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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ? "
live and let live, people and times change, go with the flow..the diversity on here is vast...enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ? "

I think the world is as broad as it is long and that to navigate it we can use one of many paths; I don't judge those that choose a different path.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ? "

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?"

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it."
there is such a thing as polyamory you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think if I were single and looking for a relationship, I would ideally want a man who was on the swing scene, or at the very least shared my approach to non-monogamy. Therefore I would look within the swing scene for a relationship. Not saying Fab would be that solution, but I guess it could be a solution. All hypothetical of course.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it. there is such a thing as polyamory you know..

"

I'm only familiar with ballamory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !! "

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site "

Yes. That's called humour

Jeeeez

If you don't care for the thread

Join a different one

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm looking for love.... and luuuurve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site "

I think he's trying to show the size of his finger . A nice big finger is necessary for making a lady gush, so a very good asset to have lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women expect the men to be just for them but they can fill there boots. That's what I find

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it. there is such a thing as polyamory you know..

I'm only familiar with ballamory "
well imagine josie jump, miss hulliey and all the others hugging kissing and having sex with each other frrely because they like each other, yet still have the ability to act like adults, around each other,its kinda like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site

I think he's trying to show the size of his finger . A nice big finger is necessary for making a lady gush, so a very good asset to have lol "

I was only being silly btw. It's a great thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not looking for a relationship on here. only 3sums. this place is my go to place from now on so i don't fuck anyone i'm dating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site

I think he's trying to show the size of his finger . A nice big finger is necessary for making a lady gush, so a very good asset to have lol

I was only being silly btw. It's a great thread "

It's my finger doing an impersonation of a cock as to respect the 'no cock' preferences and make people raw with laughter at the very notion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site

I think he's trying to show the size of his finger . A nice big finger is necessary for making a lady gush, so a very good asset to have lol

I was only being silly btw. It's a great thread

It's my finger doing an impersonation of a cock as to respect the 'no cock' preferences and make people raw with laughter at the very notion "

I realised that. But what a lot of people forget is that a finger is very important for giving pleasure. So maybe you are starting a trend - here's a picture of my finger, is it big enough enough for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it. there is such a thing as polyamory you know..

As long as both partners agree to it then we agree totally.

Otherwise we guess it is simply called cheating.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We think there is no issue if they are up front about it. Not sure the relevance of the question if it doesn't matter ?

Errrrrr

A forum asking for opinions !!

Ah, I see. A bit like, why post a photo of a remote control on a sex site

I think he's trying to show the size of his finger . A nice big finger is necessary for making a lady gush, so a very good asset to have lol

I was only being silly btw. It's a great thread

It's my finger doing an impersonation of a cock as to respect the 'no cock' preferences and make people raw with laughter at the very notion

I realised that. But what a lot of people forget is that a finger is very important for giving pleasure. So maybe you are starting a trend - here's a picture of my finger, is it big enough enough for you? "

Never thought of that

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"It is becoming more and more apparent that this site is leaning towards a dating site

Members openly stating they are looking for relationships

I have no issue with this as long as they are being totally upfront about it

What do we think ?

We think as long as they are not already in a relationship there is no problem in it. there is such a thing as polyamory you know..

As long as both partners agree to it then we agree totally.

Otherwise we guess it is simply called cheating.

"
lets not go there...we all know my response to that one..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can we keep it light please

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Can we keep it light please "
xx

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I think it's the same as ever just people may feel more comfortable to let others know that's what they want ....

It's just a lifestyle choice ..... you either want one thing or another but things change over time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen many a relationship started on here, and my experience is they end in disaster, through mistrust and jealousy.......shame.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think people can use the site however they like,where better to meet someone like minded ?

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like with everything on here, I like the profiles where people are upfront about how they use the site and what they're ideally looking for. I've had periods of time looking for/hoping to forge a relationship on here, and that's specifically because *if* I did have another relationship I'd want it to include swinging together and enjoying the scene together (I love watching as well as participating). I'm no longer actively looking for that, but still open minded about the future. I've happily had FB where that's categorically off the cards for them, and I have no issue with that either. I appreciate their honesty. I like that there's such a variety of people on here looking for different things....it is the spice of life ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women expect the men to be just for them but they can fill there boots. That's what I find "

I have found the total opposite as well..

Some men want women to be loyal to them whilst they carry on swinging ..

Double standards strike again

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

sorry hadto post it keeps going on in my head, when i see this thread..

Whitesnake - looking for love. lyrics

I'm tired of waiting

An' closing my eyes

I'm asking myself

Why is it all my horizons

Are so far away

I look in the mirror

Don't like what I see

In my reflection

A stranger is staring at me

Looking for love

The love of a woman

The needs of a man

I try so hard to believe

But I don't understand

The search goes on

But over the mountains

Across the sea

I know love is waiting

I hear it calling to me

Calling my name

I'm looking for love all around me

Looking for love to surround me

The love that I need

To rescue the state of my heart, yeah

Alone again, it's always the same

I've just been marking my time

Since the day I was born

With no one to blame

The candle is burning

It's way down low

I just need someone

To show me the way, the way to go

Which way to go

I'm looking for love all around me

Looking for love to surround me

The love that I need

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I changed my profile earlier, it stated that I was looking for a relationship but it was mainly used as a deterrent...

And I have to say it worked very well as loads of people looked but stayed away in droves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sorry hadto post it keeps going on in my head, when i see this thread..

Whitesnake - looking for love. lyrics

I'm tired of waiting

An' closing my eyes

I'm asking myself

Why is it all my horizons

Are so far away

I look in the mirror

Don't like what I see

In my reflection

A stranger is staring at me

Looking for love

The love of a woman

The needs of a man

I try so hard to believe

But I don't understand

The search goes on

But over the mountains

Across the sea

I know love is waiting

I hear it calling to me

Calling my name

I'm looking for love all around me

Looking for love to surround me

The love that I need

To rescue the state of my heart, yeah

Alone again, it's always the same

I've just been marking my time

Since the day I was born

With no one to blame

The candle is burning

It's way down low

I just need someone

To show me the way, the way to go

Which way to go

I'm looking for love all around me

Looking for love to surround me

The love that I need

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love

An' finding only heartache

I'm looking for love to rely on

Looking for love, a shoulder to cry on

I'm looking for love

To rescue the state of my heart"

Wow

And a top tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is right, women are changing how swinging is, as they are holding all the cards, as it is on their terms, it is not as much anymore driving into the woods with masks then parked up for outdoor shagging as it is known for.

NSA dating/husband/marriage, is the new swinging.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"That is right, women are changing how swinging is, as they are holding all the cards, as it is on their terms, it is not as much anymore driving into the woods with masks then parked up for outdoor shagging as it is known for.

NSA dating/husband/marriage, is the new swinging."
who gave us the cards..?

get a backbone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is right, women are changing how swinging is, as they are holding all the cards, as it is on their terms, it is not as much anymore driving into the woods with masks then parked up for outdoor shagging as it is known for.

NSA dating/husband/marriage, is the new swinging. who gave us the cards..?

get a backbone.. "
By the card dealer you know lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"That is right, women are changing how swinging is, as they are holding all the cards, as it is on their terms, it is not as much anymore driving into the woods with masks then parked up for outdoor shagging as it is known for.

NSA dating/husband/marriage, is the new swinging. who gave us the cards..?

get a backbone.. By the card dealer you know lol "
be your own card dealer..do you play poker? same rules for that..at the table, play your own advantages and game..being yourself allows you to meet a match anyway..playing games doesn't...if you want to play poker..learn the game, no ones there to teach you...we already know..what i want is someone who knows who he is and makes me want to lose all my chips and clothes to him...

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