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Next time men complain they can't get any meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far this evening, we have been let down by one guy.

Messaged three others all of whom are not looking to meet tonight.

Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly part of the problem on this site, its difficult to stand out as a single guy cos its a sausage fest and invariably couples looking for a bit extra pick the wrong guy, get let down and think we are all timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly part of the problem on this site, its difficult to stand out as a single guy cos its a sausage fest and invariably couples looking for a bit extra pick the wrong guy, get let down and think we are all timewasters."

You got it in one mate

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"So far this evening, we have been let down by one guy.

Messaged three others all of whom are not looking to meet tonight.

Grrrrrr "

Cheek of the other guys .... Really ..imagine..not dropping everything for a meet..

If this were a single guy posting he'd be told to block and report the person who didn't show and put a meet request up..

Have fun.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

When you say let down..what's the guy done / not done ??

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Sadly part of the problem on this site, its difficult to stand out as a single guy cos its a sausage fest and invariably couples looking for a bit extra pick the wrong guy, get let down and think we are all timewasters."

So True!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So far this evening, we have been let down by one guy.

Messaged three others all of whom are not looking to meet tonight.

Grrrrrr "

Sorry to here this OP because as a couple I enjoy reading your forum posts when you post .

I think swinging has changed in recent years away from building a circle of select friends for fun into bed hopping and notch collecting for a lot of people .

But hay that's not what this post is about . OP by voicing this in the forum your mail box will now be full of offers I would have put my hat into the ring to as like I said I like you from your forum posts but sadly its Friday moving as a write this to short of a notice for me sadly .

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Did the guy or guys have any veris? There are lots of time wasters on here and that's not just single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are a lot of people on here of both sexes who have no intention of meeting but get off on the thrill.

Sometimes you pick one and it's just bad luck.

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

Bad form on behalf of the guy who let you down.

However, I take exception that often the attitude of some women/couples that if they contact a guy they should drop everything and turn up when requested.

It's ok for a guy to be busy, or indeed just not fancy it or you.....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So far this evening, we have been let down by one guy.

Messaged three others all of whom are not looking to meet tonight.

Grrrrrr "

What?!!

You contacted three men who declined to drop everything and come service you?!!

Fuck off!!! Single men don't have a life, are desperate and will fuck anything on offer, so I don't believe you!

If they did, how very dare they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly part of the problem on this site, its difficult to stand out as a single guy cos its a sausage fest and invariably couples looking for a bit extra pick the wrong guy, get let down and think we are all timewasters.

So True!!"

I've found this too, found not one lady or couple that will will meet, social to build on or otherwise, bord and fed up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to let someone down at the last minute before, it's called real life.

I wonder if they messaged 3 other women & expected an instantaneous meet, somehow I think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far this evening, we have been let down by one guy.

Messaged three others all of whom are not looking to meet tonight.

Grrrrrr

What?!!

You contacted three men who declined to drop everything and come service you?!!

Fuck off!!! Single men don't have a life, are desperate and will fuck anything on offer, so I don't believe you!

If they did, how very dare they! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow what a bunch of sanctimonious of...

You all are.

Really do like to jump on the bandwagon when one starts you all do!

Of course we were not expecting people to drop everything just coz we ask ffs we are not that bloody arrogant.

And of course people have bloody lives.

The actual point I was making before you all made up your minds to start.

Guy's moan they can't get any meets.

Correct?

We in one evening asked 5

Guy's for a meet point being that people do actually ask guy's for meets.

In fact we generally always instigate the first time, it's not the guy.

So as I said.

Guys complain they can't get meets.

Yet we were let down and asked others.

We didn't expect a result, mearly putting it out there that couples do try to get meets as well.

So what would you like to add now?

Come on don't be shy, you all seem to enjoy throwing your two pennies worth in.

Bring it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So couples struggle to get meets too. Is this supposed to shock everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your inability to find a meet nor that you got let down that I find hard to grasp it's the wildly sweeping statement that all men should now be held accountable. Some guys couldn't/ wouldn't meet and so therefore ALL men now have no reason to moan?

I'm sure that the hive mind of all single guys that makes them all act the same way will pay attention to your thread

Beard

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted as comment above has already been made many times already .. If only I'd read the whole thread through first hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deleted as comment above has already been made many times already .. If only I'd read the whole thread through first hey? "

Is this sort of prevarication that gives single guys a bad name

Beard

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