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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still new to this was just wondering why people don't have there varis displayed on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people like to be discreet and maybe the person they had a meet with asked not to display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's none of anyone's business who I have sex with.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Still new to this was just wondering why people don't have there varis displayed on their profile?"

Because some jerk-off contacted some people who had verified me and said thing sailing the lines of 'you met him - meet me' and so I hid most of them to prevent this happening again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it's none of anyone's business who I have sex with."

yes that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's not enough room on fab to show all ours

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

You have the summary displayed which is always helpful but it's a personal things if you want to leave it at that or display actual verifications. .

As some have said it can leave it open for people to message them!

Then again some look at previous meet profilesome to guague a type.

At the end of the day it's your profile so do what you are happy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not a diary.

Its my business.

Same as not having every nee verified .

So what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe we've just been messaged by someone telling us we don't actually meet because of the verifications he can see. It's none of his or anyone else's business who we have met and fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show the ones we want to show. I go through phases, myself. Sometimes I'll show some and not others because we may be looking more for couples or single men or whatever. Sometimes I just get bored and switch them up.

More often than not I use them as a social experiment to see what/if people say anything to us about them depending on which ones we show. I have a weird sense of what I find interesting entertainment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to show mine as my profile states

If that costs me a fuck then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We show the ones we want to show. I go through phases, myself. Sometimes I'll show some and not others because we may be looking more for couples or single men or whatever. Sometimes I just get bored and switch them up.

More often than not I use them as a social experiment to see what/if people say anything to us about them depending on which ones we show. I have a weird sense of what I find interesting entertainment. "

**goes off to read M.C's veris..**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hiding a dark secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks was just wondering what the reasons were I'm just trying to learn tricks of the trade and ways of spotting fakers so was just curious if that was a reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some people like to be discreet and maybe the person they had a meet with asked not to display.

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This......I've a few I've not displayed to keep others happy. Or repeat verbs....which to be fair I don't need!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine as there's lots of jealous folk out there and I've learnt by the mistake of showing veris... Far too much grief ... Happy to show upon request x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still new to this was just wondering why people don't have there varis displayed on their profile?"

personal preference

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"We show the ones we want to show. I go through phases, myself. Sometimes I'll show some and not others because we may be looking more for couples or single men or whatever. Sometimes I just get bored and switch them up.

More often than not I use them as a social experiment to see what/if people say anything to us about them depending on which ones we show. I have a weird sense of what I find interesting entertainment. "

I thought it was just me who did that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've even told people not to bother leaving one....sometimes they don't want me to bother....as they/me/we have enough already lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About half of mine are unlos. Sometimes I show one or two recent ones..but have also had messages off people being nosey about peeps I've met so tend not to show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met many many folk I have asked not to verify me as it can be off-putting to prospective meets. I display around 60% of my meets

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

People just have different ways of displaying their profile, how it suits them. Just do what you find works best for you, OP. Hope you enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so much hassle in the past over who had met up with - its no buggers business now unless i choose it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there's not enough room on fab to show all ours "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still new to this was just wondering why people don't have there varis displayed on their profile?"

Preference.

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