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The difference between men and women

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By *halia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

We all know that there's a massive disparity in the numbers between men and women on here.

Obviously, as a single woman, I think it's great. I can order myself a willing gentleman friend quicker than ordering a pizza. I have had a bunch of delightful NSA encounters with men who I've met on here.

But WHY are women less willing to take part in non-relationship-y sex than men, do you think? Is it nature or nurture? Are we women raised to think that "ladies" don't have sex for fun?

Or are we just wired differently? (In which case, I'm clearly wired wrong. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you watch wildlife programs you will notice the same in all animals creatures ect, its all ways the male that actively persues the lady, and the lady all ways plays hard to get and all ways gets what she wants,

imagine if the ladys did persue us guys as we do them ,

we would all just fuck eachother senseless

is that good or bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because men are more intellegent. They have two brains and women have one. (Flippancy warning).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can answer this question with a little science behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol."
You should try going to a nightclub once instead of gym, it's not so hard for lads either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol.You should try going to a nightclub once instead of gym, it's not so hard for lads either "
That is right, although the gym is a good social club too, yeah I rather spend my money on chicken you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my female friends don't have sex anymore XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol.You should try going to a nightclub once instead of gym, it's not so hard for lads either That is right, although the gym is a good social club too, yeah I rather spend my money on chicken you know "

And wholegrain bread, and eggs and peanut butters

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We all know that there's a massive disparity in the numbers between men and women on here.

Obviously, as a single woman, I think it's great. I can order myself a willing gentleman friend quicker than ordering a pizza. I have had a bunch of delightful NSA encounters with men who I've met on here.

But WHY are women less willing to take part in non-relationship-y sex than men, do you think? Is it nature or nurture? Are we women raised to think that "ladies" don't have sex for fun?

Or are we just wired differently? (In which case, I'm clearly wired wrong. )"

Is thats the case then I am wired VERY wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol."

Hahaha it's not quite THAT easy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol.You should try going to a nightclub once instead of gym, it's not so hard for lads either That is right, although the gym is a good social club too, yeah I rather spend my money on chicken you know

And wholegrain bread, and eggs and peanut butters "
Yes bread as well and haribos for the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know that there's a massive disparity in the numbers between men and women on here.

Obviously, as a single woman, I think it's great. I can order myself a willing gentleman friend quicker than ordering a pizza. I have had a bunch of delightful NSA encounters with men who I've met on here.

But WHY are women less willing to take part in non-relationship-y sex than men, do you think? Is it nature or nurture? Are we women raised to think that "ladies" don't have sex for fun?

Or are we just wired differently? (In which case, I'm clearly wired wrong. )

Is thats the case then I am wired VERY wrong! "

Oh I wouldn't say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because women dont need to be online to get a shag, they can just pick up who ever on the street lol.

Hahaha it's not quite THAT easy!! "
That is right as well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can answer this question with a little science behind it."

If we answered this sensibly we would say men and women do in fact behave differently, and I feel this is down to nurture and nature.

I feel society treats men and women as differently as mars and venus when it comes to sex, and all the factors that make sex important to us as humans.

I also feel that men and women are wired differently and although we are rational beings we are also a jumble of hormones.

Evolutionarly sex is associated with child birth and raising a family. Different demands are placed upon when compairing the roles men and women have in first procretion and then raising childen.

In the whilwind of the interaction of culture and biology it does not surprise me that men and women (as groups) behave differently. Of course the characteristics of the group cannot be applied to any individual that forms part of that group very relibably at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can answer this question with a little science behind it.

If we answered this sensibly we would say men and women do in fact behave differently, and I feel this is down to nurture and nature.

I feel society treats men and women as differently as mars and venus when it comes to sex, and all the factors that make sex important to us as humans.

I also feel that men and women are wired differently and although we are rational beings we are also a jumble of hormones.

Evolutionarly sex is associated with child birth and raising a family. Different demands are placed upon when compairing the roles men and women have in first procretion and then raising childen.

In the whilwind of the interaction of culture and biology it does not surprise me that men and women (as groups) behave differently. Of course the characteristics of the group cannot be applied to any individual that forms part of that group very relibably at all."

Not a bad analysis.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We all know that there's a massive disparity in the numbers between men and women on here.

Obviously, as a single woman, I think it's great. I can order myself a willing gentleman friend quicker than ordering a pizza. I have had a bunch of delightful NSA encounters with men who I've met on here.

But WHY are women less willing to take part in non-relationship-y sex than men, do you think? Is it nature or nurture? Are we women raised to think that "ladies" don't have sex for fun?

Or are we just wired differently? (In which case, I'm clearly wired wrong. )

Is thats the case then I am wired VERY wrong!

Oh I wouldn't say that "

Sweet talking sod

Ug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can answer this question with a little science behind it.

If we answered this sensibly we would say men and women do in fact behave differently, and I feel this is down to nurture and nature.

I feel society treats men and women as differently as mars and venus when it comes to sex, and all the factors that make sex important to us as humans.

I also feel that men and women are wired differently and although we are rational beings we are also a jumble of hormones.

Evolutionarly sex is associated with child birth and raising a family. Different demands are placed upon when compairing the roles men and women have in first procretion and then raising childen.

In the whilwind of the interaction of culture and biology it does not surprise me that men and women (as groups) behave differently. Of course the characteristics of the group cannot be applied to any individual that forms part of that group very relibably at all."

Very well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's part due to women being programmed from a young age not to enjoy sex

When I was younger girls who engaged in any sexual activity were sluts (conversely you were fridgid if you didn't)

I know I was raised on a "nice girls don't do that sort of thing " mentality

You can see evidence of it everywhere in the media, the double standard of being a sexual being ... men are studs, women are sluts

Or course that is just one small aspect of a comple issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the above really. Women are shamed for being sexual and men are shamed for not being, or they used to be. I was promiscuous from the age of 16 and have been called a slag (behind my back mostly but also to my face).

Sites like this are better than going out and picking up people because nobody in this town knows what i'm up to so doesn't know my business. They can fuck off anyway but i like it better when they don't know.

I think you can see what happens when women have control over sexuality and embrace that. Men don't get as regular sex as what they want, not surprised patriarchy suited a lot of them.

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