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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. " although I think its a great idea on the face of it OP and may make those who know they don't have the balls to follow through think twice about playing games . I feel that it could also destroy the rep of a genuine guy if one couple had a axe to grind against him . after all some couples are not perfect ether so with that in mind how would you go about stopping your idea from being abused by some with axes to grind . | |||
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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. although I think its a great idea on the face of it OP and may make those who know they don't have the balls to follow through think twice about playing games . I feel that it could also destroy the rep of a genuine guy if one couple had a axe to grind against him . after all some couples are not perfect ether so with that in mind how would you go about stopping your idea from being abused by some with axes to grind . " Very good point or if for some reason a genuine person does have to cancel. Like we said it's been couples who have let us down in the past. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. " Read your thread wrong thought you meant have a group for name and shaming. Think your idea would work. But think that maybe the person posting the name would also have to have a public verification from the person there listing so people know it's not a friend putting there name on the list and shows that the meet was genuine. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. " Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you " Not necessarily. We do the necessary phone chat, message exchange (no face pics/Skype), describe what we are after. Arrange the meet up, so far 2 out of 4 single guy no shows. Our fault? No, we are always very genuine, describe exactly what we want, if they agree we arrange and half don't show. I think it is more that there are 70/80% wank fantasists out there that will talk the talk but not walk the walk so to speak. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you " 28 very good verification on there profile says that there doing something right so really can't see that's it's them unless your saying everyone on here is 100% genuine and no time wasters on here. If it was a case of people cancelling on them yeah maybe but for a meet to be arranged and for them to not turn up it's rude and time wasting what ever the reason. A quick message saying the can't make it is all it takes. but to arrange a time and a place then not turn up you can't blame anyone other than the one that didn't show. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you Not necessarily. We do the necessary phone chat, message exchange (no face pics/Skype), describe what we are after. Arrange the meet up, so far 2 out of 4 single guy no shows. Our fault? No, we are always very genuine, describe exactly what we want, if they agree we arrange and half don't show. I think it is more that there are 70/80% wank fantasists out there that will talk the talk but not walk the walk so to speak. " | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you 28 very good verification on there profile says that there doing something right so really can't see that's it's them unless your saying everyone on here is 100% genuine and no time wasters on here. If it was a case of people cancelling on them yeah maybe but for a meet to be arranged and for them to not turn up it's rude and time wasting what ever the reason. A quick message saying the can't make it is all it takes. but to arrange a time and a place then not turn up you can't blame anyone other than the one that didn't show. " Every time they've arranged to meet a guy he's been a no show. Says more to me about their choices and process than anything else. It really isn't hard to get a single guy to meet couples on here | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then " We been stood up a few times, a quick 10 min status to shame them and they left the site | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then " Shit stir you mean | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then Shit stir you mean " Not shit stirring more like warning others. | |||
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"It's annoying as a single bloke to read these kind of things, there are genuine guys out there., myself included who love to meet up for fun " I agree totally with you. These guys give us single men a very bad reputation and so to be honest I am not surprised couples do act the way they do. Naming and shaming is a good idea but perhaps doesn't go far enough. Genuine guys like us have a hard enough time on here as it stands, and these guys just make it 10 times harder. Not really a lot us singles can do apart from, grin and bear it. And hopefully something comes up! Pun definitely intended. | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then Shit stir you mean Not shit stirring more like warning others. " Open to abuse by anyone. Only have to say no thanks and all of a sudden you're a let down. | |||
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"most of us descent genuine couples know a few genuine single fellas, if we all posted the guys we know, we would have a pool to chose from.. this is my idea.. " Good idea, gotta be some way of digging out the wasters and lining up the genuine | |||
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"It baffles me when I read about single guys letting single ladies or couples down. Single guys struggle for success on here, then when they actually get a meet they turn it down! What the heck's that all about then?! " you would be surprised fella lots on here male female couple are all talk. but your right it doesn't make sense as to why someone would go to all the trouble of chatting the arranging to them to no show after putting all the ground work in to get to that point . it is us guys who suffer the most abuse about no shows and timewasters but that's because we are the easiest target out of the bunch on here . | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you 28 very good verification on there profile says that there doing something right so really can't see that's it's them unless your saying everyone on here is 100% genuine and no time wasters on here. If it was a case of people cancelling on them yeah maybe but for a meet to be arranged and for them to not turn up it's rude and time wasting what ever the reason. A quick message saying the can't make it is all it takes. but to arrange a time and a place then not turn up you can't blame anyone other than the one that didn't show. Every time they've arranged to meet a guy he's been a no show. Says more to me about their choices and process than anything else. It really isn't hard to get a single guy to meet couples on here " Again they didn't say every time they said the last 4or 5 just lately there's seems to be more time wasting going on on here. Think there just having a run of bad luck. We had it ourselves with couples a couple of months back so now yes we have put filters in place and are more picky over meets on here but if we all did that then all the new people wouldn't have a chance. Can blame them if there willing to give people a chance. Again if someone says they will meet then they should turn up or message saying they can't if they don't then there in the wrong. | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then Shit stir you mean Not shit stirring more like warning others. " It's fine in theory, but at some point naming and shaming would get abused by a couple or a single person who has some silly grudge or didn't like the way someone platted their pubes etc. There'd really be evidence and it'd be an absolute nightmare to police by mods or third parties - endless "he said, she said" stuff. I get how frustrating let-downs are, but it's unworkable and would tarnish innocent people's reputations. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you 28 very good verification on there profile says that there doing something right so really can't see that's it's them unless your saying everyone on here is 100% genuine and no time wasters on here. If it was a case of people cancelling on them yeah maybe but for a meet to be arranged and for them to not turn up it's rude and time wasting what ever the reason. A quick message saying the can't make it is all it takes. but to arrange a time and a place then not turn up you can't blame anyone other than the one that didn't show. Every time they've arranged to meet a guy he's been a no show. Says more to me about their choices and process than anything else. It really isn't hard to get a single guy to meet couples on here Again they didn't say every time they said the last 4or 5 just lately there's seems to be more time wasting going on on here. Think there just having a run of bad luck. We had it ourselves with couples a couple of months back so now yes we have put filters in place and are more picky over meets on here but if we all did that then all the new people wouldn't have a chance. Can blame them if there willing to give people a chance. Again if someone says they will meet then they should turn up or message saying they can't if they don't then there in the wrong. " Exactley, being curtious goes along way | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then Shit stir you mean Not shit stirring more like warning others. " You didn't receive a ban? | |||
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"How will you make sure those couples are genuine because I've been let down by plenty of them as well. " they should and would all be verified.. some one with no veris wouldnt be on the list or involved in it.. | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Instead of blaming the guys have a look at what you're doing that's leading to you being let down every time. There's one common denominator here op and it's you 28 very good verification on there profile says that there doing something right so really can't see that's it's them unless your saying everyone on here is 100% genuine and no time wasters on here. If it was a case of people cancelling on them yeah maybe but for a meet to be arranged and for them to not turn up it's rude and time wasting what ever the reason. A quick message saying the can't make it is all it takes. but to arrange a time and a place then not turn up you can't blame anyone other than the one that didn't show. Every time they've arranged to meet a guy he's been a no show. Says more to me about their choices and process than anything else. It really isn't hard to get a single guy to meet couples on here Again they didn't say every time they said the last 4or 5 just lately there's seems to be more time wasting going on on here. Think there just having a run of bad luck. We had it ourselves with couples a couple of months back so now yes we have put filters in place and are more picky over meets on here but if we all did that then all the new people wouldn't have a chance. Can blame them if there willing to give people a chance. Again if someone says they will meet then they should turn up or message saying they can't if they don't then I there in the wrong. " They did say every time | |||
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"name and shame them Bad advice as you get banned Name and shame else were then Shit stir you mean Not shit stirring more like warning others. You didn't receive a ban?" No why should we? Naming and shameing aint illegal, might be fabs policy but not illegal. Freedom of speech comes into it | |||
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"name and shame them" Best not to | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to " Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself | |||
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"How can couples be let down? You have each other " Of course they can, you get all excited thinking you are going to get two cocks on the same night, excitement disappears when you realise they are not turning up. Yes, you still have your partner to have fun with but it wasn't the night you were expecting. | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself" Expect to be warned/banned if you do then | |||
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"How can couples be let down? You have each other Of course they can, you get all excited thinking you are going to get two cocks on the same night, excitement disappears when you realise they are not turning up. Yes, you still have your partner to have fun with but it wasn't the night you were expecting. " Pull the dildo out then | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself Expect to be warned/banned if you do then " No big loss to fair is it | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself Expect to be warned/banned if you do then No big loss to fair is it" Begs the question then, why stay? | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself Expect to be warned/banned if you do then No big loss to fair is it Begs the question then, why stay?" Made some good friends on here | |||
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"How can couples be let down? You have each other Of course they can, you get all excited thinking you are going to get two cocks on the same night, excitement disappears when you realise they are not turning up. Yes, you still have your partner to have fun with but it wasn't the night you were expecting. Pull the dildo out then !" haha, not quite the same as the real thing. But I am guessing you know what I mean, a bit like you go out to the cafe for a fried breakfast expecting the works and getting there and it has no black pudding on ! what a disappointment ! | |||
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"How can couples be let down? You have each other Of course they can, you get all excited thinking you are going to get two cocks on the same night, excitement disappears when you realise they are not turning up. Yes, you still have your partner to have fun with but it wasn't the night you were expecting. Pull the dildo out then ! haha, not quite the same as the real thing. But I am guessing you know what I mean, a bit like you go out to the cafe for a fried breakfast expecting the works and getting there and it has no black pudding on ! what a disappointment !" I do | |||
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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. " Was he even verified? | |||
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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. " What do you mean by 'let down'. Do you mean didn't show up, or cancelled at the last minute or just declined to meet? | |||
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"We were let down by a few times by couples so unless there well verified we will only arrange a meet in a club now. So if they don't turn up there no loss. We've only ever met 2 single guys a got to admit they turned up and were respectful. But that could be because of the type of guys Mrs likes to meet. Do think a name and shame group for any time wasters would be good. " Even being verified does not guarantee they will show I've had two no shows on here one single guy and one couples they were both well verified The guy was at least honest and text me saying he's had a better offer so wasn't meeting me now, pity he send the message while I was sat waiting for him The couple came up with every shit excuse under the sun and actually tried to make out it was my fault they didn't show and was actually quite offended I called them time wasters Even naming and shaming won't stop it people can just open new profile with different names | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself" What do you expect them to do? If they ban them they can just open a new account Fab are just a web site they are not responsible for who you talk to and how it pans out you have to do that bit yourself | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself What do you expect them to do? If they ban them they can just open a new account Fab are just a web site they are not responsible for who you talk to and how it pans out you have to do that bit yourself " Yoir paying for a service, if everyone didnt pay for site supporter fuction the site would be shut, its down to fab to block or just make everyone pay for the service, might stop all the fakers keep rejoining | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself What do you expect them to do? If they ban them they can just open a new account Fab are just a web site they are not responsible for who you talk to and how it pans out you have to do that bit yourself Yoir paying for a service, if everyone didnt pay for site supporter fuction the site would be shut, its down to fab to block or just make everyone pay for the service, might stop all the fakers keep rejoining" Do you honestly believe that making people pay £5 is going to stop fakes and no shows?...... | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself What do you expect them to do? If they ban them they can just open a new account Fab are just a web site they are not responsible for who you talk to and how it pans out you have to do that bit yourself Yoir paying for a service, if everyone didnt pay for site supporter fuction the site would be shut, its down to fab to block or just make everyone pay for the service, might stop all the fakers keep rejoining Do you honestly believe that making people pay £5 is going to stop fakes and no shows?...... " Up it to £20 a year. Make everyone pay, for all those fakers who join and re join and got 10 profiles they wont want to keep paying it. Maybe i should start a swingers site, | |||
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"name and shame them Best not to Fab dont do nothing about no showers so take actions ourself What do you expect them to do? If they ban them they can just open a new account Fab are just a web site they are not responsible for who you talk to and how it pans out you have to do that bit yourself Yoir paying for a service, if everyone didnt pay for site supporter fuction the site would be shut, its down to fab to block or just make everyone pay for the service, might stop all the fakers keep rejoining Do you honestly believe that making people pay £5 is going to stop fakes and no shows?...... Up it to £20 a year. Make everyone pay, for all those fakers who join and re join and got 10 profiles they wont want to keep paying it. Maybe i should start a swingers site, " Oh my word. Have you been on the Malibu and ? Like ALL DAY? | |||
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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. " Happy to make amends for this idiot when I visit the NE on business | |||
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"hi thanks for the responce.. i dont know how to stop anything from happening, all i knpw is , we have arranged to meet 4 maybe 5 single fellas and have been let down every time, all im thinking of is if theres is a room to chat in, where people from the same area can list the genuines so that we can mail someone knowing we wont be let down. Read your thread wrong thought you meant have a group for name and shaming. Think your idea would work. But think that maybe the person posting the name would also have to have a public verification from the person there listing so people know it's not a friend putting there name on the list and shows that the meet was genuine. " No NO not at all , the last thing i want is to name and shame anyone, all we want is to have a good time, i love nothing better than watching angel being fucked by a couple of guys with big cocks. so no ,,deffo not for that reason. | |||
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"hi guys, jet again we have been let down by a single fella. So im thinking of starting a Skype room,or facebook page with all couples within a 20 mile radius of Newcastel Upon Tyne , for us all to post up the names of all the genuine single fellas within this area. we're sick of being let down, so any help with this would be great.thanks. Mr Dee. Happy to make amends for this idiot when I visit the NE on business " hahaha im sure you would be. lol.. thanks. | |||
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"Think a lot of singles blokes lose there "balls" when meeting couples don't get me wrong there are a few really nice guys out there but a lot of time wasters as well !! We have had some great meets with singles ....... keep looking they do Exisit x X " | |||
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