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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys n ladies im 24 I dont seem to be getting quite far ive had 1 meet since I joined and im wondering about the club scene now I suffer with some social anxiety and I would like to join the club scene as ive read about it in the forums on here but I dont want to go alone either with someone else or a group of people if you do that

Also if you have any tips about altering my profile inbox me

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi James,

I'm a newbie too. Maybe pop a few more sentences on your profile! Really sell yourself and use it to show your personality!

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi James,

I'm a newbie too. Maybe pop a few more sentences on your profile! Really sell yourself and use it to show your personality!

Have fun! "

Well im no good at that stuff

But ill try my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing to remember is there are a lot of friendly people here, so just be yourself. The not so nice ones you can block lol.

Try and keep rewording your profile. Add some punctuation too. Make it easy reading. Have a look at some other guys profiles and see how they have written about themselves and what their looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very nervous when I went to my first club. The thing that got me through the door was thinking that I could turn back at any point if I did'nt like what I saw.

We get anxious because we feel threatened in some way, so by challenging yourself and thinking what's the worst that can happen, it will usually make you feel less nervous. A lot of times after the even you can even laugh at how crazy some of your thoughts might have been.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was very nervous when I went to my first club. The thing that got me through the door was thinking that I could turn back at any point if I did'nt like what I saw.

We get anxious because we feel threatened in some way, so by challenging yourself and thinking what's the worst that can happen, it will usually make you feel less nervous. A lot of times after the even you can even laugh at how crazy some of your thoughts might have been. "

Maybe so buddy but I still dont like going new places on my own lol even if it was another bloke I wouldn't care as long as im not on my own lol saying that might I ad im 110% straight lol

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