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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately."

Take it further and hire a ninja assassin

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Well of course they are they don't know you

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We have a right to have a personal preference that's all.

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By *methyst01Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Atleast all the fat,bald men know that Tiggy might accept them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says more about them than you. Wouldn't want to meet anyone like that. Block and move on happily

Kinky

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Atleast all the fat,bald men know that Tiggy might accept them "

That's a very good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately."

Who to?... The bald fat police?

Surely they have stated a preference to guide those thinking of replying? Doesn't make them criminals just choosy,and filters do it automatically on different criteria

May not feel nice to be outside their preferences but that's for them to decide surely?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If you're not their type they won't want to get to know you,no offence but we can't all like everyone and it saves any time being wasted.

Plenty will still get to know you,so concentrate on them.

Miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

Who to?... The bald fat police?

Surely they have stated a preference to guide those thinking of replying? Doesn't make them criminals just choosy,and filters do it automatically on different criteria

May not feel nice to be outside their preferences but that's for them to decide surely?"

Erm ...

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

So I guess if Melania Trump turned up at your place naked and begging for your cock, you would say...'Sorry luv, I don't know you Melania! I couldn't possibly consider a night of debauchery with you as I would be basing my decision on your looks alone! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is that really what this world has come to ?? people can't have a preference without being told they are discriminating ?? face - palm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a joke post, but as far as I can tell, the OP is serious

And he's saying that people should forego their preferences and fuck him regardless, all so that he doesn't feel discriminated against??

First, it's personal preferences - who are you to dictate what others like? And second, get a grip and stop moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was a joke post, but as far as I can tell, the OP is serious

And he's saying that people should forego their preferences and fuck him regardless, all so that he doesn't feel discriminated against??

First, it's personal preferences - who are you to dictate what others like? And second, get a grip and stop moaning"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not allowed to have preferences on who they have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope this is a joke..

whatever happened to personal preference?

if you don't like it OP block the profile and move on...

there is absolutely nothing to gain from airing it in the forums, especially if the person you are talking about happens to come across it

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By *methyst01Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Alot of people are going on, i think OP is joking but if you not.

Im not short, fat or anything else you described and i seem to be nobodys type either so dont sweat dude, you atleast have a Tiggy by your side which is more important than what anybody else thinks of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm reading it as a bit tongue in cheek. Lighten up folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be a tongue in cheek jab at the "why don't people want to meet (insert race here) males" threads....doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The post made me laugh, I assumed it was mocking the people who *do* have a problem with people having a personal preference....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I think it's a tongue in cheek post, chill people!

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By *methyst01Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Atleast all the fat,bald men know that Tiggy might accept them

That's a very good point! "

I know

I hope Tiggy doesnt get her inbox full of fat bald guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bald n a tad on the "largeable" side, I wouldn't meet me as I'm not my preference, so how could I blame anyone else for doing the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This cannot be a serious post?

Getting to know you doesn't stop you from being not what they are looking for, you could be the nicest person in the world but if they don't like the look of you why should they have sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought this was a joke post, but as far as I can tell, the OP is serious

And he's saying that people should forego their preferences and fuck him regardless, all so that he doesn't feel discriminated against??

First, it's personal preferences - who are you to dictate what others like? And second, get a grip and stop moaning"

Bugger rumbled yes it was a lighthearted post I was interested to see the reaction I got on forums. I read so many times about people not getting meets for various reasons.

Of course everyone has the right to pick and choose who they playwith. Many years ago when I started playing I was told never to say why, just a polite no thank you is all that's needed.

Btw where doing very well thanks usually manage some fun when we want.

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was a joke post, but as far as I can tell, the OP is serious "

I assumed it was spoofing the 'why doesn't fab have an ethnicity filter?' thread...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has to be a tongue in cheek jab at the "why don't people want to meet (insert race here) males" threads....doesn't it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes more gems should take one for the team

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, sorry but I am shallow and go by initial attractions, if it's not there then it's not going any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

It's not discrimination it's a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

OP I hope this thread is done in a slightly sacastic or tounge in cheek way?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Maybe they meant bald as in below as they prefer a full bush

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Tongue in cheek, op has confirmed further up the post

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

It's not discrimination it's a preference."

It's not discrimination or preference it's a lighthearted mickey take he's made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Take it this from the female of the couple

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

It's usually from the off-Spring of Stepford wife's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

It's not discrimination it's a preference.

It's not discrimination or preference it's a lighthearted mickey take he's made "

Whoops I didn't read it all

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Stop whinging you fat bald twat

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

What's not to understand? They don't want you! They have no interest in getting to know you, you'll get over it.

Could they have phrased it positively? Looking to meet athletic men with hair to run my fingers through. Of course, but they chose not to. Some people get offended when excluded...can't muster up any indignation I'm afraid.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

Who to?... The bald fat police?

Surely they have stated a preference to guide those thinking of replying? Doesn't make them criminals just choosy,and filters do it automatically on different criteria

May not feel nice to be outside their preferences but that's for them to decide surely?"

Pretty much my viewpoint too.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you're not their type they won't want to get to know you,no offence but we can't all like everyone and it saves any time being wasted.

Plenty will still get to know you,so concentrate on them.

Miss."

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By *methyst01Man
over a year ago

Ealing Common


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

It's not discrimination it's a preference.

It's not discrimination or preference it's a lighthearted mickey take he's made

Whoops I didn't read it all "

See what happens when you dont read the entire profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only people read ALL of the posts on a thread before commenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Stop whinging you fat bald twat "

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Want that you're fast and bald. It's that you're a speccy 4 eyes that turned us off!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think you're bald, OP, you just have an unusual dancing man hair style.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Atleast all the fat,bald men know that Tiggy might accept them

That's a very good point!

I know

I hope Tiggy doesnt get her inbox full of fat bald guys."

I would be happy with a few In my box at the same time however that's just wishful thinking Tiggy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

Loose some weight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I hope this thread is done in a slightly sacastic or tounge in cheek way? "

As said earlier yep it's a lighthearted dig at all those who blame everything from fat to race as a reason for not getting a meet. There has been some great posts tho thanks for the smile........best so far "stop whinging you fat bad twat"

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Op I'm sure your a great bloke so my advice to you would be not to let the preference of others effect you nor should you think that because of them having a preference that that is in way against you personally .my advice would be to concentrate on messaging and becoming friends those who don't have a preference when it comes to such things as your body type and hair depiction and forget about those your clearly not a match for .i feel your taking it all to personally which has effected your judgement hence this post .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt be worth the effort...too much time prizing Donald's fingers out of her pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too am bald and overweight

To flip this around

I have bad news for all the fit large breasted sexy women in fab

I'm not interested

Ha

In your face

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"OP I hope this thread is done in a slightly sacastic or tounge in cheek way?

As said earlier yep it's a lighthearted dig at all those who blame everything from fat to race as a reason for not getting a meet. There has been some great posts tho thanks for the smile........best so far "stop whinging you fat bad twat""

What do I win for best post............you fat bald twat

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

Who to?... The bald fat police?

"

No, derrr, the grammar police, obvs.

Everyone knows strict adjectival order dictates that size should come before physical quality.

OP: tell them it's a blow-job at least or you'll have them strung up.

Mr short, bald ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

In my experience lust is usually driven by physical attraction,it doesn't really matter if your fat thin tall short pretty or ugly the'll be people out there who are into whatever you have labelled yourself, what's less attractive is the blame game, best advice is to look at what you have and market that, if you get rejection "so what" ignore and move on, to be honest if you're sensitive to the point your looking inwards then ask yourself if fab is the place to be for your mental health, cos people are not always tactile. Hope that helps D

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By *on DezvousMan
over a year ago

Upson Downs

Hope nobody minds me saying but I really don't like kippers ??

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

Take it further and hire a ninja assassin

"

A bald fat ninja, they are invisible.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

Obviously, yes. Report them immediately.

Who to?... The bald fat police?

No, derrr, the grammar police, obvs.

Everyone knows strict adjectival order dictates that size should come before physical quality.

OP: tell them it's a blow-job at least or you'll have them strung up.

Mr short, bald ddc "

Henry VIII disolved the Adjectival Orders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile I think your the baldist and fatist.

I'm a hairy fat ginger that looks like a semi naked silverback crossed with a caveman, no one want to fuck me other than my wife, she's nuts but hey ho i get over it.

Some idiot on here would, until then just keep trying!

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By *ithardscotMan
over a year ago

Kelty

Nobody likes a whinger!

Unless they have hair and their own teeth lol.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

You great numpties! He confessed it was a wind up post hours ago! !!!! Yet you lot are still having a go! I confess I fell for it too but not since I read it was a joke! Give it up ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was a joke post, but as far as I can tell, the OP is serious

And he's saying that people should forego their preferences and fuck him regardless, all so that he doesn't feel discriminated against??

First, it's personal preferences - who are you to dictate what others like? And second, get a grip and stop moaning"

Bet you wish you hadn't posted this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

So I guess if Melania Trump turned up at your place naked and begging for your cock, you would say...'Sorry luv, I don't know you Melania! I couldn't possibly consider a night of debauchery with you as I would be basing my decision on your looks alone! !!! "

I think I would say..."If you've slept with Donald Trump, I question your standards and you're not for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone."

I too have seen people say they don't want to meet bald people.. I'm a bald guy myself, however I completely understand that some people don't like it and have the right to express that. Must be some people that don't float your boat? Would you not want to express that on your profile to try and save unwanted messages from them? It's not baldist (or whatever ist) because a stranger that's not attracted to you won't shag you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha just read above my post.. yeah I fell for it too.. nice one

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I've just read a profile where it states that they don't want bald fat people. As a bald fat person I don't understand this are they been fatist or baldist? I'm getting fed up with this sort of discrimination what right has anyone got to say such a thing? They havnt met me don't know what I'm like they are just going by looks alone.

So I guess if Melania Trump turned up at your place naked and begging for your cock, you would say...'Sorry luv, I don't know you Melania! I couldn't possibly consider a night of debauchery with you as I would be basing my decision on your looks alone! !!!

I think I would say..."If you've slept with Donald Trump, I question your standards and you're not for me.""

I think I would say,I applaud your standards,

Now get your gums round this.

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