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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

We are all used to the many forum posts from guys saying that the ladies don't reply to their messages!

Well I just wanted to even up the books as it works both ways! I send messages with no replies or not even opened or deleted unopened too. Not complaining because I get it! It's OK not to reply if he isn't interested in me.

But just saying.... because I have a queue if unopened messages I sent guys! It happens! Don't sweat it!

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"We are all used to the many forum posts from guys saying that the ladies don't reply to their messages!

Well I just wanted to even up the books as it works both ways! I send messages with no replies or not even opened or deleted unopened too. Not complaining because I get it! It's OK not to reply if he isn't interested in me.

But just saying.... because I have a queue if unopened messages I sent guys! It happens! Don't sweat it! "

I bet Ive got 100 to your 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes we cant reply as your settings are from site supporters only xx

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent


"We are all used to the many forum posts from guys saying that the ladies don't reply to their messages!

Well I just wanted to even up the books as it works both ways! I send messages with no replies or not even opened or deleted unopened too. Not complaining because I get it! It's OK not to reply if he isn't interested in me.

But just saying.... because I have a queue if unopened messages I sent guys! It happens! Don't sweat it! "

I'd reply to you in a heartbeat

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"sometimes we cant reply as your settings are from site supporters only xx"

I wasn't complaining. It was just a point that it applies to women too! That we sometimes initiate the first contact without success too. Thats all.

In regard to your point, if I write to someone first then they can reply....regardless of my settings (if they want to of course).

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"We are all used to the many forum posts from guys saying that the ladies don't reply to their messages!

Well I just wanted to even up the books as it works both ways! I send messages with no replies or not even opened or deleted unopened too. Not complaining because I get it! It's OK not to reply if he isn't interested in me.

But just saying.... because I have a queue if unopened messages I sent guys! It happens! Don't sweat it!

I bet Ive got 100 to your 1"

Well I am not in competition lol. I don't send 100 messages lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'd say, when we send out first messages that only around half are replied to.

It's single men, in our experience that often reply the least. (To us anyway)

Oh well, we don't cry too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There loss OP, silly sausages xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all used to the many forum posts from guys saying that the ladies don't reply to their messages!

Well I just wanted to even up the books as it works both ways! I send messages with no replies or not even opened or deleted unopened too. Not complaining because I get it! It's OK not to reply if he isn't interested in me.

I agree people have a right to respond or not respond you cant be everyones cup of tea.

But just saying.... because I have a queue if unopened messages I sent guys! It happens! Don't sweat it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There loss OP, silly sausages xx

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Definitely would be there loss

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Lol!!! I only wrote this forum post to inform the guys that it isn't just them. Personally? I couldn't care less because it acts as a filter for me. If someone doesn't reply then they aren't interested! Simple! It makes it easy. I certainly don't worry about it like some sort. That is all I am saying x

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By *ubbykitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"

I'd say, when we send out first messages that only around half are replied to.

It's single men, in our experience that often reply the least. (To us anyway)

Oh well, we don't cry too much! "

OK well I MIGHT cry if he is REALLY hot and I am REALLY horny! Lol!!!!

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