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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fantasy vs reality perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

Not every mans, i prefer a mmf as i love watching Jackie enjoy herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

Obviously wrong,as it wasn't his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

You are not wrong - and the reality is wonderful too! Performance concerns? mff are quite high pressure ...

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Maybe he got nervous? I'd love to try it but I guarantee I'd be a bag of nerves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't find many guys that would turn down that sort of opotunity,I know I never would if only lucky enough to be so lucky lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Maybe it's not a fantasy for every guy. Maybe he likes the intimacy of a one on one, prefers not to have to divide his attention, isn't into watching women together, knows they're a lot of work and possibly fraught with dynamic incompatibilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something a guy needs to tread very carefully about, being able to totally satisfy 2 women at the same time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its his loss not yours you will find someone that one of my wish but i can only dream loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One bloke I met said he wouldn't do mff, rather shamefully I can't remember which of my meets it was! The rest have all had the fantasy xxx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Gosh, there is a Santa Claus

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Depends what you men by close. If close as a regular friend that values their friend maybe the no was because they don't want sex to risk or complicate the friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting answers

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Perhaps he's already had so many he's bored of them?

Anything's possible!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Thinking about it, I (mr) might, on the grounds I might be left out.

No chance, just delete what I said....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thinking about it, I (mr) might, on the grounds I might be left out.

No chance, just delete what I said...."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps he's already had so many he's bored of them?

Anything's possible! "

He hasn't had any at all. Only ever one on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you tell him whom the other female was? Maybe he didn't find her attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every mans dream too have a mff,mfm better in our opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

For me, it would depend on the other lady involved.

As good as an MFF can be, it would not work if she was a bag lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there must be a chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is most men's fantasy, but there's also the pressure of looking after both ladies. Maybe he was scared he'd make a fool of himself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not every mans dream too have a mff,mfm better in our opinion! "

I'd love that too but I'd have no chance in getting him to fulfil that fantasy of mine lol

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not every mans dream too have a mff,mfm better in our opinion!

I'd love that too but I'd have no chance in getting him to fulfil that fantasy of mine lol"

Have you considered asking him? The truth is, none of us here know the answer, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul turned it down when we were dating many moons ago, although it turned out its because he wasn't attracted to the other woman. I was like wtf I've organised this and you don't want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not every mans dream too have a mff,mfm better in our opinion!

I'd love that too but I'd have no chance in getting him to fulfil that fantasy of mine lol"

Ask him u never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paul turned it down when we were dating many moons ago, although it turned out its because he wasn't attracted to the other woman. I was like wtf I've organised this and you don't want it? "
no sense going to happening if there's no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Paul turned it down when we were dating many moons ago, although it turned out its because he wasn't attracted to the other woman. I was like wtf I've organised this and you don't want it? no sense going to happening if there's no attraction"
*it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive heard this a few times, Freaks me out

Templar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not every mans dream too have a mff,mfm better in our opinion!

I'd love that too but I'd have no chance in getting him to fulfil that fantasy of mine lol

Ask him u never know "

I do know. It would be a guaranteed 100% no from him. There is no way he would get naked in front of another man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

"

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds good to me , I would love the opportunity with mildred and another fem or two other fems,

put that on my xmas list if anyone wants to get me a pressie

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We have done a few mFF meets. They have been fun for all of us, and no one has felt left out.

But as a couple we still prefer full swap foursomes and moresome.

Perhaps you could try an mff in the surroundings of a club, where it's safe and easier to achieve, without the stress xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though "

Not to him obviously

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Yes always been a fantasy of mine, but that said it would still have to be with the right two ladies, if there's no chemistry then I think it could be awkward

Have you asked him why he refused?

HG

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An MFF is one of my big fantasies, but I bet preparing for the meet would be quite nerve wracking and maybe the OP's friend was just into 1 on 1 fun. I find MMF fun, and actually less nerve wracking that meeting 1 to 1 with a female now because not all the attention is on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby isnt interested in watching 2 women. He loves to watch me with another man. So I guess mmf is his preference. And mine of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hubby isnt interested in watching 2 women. He loves to watch me with another man. So I guess mmf is his preference. And mine of course "

You're a lucky lady

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

I would love to try it.

Can't imagine the nerves though. The way some women are it is a full on to please one nevermind two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would love to try it.

Can't imagine the nerves though. The way some women are it is a full on to please one nevermind two. "

I'm sure you would cope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf works better for some of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself n hubby had a mff and also mfm...hubby prefared the mfm...enjoys me getting spoiled lol

Nothing about performance as I was the 1st 1 to throw in the towel and left them too it

Went to bed for a kip lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Myself n hubby had a mff and also mfm...hubby prefared the mfm...enjoys me getting spoiled lol

Nothing about performance as I was the 1st 1 to throw in the towel and left them too it

Went to bed for a kip lol "

You're a very lucky lady too

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Reasons I'd turn it down:

Other woman was not someone I was attracted to, and wouldn't have one on one with let alone that situation.

If I thought I was just being used as cock bate to get the other girl, and when it came to it I'd be sat in the corner twiddling my thumbs.

Otherwise I'd have no issue at all.

Very sexy seeing two girls play, but equally two girls pleasing me. However to me regardless of numbers 3, 4, 400, what's best is it being a dynamic mix up of everyone playing and pleasing, rather than any particular set focus on any one individual. So a mff that is all 3 trying to please each other works best, as doesn't mean anyone person is supposed to be the star performer.

But from what you said about this guy, sounds like he got some insecurities, "not getting naked in front of another man", not wanting a 3 some etc...all sounds like he worried about his ability to perform, or perform well enough. Not judging the guy, but perhaps vanilla one on one is his thing and his mind isn't in the place to deal with anything outside of that. Or he in love with you and has jealousy issues! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reasons I'd turn it down:

Other woman was not someone I was attracted to, and wouldn't have one on one with let alone that situation.

If I thought I was just being used as cock bate to get the other girl, and when it came to it I'd be sat in the corner twiddling my thumbs.

Otherwise I'd have no issue at all.

Very sexy seeing two girls play, but equally two girls pleasing me. However to me regardless of numbers 3, 4, 400, what's best is it being a dynamic mix up of everyone playing and pleasing, rather than any particular set focus on any one individual. So a mff that is all 3 trying to please each other works best, as doesn't mean anyone person is supposed to be the star performer.

But from what you said about this guy, sounds like he got some insecurities, "not getting naked in front of another man", not wanting a 3 some etc...all sounds like he worried about his ability to perform, or perform well enough. Not judging the guy, but perhaps vanilla one on one is his thing and his mind isn't in the place to deal with anything outside of that. Or he in love with you and has jealousy issues! Lol

"

Or maybe not has jealousy issues.

Sometimes someone is happy with the person they are with. I think this site makes you think having sex with multiple people is the norm. It's not, most people are happy with the one they are with. Just because we want more doesnt mean everyone does and thats fine too

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Something a guy needs to tread very carefully about, being able to totally satisfy 2 women at the same time....."

Interesting....I have high hopes and a partner in crime..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the FF werent cherie blair and hilary clinton,it must be most mens fantasy???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reasons I'd turn it down:

Other woman was not someone I was attracted to, and wouldn't have one on one with let alone that situation.

If I thought I was just being used as cock bate to get the other girl, and when it came to it I'd be sat in the corner twiddling my thumbs.

Otherwise I'd have no issue at all.

Very sexy seeing two girls play, but equally two girls pleasing me. However to me regardless of numbers 3, 4, 400, what's best is it being a dynamic mix up of everyone playing and pleasing, rather than any particular set focus on any one individual. So a mff that is all 3 trying to please each other works best, as doesn't mean anyone person is supposed to be the star performer.

But from what you said about this guy, sounds like he got some insecurities, "not getting naked in front of another man", not wanting a 3 some etc...all sounds like he worried about his ability to perform, or perform well enough. Not judging the guy, but perhaps vanilla one on one is his thing and his mind isn't in the place to deal with anything outside of that. Or he in love with you and has jealousy issues! Lol

Or maybe not has jealousy issues.

Sometimes someone is happy with the person they are with. I think this site makes you think having sex with multiple people is the norm. It's not, most people are happy with the one they are with. Just because we want more doesnt mean everyone does and thats fine too "

It's all about compromise. But surely compromising shouldn't be one sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago was seeing a woman and she offered me mff with her friend and I turned it down. For me it was the thought of lack on intimacy and to be honest being scared sh****ss of the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always something I've wanted to do but the fates have always conspired against me. Being part of a straigh mmf was fun but I've always longed for two women. A man can hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reasons I'd turn it down:

Other woman was not someone I was attracted to, and wouldn't have one on one with let alone that situation.

If I thought I was just being used as cock bate to get the other girl, and when it came to it I'd be sat in the corner twiddling my thumbs.

Otherwise I'd have no issue at all.

Very sexy seeing two girls play, but equally two girls pleasing me. However to me regardless of numbers 3, 4, 400, what's best is it being a dynamic mix up of everyone playing and pleasing, rather than any particular set focus on any one individual. So a mff that is all 3 trying to please each other works best, as doesn't mean anyone person is supposed to be the star performer.

But from what you said about this guy, sounds like he got some insecurities, "not getting naked in front of another man", not wanting a 3 some etc...all sounds like he worried about his ability to perform, or perform well enough. Not judging the guy, but perhaps vanilla one on one is his thing and his mind isn't in the place to deal with anything outside of that. Or he in love with you and has jealousy issues! Lol

Or maybe not has jealousy issues.

Sometimes someone is happy with the person they are with. I think this site makes you think having sex with multiple people is the norm. It's not, most people are happy with the one they are with. Just because we want more doesnt mean everyone does and thats fine too

It's all about compromise. But surely compromising shouldn't be one sided."

So you're saying he should fuck someone he doesnt want to because the op wants a mff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really thought my ex would be up for it but he wasn't..

in fact I would go so far as to say that me asking him whether he 'fancied it' led to the eventual break down of our marriage...

he always knew I was bi but he said that he would be jealous of me and the other woman playing together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like you say his loss I'm sure there will be some local guys who would be up for this ... like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby isnt interested in watching 2 women. He loves to watch me with another man. So I guess mmf is his preference. And mine of course

You're a lucky lady "
I am indeed xx

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

You have not said whether the other woman is known to your partner/fb or a total stranger!

I have no issues at all with mmf or fmf providing we know each other or at least initially feel very comfortable with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how the responses would have gone if a man had said he wanted his partner to join in a threesome but she didn't want to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people have misunderstood my original post.

I'm definetly NOT, nor would I ever make anyone do anything they didn't want to.

I simply wondered how many other people would say no to a mff as every other man I've met have said " yes they'd love it ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

A lot of men yes, but not all. My husband isn't really into this. Nor is he really into watching women play, even though so many men love that. He much prefers he mmf scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people have misunderstood my original post.

I'm definetly NOT, nor would I ever make anyone do anything they didn't want to.

I simply wondered how many other people would say no to a mff as every other man I've met have said " yes they'd love it "."

But if your husband doesnt want to, don't you think you should respect that?

Does he even know you're on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though "

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss."

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By *AMESJGMan
over a year ago

Enniskillen

It's my big fantasy xxxxx 2 bi ladies I would get in right ball to be with them

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss."

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong?

You are not wrong - and the reality is wonderful too! Performance concerns? mff are quite high pressure ...

"

But bloody good!! Would love a few more....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I'd be turning it down to be honest .. definitely on my to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm might go a bit off course here but OP, have you ever thought that he might actually, like you, like you? I mean like, REALLY LIKE you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm might go a bit off course here but OP, have you ever thought that he might actually, like you, like you? I mean like, REALLY LIKE you."

And your point being ????? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff "

But clearly your husband isn't the male in your mff,if this was a guys post he'd get slaughtered,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm might go a bit off course here but OP, have you ever thought that he might actually, like you, like you? I mean like, REALLY LIKE you.

And your point being ????? Lol"

He might have fallen in love and doesn't want any other people involved.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

That was the op that answered that.

And no don't think that was what was intended by the statement at all, nobody should fuck someone they don't want to even if they happily want 3somes, 4 somes or more.

Neither is anyone stating that the norm is to want to do anything, definition of normal is what? Always depend on your view point.

However a reason for something always exists, and sometimes it's a rational and just one, but equally sometimes it's based on incorrect or mis aligned fear, or a multitude of aspects, including both emotions and mental states of mind.

Some people enjoy the thrill of going fast, but doesn't mean we all would, or should go and drive our cars fast, or rent a fighter plane, but the reason someone might not like it, could vary from rational untested fear, to experience, to physical issues. Nobody should be forced ever, but equally if we didn't bother to test and understand someone's reasons it be a pretty dull planet and human race be somewhat backward and people may find they missing out on things they actually enjoy and are good at.

One of our Olympic and gold medalist and world record breaking swimmers, was scared of water as a child...hmmm why? And if left to just be accepted we'd be a few gold medals down.

Had it been a mmf then I don't think anything changes, all the same fears, reasons, just and unjust could exist...and view of the norm or not norm the same...again I wouldn't expect my partner to fuck a m that didn't want to,.

I think we do have to accept however that people's views are always going to slide a bit more to one side on here, it is a swinging site after all, and not a catholic pre marriage counselling site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I had one once, and didn't run away or turn it down but it wasn't pre-planned and happened at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the mff plays, it's good fun, especially when they are playing together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab "

Your a bloke so no surprise

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Maybe suggest a mfmf instead even things out a bit instead! Or take him to a club, where no pressure to do anyhthing other than play together and give him chance to maybe understand what he thinks or feels and if he has a rational reason, then at least you know where and why it all stands, and you equally can explain your views...then what you do then is your choice.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise "

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused.

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By *heffy1Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I got offered one too years ago....turn it down because my partners friend was incredibly sexy and i fancied her more....

Terrible mistake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused."

We're a couple. We're both posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a fantasy of mine but the attraction would have to be there, I can't just fuck anyone x

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

You or the other F might not have been his type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one planned and had many socials with both of the girls and even went to a nightclub with them just so we would all feel relaxed.

As hard a decision as it was, i pulled out a week before we were supposed to do it because one of the girls was being incredibly clingy and stalking me..

Extremely gutted and hence why im on here looking for a FFM..

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused.

We're a couple. We're both posting "

And fully in agreeement with each other I see

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over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "

My ex would never have gone for it. He was never interested in seeing two women together, or even participating with two women. Definitely not every man's fantasy

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over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff "

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh, there is a Santa Claus "

and he only cums once a year!

Boom boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it was probably nerves, It's a dream of mine but I would be a nervous wreck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused.

We're a couple. We're both posting

And fully in agreeement with each other I see "

Being a couple doesn't mean we agree on everything, that would be unnatural.

Much like the op wanting a mff and her other half not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs"

Very well said

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Gosh, there is a Santa Claus

and he only cums once a year!

Boom boom! "

I've heard he's a bit of a repeater having a full sack and all that...he cums in Germany on the 24th and U.K. 25th dirty git! He also has a bit of a fetish for stockings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong?

You or the other F might not have been his type "

I'm definitely his type

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused.

We're a couple. We're both posting

And fully in agreeement with each other I see

Being a couple doesn't mean we agree on everything, that would be unnatural.

Much like the op wanting a mff and her other half not "

We a couple and agree on everything...so she tells me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh, there is a Santa Claus

and he only cums once a year!

Boom boom!

I've heard he's a bit of a repeater having a full sack and all that...he cums in Germany on the 24th and U.K. 25th dirty git! He also has a bit of a fetish for stockings "

Bit off piste here but fuck me you're hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs"

So if one of you wanted something but the other said no, it'd be ok if the one who wanted it went of and carried on regardless behind your back??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be on it like a tramp on a kebab

Your a bloke so no surprise

A bit ago blokes were individuals! And it is a surprise cus the other bloke said no!

Which one the norm again...I'm confused.

We're a couple. We're both posting

And fully in agreeement with each other I see

Being a couple doesn't mean we agree on everything, that would be unnatural.

Much like the op wanting a mff and her other half not

We a couple and agree on everything...so she tells me "

Hehe sound right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just a twat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs

So if one of you wanted something but the other said no, it'd be ok if the one who wanted it went of and carried on regardless behind your back??"

Oh absalutely not - it's not ok to go behind anyone's back. But I don't think she is going behind anyone's back though. She said she asked a friend for an MFF and her friend declined. I got the impression she was single. Maybe I misunderstood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs

So if one of you wanted something but the other said no, it'd be ok if the one who wanted it went of and carried on regardless behind your back??

Oh absalutely not - it's not ok to go behind anyone's back. But I don't think she is going behind anyone's back though. She said she asked a friend for an MFF and her friend declined. I got the impression she was single. Maybe I misunderstood. "

Maybe the op isnt giving the full story on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he feels a bit threatened by the prospect...

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Gosh, there is a Santa Claus

and he only cums once a year!

Boom boom!

I've heard he's a bit of a repeater having a full sack and all that...he cums in Germany on the 24th and U.K. 25th dirty git! He also has a bit of a fetish for stockings

Bit off piste here but fuck me you're hot!"

Thank you - but my missus says get your own bloke, says I'm taken!

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By *ayne300Man
over a year ago

west mids

Some fantasy s are best staying that way just talked about aroused about and some are the opersite and need to be shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love MFF especially when the two women play with each other and then I join in.Horny as hell .

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Maybe he feels a bit threatened by the prospect..."

Most likely, or jealous...both pointless emotions...

But what's the worse that could happen..if you blew your load or got stage fright, least you know you not leaving anyone frustrated...there that extra person to make sure pleasure still happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same.

I know lol but out of all the men I've met in my life, he's the first one I've ever heard say no. His loss though

How can it be his loss if it's not something he wanted?

Sounds more like your loss.

Not my loss as I'm still getting my mff

Sounds like you've got it all sorted OP. One male friend wasn't able to give you the MFF you desired. But as you have quite rightly found out, there are other men who will love it. Everybody happy! I'm sure it doesn't mean you can't still have fun with your friend in another capacity, if that's what you both want. That's the beauty of swinging - something for everyone

Mrs

So if one of you wanted something but the other said no, it'd be ok if the one who wanted it went of and carried on regardless behind your back??

Oh absalutely not - it's not ok to go behind anyone's back. But I don't think she is going behind anyone's back though. She said she asked a friend for an MFF and her friend declined. I got the impression she was single. Maybe I misunderstood.

Maybe the op isnt giving the full story on here "

Say it ain't so.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Now of course the best mff would be....oh no...been told can't say that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A while ago I offered a man who I'm close to a MFF. He turned me down. I thought this was every mans fantasy, or am I wrong? "
not all the would never turn down the chance if it came up one day

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By *errible2sumCouple
over a year ago

london

I've done it a few times but like mmf just as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done it a few times but like mmf just as much "
am in

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Men are individuals - they don't all think or feel the same."

Thank you, thank you, thank you. The number of times I have been caught with "but you men are all the same".

OP, maybe that's not his fantasy or possiblynits a simple answer - he wasn't interested in your friend and I can understand that.

I mean I would never have a MFF if I am not attracted to both women otherwise it's a disaster waiting to happen, don't you think? One person feeling left out or not given attention and spoiling the dynamic.

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