FabSwingers.com forum: just to vent our disappointmet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its a shame when you go to so much trouble arrange a venue and give guys who say they will be there for a gangbang all the detais they need and they dont turn up no appolagies or nothing if they read this they know who they are all that planning and organising gone to waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a shame but im afraid par for the course, most get scared at the last minute, some are married and some are just taking the piss

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"its a shame when you go to so much trouble arrange a venue and give guys who say they will be there for a gangbang all the detais they need and they dont turn up no appolagies or nothing if they read this they know who they are all that planning and organising gone to waste "

I though the rule is if you want 10 guys you invite 20, if you want 5 guys you invite 10. Always about half of who is invited will not show up. I went to a gangbang about 3 weeks ago. 22 guys invited and 5 showed up.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Wow just seen your pics. Any guy who did not show up is a fool.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

What a bugger! i know a few ppl who have arranged sucessful GB's ,why not start an advice thread and see what they have to say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we know just how you feel some guy was coming here sat never turnd up so as a result sat night ruined

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Sorry to hear of your woes, but take it from someone who's tried (and other people's experiences), when organising a gangbang, always invite double the number you need. You want 10? Invite 20. If you get them all then happy days.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I have to say gangbangs don't appeal to me personally, but I bet a lot of guys think they would love to try one then get cold feet when the date actually approaches.

Sorry it didn't work out for you.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

1..invite double the amount required

2..then of the ones who turn up, expect:

some will actually shag

some will get stage fright

one will go back to the car for something and never be seen again.

sorry you have been let down, maybe go for some of the guys who have formed a group profile, if any in your area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the guys that turned up played well so wasnt a total loss

but we went for verified guys and guys who said they had experience anyway lessons have been learnt

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"the guys that turned up played well so wasnt a total loss

but we went for verified guys and guys who said they had experience anyway lessons have been learnt

good to hear you had a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I followed this advice when organazing my 1st (and do date) last gangbang, I wanted 5 max, so I invited 8. What happened 8 showed up, and no one went to their car never to be seen again!

For me that number was to much, it wasnt the experience I wanted, I felt over whelmed. I think the mistake I made, was I took to long to plan it, and I was chatting to the guys for ages, so it was like doing 8 1 on 1 meets at the same time, if that makes sense??

Since im not the type to give up after the 1st try I will be doing it again, this Saturday.

This time I have let someone else organize, and 5 will be the max. So hopefully this one will go better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2..then of the ones who turn up, expect:

some will actually shag

some will get stage fright

one will go back to the car for something and never be seen again.

Soooo true, had all the above happen

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"See I followed this advice when organazing my 1st (and do date) last gangbang, I wanted 5 max, so I invited 8. What happened 8 showed up, and no one went to their car never to be seen again!

Since im not the type to give up after the 1st try I will be doing it again, this Saturday.

This time I have let someone else organize, and 5 will be the max. So hopefully this one will go better."

Never rains but it pours eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its crazy that guys don't turn up, but personally its all about bravado. You see all these single guys starting threads moaning about never getting meets, all stating they are virile hot studs who will lick pussy for hours and maintain an erection for houts, in reality they'd crap themselves faced with having to perform in front of a group of men.

It is a shame when you've gone to the trouble of organising. My friend followed the advice of inviting twice the number of guys and 4 turned up, unfortunately its a common problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mmm it would appear to be a common problem but not put off

they will get a tounge lashing and it wont be the good kind either .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to be a very common problem. Guys asking to be invited ,you send then details and the swear they want to fuck you senseless .......and surprise surprise they turnout to be letdowns. I ditto the advice invite more than you want in the chance you will get half of them to turn up. Those gangbangs I have had ( I love them!!!)the guys who have turned up have certainly enjoyed themselves.

How about making a list of invites and cross them off future parties if they dont show up !!! only an idea!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It must be tough arranging GBs - having to find guys, then having to find backups for the guys who pull out, then what happens when the no-shows occur?

I am happy to have others arrange them on my behalf to avoid that happening but I would like to arrange my own so I can pick the guys I want.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Wow pity you are only looking large cocks. You are very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to arrange my own gangbangs so i can select the guys myself and always double the number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would luv to arrange a gangbang but scared that no one would turn up and so waste money and time etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just waiting now to see what the feeble excuses they come out with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would luv to arrange a gangbang but scared that no one would turn up and so waste money and time etc."

there are few groups in london who could arrange it for you .....i know !!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The thing is with alot of guys is gangbangs are a great fantasy along with mff. But goes get horny, they like the idea of a gangbang, then when they have knocked one out to the thought of it reality sets in. Being in close proximity to lots of other guys naked. Being able to perform in front of other guys or just genuinely bottle it.

To have a succesful gangbang my advice would be, choose guys that you know have done gangbangs in the past. Chat to them, beforehand, make sure they are going to be comfortable. Nothing is a given and you can never be sure. Most of the ones ive had ive had either full house or up to 80% attendance although i did arrange one where noone turned up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is with alot of guys is gangbangs are a great fantasy along with mff. But goes get horny, they like the idea of a gangbang, then when they have knocked one out to the thought of it reality sets in. Being in close proximity to lots of other guys naked. Being able to perform in front of other guys or just genuinely bottle it.

Agree with diamonds and just to add there are a few male groups on here if you browse MM on here there are several who do regular gangbangs morelikely to show up than the singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alot i think bottle out .. when it comes down to the real meet ... maybe wanking and getting off on thats all some can handle really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hahahahaha the first excuse what a good one

my internet went down(fault with mobile dongle) and i had an emergency to deal with and by the time i got back home it was almost 9pm xx p.s hopefully i can make it next time

lol and the cheek of the p.s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah well you know what you can say to them - if a playmate let me down, regardless of the excuse, there is never a next time

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

No-shows are the bain of any organisers life. Don't think though that single (or supposedly single) guys are the only ones...it's just as bad organising a party for couples.

Basically I think it's a people thing, and some people (male or female, single or not) are reliable, and others are not. Only time and experience s out the wheat from the chaff, and if you are prepared to give it another go, with the nucleus of who came last time, and build on it, eventually you'll get there. Persistance pays off in the end.

Good luck for next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of guys lose their nerve when they actually have an invite or the excuse they gave the missus to go out looks like it won't work

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There are a few groups that arrange gangbangs, might be worth contacting one of those.

We did and it worked out very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think there are some that get off on the idea, crack one off and then feel satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like gangbangs....

which is why we go to clubs on a singles night, no need to pre arrange, also its better because you never know what your gonna get, like a box of chocolates....in the hands of a greedy girl!!!

Not to sound like we are promoting them,(but then the more the merrier!!) but we have had lots of fun at Tease 2 in Alconbury. It is also a hotel so its easy to stay overnight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think there are some that get off on the idea, crack one off and then feel satisfied."

I would agree with you on that one!!

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

Sorry to hear of your woes, but take it from someone who's tried (and other people's experiences), when organising a gangbang,

always invite double the number you need. You want 10? Invite 20. If you get them all then

happy day

See I followed this advice when organazing my 1st (and do date) last gangbang, I wanted 5 max, so I invited 8. What happened 8 showed up, and no one went to their car never to be seen again!

For me that number was to much, it wasnt the experience I wanted, I felt over whelmed. I think

the mistake I made, was I took to long to plan it, and I was chatting to the guys for ages, so it was like doing 8 1 on 1 meets at the same time, if that makes sense?

Since im not the type to give up after the 1st try I will be doing it again, this Saturday.

This time I have let someone else organize, and 5 will be the max. So hopefully this one will go

better."

So 5 is a gang bang and not mmmfmm then?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Sorry to hear of your woes, but take it from someone who's tried (and other people's experiences), when organising a gangbang,

always invite double the number you need. You want 10? Invite 20. If you get them all then

happy day

See I followed this advice when organazing my 1st (and do date) last gangbang, I wanted 5 max, so I invited 8. What happened 8 showed up, and no one went to their car never to be seen again!

For me that number was to much, it wasnt the experience I wanted, I felt over whelmed. I think

the mistake I made, was I took to long to plan it, and I was chatting to the guys for ages, so it was like doing 8 1 on 1 meets at the same time, if that makes sense?

Since im not the type to give up after the 1st try I will be doing it again, this Saturday.

This time I have let someone else organize, and 5 will be the max. So hopefully this one will go

better.

So 5 is a gang bang and not mmmfmm then?

Yes I would class 5 as a gangbang....to me 3 and over would be.

2 would be a tag team

But sure others will think differently

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I love the fact people are justifying these no shows with the whole "they probably bottle it/get nervous/are married" Like this is a good enough reason for not showing and not letting anyone know.

Get real. It's unacceptable and if less people were so tolerant of it, i'm sure it would happen less.

*Her*

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

"I love the fact people are justifying these no shows with the whole "they probably bottle it/get nervous/are married" Like this is a good enough reason for not showing and not letting anyone know.

Get real. It's unacceptable and if less people were so tolerant of it, i'm sure it would happen less.

*Her*"

Not sure how you would police it or 'punish' those who don't attend.

Isn't tolerance part of the swinging etiquette and life style?

Maybe a signed contract and penalty for breech is the answer? Very Tongue in cheek! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love my first gangbang too - never had more than 3 and that only once lol

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