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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone guide me through haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone guide me through haha "

Ok.

You start with an interesting and informative profile. Not a single sentence.

Then you upload some good photos. Not a cock picture.

Then you message people with whom you think you might have something in common.

As a single male, expect rejection. Take it on the chin.

If you prefer, you can go straight to rejection by ignoring the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont bother on here, to many men at the moment, therea people been on herr months without meeting as the competition is tuff for newbies and single men

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You've been on 6 months you must be getting a rough idea of how it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been on 6 months you must be getting a rough idea of how it works "

True - is he new to the site, or meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New to both really I've been on here but not had much luck so kinda tuned out for abit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think might improve things for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure really I know more pics would help but I don't want to plaster them all over here I'm happy to send private on Kik or something other than that I don't really know. I'm aware that as a single guy it won't be easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best advice I can give you is expect nothing and keep an open mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New to both really I've been on here but not had much luck so kinda tuned out for abit "

Read your own profile, OP? If you were a lady with a choice, do you think that they would give you a second look?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well there isn't a lot to say really and off I put all about me on there that's half the conversation

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Not sure really I know more pics would help but I don't want to plaster them all over here I'm happy to send private on Kik or something other than that I don't really know. I'm aware that as a single guy it won't be easy "

That's all well and good,but people just flicking through profiles are probably just going to carry on flicking if they don't see much of a profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point but I can't even see yours haha

And to be honest I've always been crap at writing about myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well there isn't a lot to say really and off I put all about me on there that's half the conversation "

And how many conversations are you having?

Carry on doing the same thing and expect the same result.

If you think you are worth meeting, explain why. Otherwise, accept that folk here have better fish to fry.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Good point but I can't even see yours haha

And to be honest I've always been crap at writing about myself "

Mine is hidden as I'm not meeting at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point but I can't even see yours haha

And to be honest I've always been crap at writing about myself "

She did not ask for guidance so do not criticise her.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Your profile is key to getting attention, chats, and meets on this site which is why it is really worth the effort to present who you are, what you're like, what you're seeking, and what you have to offer.

It really pays off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not criticising anyone I was only satating it and light heartedly at that ... Now from the start you have been rude and abrupt I'm simply asking a question. I'm not trying to annoy orp piss anyone off everyone else on here and private messaging has been very polite except you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the feeling you'll just ignore any advice so I'll save my time. Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course I won't ignore it.

That's why I posted this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course I won't ignore it.

That's why I posted this "

Well, I took my time out to give you some constructive advice - and your response was that I was rude and abrupt.

So please feel free to go your own way without advice. I don't claim to be the panacea to all ills. I was simply trying to help.

I am sure that others can help you.

This is supposed to be lighthearted and fun. As it no longer seems to be, I will bow out and wish you the best of luck.

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