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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men have been on here over a year and not had a meet

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Come back when it's been a year and complain!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself !..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "

Its difficult for young, single men and a week is a very short time in terms of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come back when it's been a year and complain!!!"

see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "
yer joking ?? I had 10 meets after a week . You must be a proper minger

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

About 4 months for me, several lively conversations but only just now getting closer to meets.

Don't worry about it, it takes time.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Suppose the question to ask first is why do you expect that people would have in that week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's?

yer joking ?? I had 10 meets after a week . You must be a proper minger "

ermmm 11 god am i that forgettable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"Suppose the question to ask first is why do you expect that people would have in that week? "

Ooh hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "

Why do you think?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's?

yer joking ?? I had 10 meets after a week . You must be a proper minger

ermmm 11 god am i that forgettable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a bit more about yourself on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - One thing you need to know about this site is it requires patience and persistance. The good thing is you're acting like a newbie which means you have a steep learning curve to climb.

Welcome to the site anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've made the classic mistake of thinking you're going to get laid on a swingers site. Welcome to fab.

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? yer joking ?? I had 10 meets after a week . You must be a proper minger "

Pmsl.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

OK OP you're after what 99% of the men on here want, an ffm, a cougar and a squirter. That will put a lot of women off straight away as all we will think is you'll ask us " have you got a mate that can join us" and that you "can make any woman squirt" and that's the sole aim of a meet.

Cougars hunt their own prey so you can't find cougars!

Try talking about yourself and not rely on ur cock and 6 pack. Most women want their mind stimulated, even on fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop a frock on and shave your legs.

Loads of people message you then

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"Pop a frock on and shave your legs.

Loads of people message you then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pop a frock on and shave your legs.

Loads of people message you then

"

See? It works for her too

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"Pop a frock on and shave your legs.

Loads of people message you then

See? It works for her too "

Sssshhhh I have hairy legs right now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pop a frock on and shave your legs.

Loads of people message you then

See? It works for her too

Sssshhhh I have hairy legs right now tho "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've made the classic mistake of thinking you're going to get laid on a swingers site. Welcome to fab. "

Made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be yourself !.."

Maybe that's the problem!

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Hmmm

1. That word again. Cougar. Puts me right off

2. Bonus for squirter.... we are not performing seals just for your pleasure young man

3. Mff... the holy grail. You may be waiting some time.

4. Pics are not bad but crop them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been off on on the site for 2years and still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "

Most people who post a thread like this haven't taken the time to get back to basics.

Your profile and your photos.

What do you think about them.

They represent lots of effort?

After all, you are on here looking for easy sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should re-assess your expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need more pampas grass in your photos.

And you've not mentioned hot tubs or prosecco anywhere in your profile.

Classic mistakes.

Come on kid. Get with the project.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "

Because you've only been here a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 2 meets in my first week back... you may want to review your approach OP and good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As one guy said above (who by physical appearance won't have an issue meeting lots of girls).. 4 months lots of lively chats and finally getting around to it

Go to the clubs as it's down to earth, fun and cuts out all the impersonal technology shit.

If you want girls that are enthusiastic about casual hook ups..You'd easily have the problem of having 10+ girls who will meet you for sex within a week of POF or tinder (a little slower). There are plenty of ordinary guys getting up to 3 encounters a week (so they say) hahaha. I don't believe it myself, but just 1 sounds better than your experience here.

On here, to be honest I just chat to people.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Take a step back and read your profile (your shop window ) with new eyes....

Is it interesting

Does it sell a person or a cock looking for a toy!

Are photos clear and tempting

Does it stand out against all the other single profiles ?

Learn patience and while doing that get chatting on forums at socials and clubs

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Doing a profile is like writing a cv. Would you ask a prospective employer to 'ask if you want to know anything'? Just saying, that's all.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'll meet ya, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need more pampas grass in your photos.

And you've not mentioned hot tubs or prosecco anywhere in your profile.

Classic mistakes.

Come on kid. Get with the project."

You totally forgot cake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet ya, OP "

Joe!!

You will meet anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for about a week and still not got chatting to anyone serious about a meet? Why's? "

You don't have enough cock photos. You need a lot more and a Sky remote measuring device.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet ya, OP "

Tart

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