break into your house, but you still lock your doors at night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that.

Any 14 year old could fake a photo veri, and by using it as a benchmark for who is genuine, you are setting yourself up for a fall.

We put in the legwork early, got out there, went on cam, got to socials and parties and got veried, that's the only way to prove you are not fake.

What a stupid comment,

Any 14 year old can break into your house, but you still lock your doors at night.

Do you leave you doors unlocked then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say they are easily faked.

You'd need some skills, which if the faker doesn't have, takes them out of the game.

I'm not suggesting they are fool proof. But nothing is.

However, a profile with verification by meet plus a photo veri is going to be more appealing than one without.

That's just common sense.

If you lack either it then suggests that you're fake.

And therefore immediately consigned to the bin.

That doesn't mean that everyone in the bin is fake or that everyone who's left is genuine.

But if everyone who was genuine ensured they were photo verified, then we'd all know for sure that the lack of one immediately meant the profile was fake.

So... By not doing it... You're actually shooting yourself in the foot. And everyone else.

So well done. Thanks for that.

Any 14 year old could fake a photo veri, and by using it as a benchmark for who is genuine, you are setting yourself up for a fall.

We put in the legwork early, got out there, went on cam, got to socials and parties and got veried, that's the only way to prove you are not fake.

What a stupid comment,

Any 14 year old can break into your house, but you still lock your doors at night.

I'd lock my doors in Garstang too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chose not be verified despite my meets;

as I matter of fact I went out of my way and said before the meet took place that I will not leave a veri and I don't want one either; I explained my reasons behind and everyone is happy with that arrangement

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

For me yes it does. I wouldn't necessarily stop chatting but i would be cautious.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Set up a social and take it from there. You could be his first veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose not be verified despite my meets;

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)"

Can I ask why your so against verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's raised suspicion with every woman he ever messaged..poor man just wants laid but he just ain't got the right paperwork so the ladies keep on having this discussion and passing him over for the next one. Or maybe they're fake. Nobody actually knows for sure till they say yes.

it's schrodingers male

Open the box and end the suspense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose not be verified despite my meets;

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)

Can I ask why your so against verifications "

Double security..If the wife does ping the account then he can claim he never met anyone and was just curious and was going to tell her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose not be verified despite my meets;

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)

Can I ask why your so against verifications

Double security..If the wife does ping the account then he can claim he never met anyone and was just curious and was going to tell her

That old chestnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose not be verified despite my meets;

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)

Can I ask why your so against verifications

Double security..If the wife does ping the account then he can claim he never met anyone and was just curious and was going to tell her

Spot on mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im suspicous of everything on the net, not just fab, alot of fukd up people out there and i dont know which is worse, the ones that know theyre fukd up or the ones that dont

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I'd wonder why he couldn't photo verify, but it wouldn't really bother me that much. I'd just arrange to meet them for coffee.

Do you think chances are they wouldn't show ? "

If you both fancy him, you really should invite him for a pub or coffee social. As a couple you won't face the indignity of being stood up, plus you can actually report back to us all and answer this thread with facts rather than just vague allusions and stereotypes. It would also finish this thread off rather neatly.

Just a suggestion

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verification means nothing , especially for a man .

We would : talk on the phone

Meet for coffee at a location not too far and not to time critical

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

He's probably married and his wife doesn't know he's on here that's all its the same with me

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

prob fake another thing about veirs is I seen some guys on here 1 had 11 meets and all the women he met have hidden profiles now what is the chance of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He's probably married and his wife doesn't know he's on here that's all its the same with me "

Nothing to be proud of, but that's another topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would put us off. If the guys a genuine swinger then he could go to socials or clubs to be verified its not hard to meet other people from this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep there are lots of profiles like that, I just assume pic collector or fantasist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the deal with veris. I've had 2 meets and feel no way compelled to get a veri"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I chose not be verified despite my meets;

So just because someone has been here for awhile with no veris doesn't mean the u haven't met anyone; if you are not sure then ask

If you have doubts meet at a public place for coffee/lunch (which is something I do all the time regardless if the person I am meeting has veris on the profile or not)"

The one flaw in this plan is you've now just admitted you've met people on a public forum that someone doesn't even have to be a member of the site to read/access it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no veri's make me suspicion BUT only because of a situation I found myself in before.

I do read the veri's to check they are safe to meet.

But that's my own personal feelings

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Prefer some verification, especially after a year on this site. Surely not that difficult to get a social meeting to prove you are real.

Probably one of the many one handed jokers, fake photos with no intention of ever meeting.

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