FabSwingers.com forum: Original verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to meet those that dare to be different

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tell that to the women who said I was a shit shag and slightly better than a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell that to the women who said I was a shit shag and slightly better than a wank

The OP's beef was with guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a boring one than someone thinking they're being funny leaving something that is totally untrue as a joke !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, do you ever post anything positive??!

I never read veris to be honest so it doesn't really bother me. They're usually a load of old rubbish bigging the person up to get another shag anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care, mines hidden anyway XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree, A verification should be just that, to verify that person is genuine, I hate reading descriptions of things that have happened on the meet, and other bollox too, makes me cringe. Templar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, do you ever post anything positive??!

I never read veris to be honest so it doesn't really bother me. They're usually a load of old rubbish bigging the person up to get another shag anyway!"

You hit the nail right on the head XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not TripAdvisor.

I actively detest the verification system. I don't want people rating me on my performance or sharing details of our meet.

"They turned up."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Tell that to the women who said I was a shit shag and slightly better than a wank

The OP's beef was with guys though

Oh that's ok then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not TripAdvisor.

I actively detest the verification system. I don't want people rating me on my performance or sharing details of our meet.

"They turned up."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It's not TripAdvisor.

I actively detest the verification system. I don't want people rating me on my performance or sharing details of our meet.

"They turned up."

And went home again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I disagree, A verification should be just that, to verify that person is genuine, I hate reading descriptions of things that have happened on the meet, and other bollox too, makes me cringe. Templar"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, do you ever post anything positive??!

I never read veris to be honest so it doesn't really bother me. They're usually a load of old rubbish bigging the person up to get another shag anyway!"

Yes I do

Lots

You choose to join in the negative stuff

Forumites do that a lot

The fun stuff seems to pass you by

I started a debate

surely my shout darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, do you ever post anything positive??!

I never read veris to be honest so it doesn't really bother me. They're usually a load of old rubbish bigging the person up to get another shag anyway!

Yes I do

Lots

You choose to join in the negative stuff

Forumites do that a lot

The fun stuff seems to pass you by

I started a debate

surely my shout darling "

Your shout entirely sugar tits, my shout was to join it with my pennies worth. You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter what they write ? All it has to say is they're genuine, turned up and were who they claim to be on their profile. I like to make my own mind up about people, not go on what a total stranger has said about them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display any of mine, so people can write what they like because it's only me that will ever see them. I'm not particularly good at writing them for others, because I'm terrible at giving compliments, and that's all a verification really is. If the people I met were right cunts I'd probably find it easy but they're all lovely

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope, no-one has ever written either of those things about me. Not that verifications matter a jot anyway. Other than to say turned up, looks like the person in the photos, acts like the person I've been talking to so job's a good 'un.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification "

Tell you what, I'll write what I like.

You can write what you like.

How's that for novel eh?

People telling me what I should and shouldn't do pisses me off.

Keep your nose out of my business, I'll keep mine out of yours.

Fair enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the one's off some women who say 'hands off ladies he is mine'or dont want to share'it means the guy wont dare verify other meets in case he upsets that lady who did the verify. And why show it anyway. I neva meet men who have a verify like that. I would neva say that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does it matter what they write ? All it has to say is they're genuine, turned up and were who they claim to be on their profile. I like to make my own mind up about people, not go on what a total stranger has said about them anyway."

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification

Tell you what, I'll write what I like.

You can write what you like.

How's that for novel eh?

People telling me what I should and shouldn't do pisses me off.

Keep your nose out of my business, I'll keep mine out of yours.

Fair enough?

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I find the verification thing a bit tacky really.

I'll always question if all those women who "suck like a dyson" ,took that as a compliment??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again "

Don't let it bother you, all of this is just a load of old bollocks never to be taken seriously anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification

Tell you what, I'll write what I like.

You can write what you like.

How's that for novel eh?

People telling me what I should and shouldn't do pisses me off.

Keep your nose out of my business, I'll keep mine out of yours.

Fair enough?

Well said."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification

Tell you what, I'll write what I like.

You can write what you like.

How's that for novel eh?

People telling me what I should and shouldn't do pisses me off.

Keep your nose out of my business, I'll keep mine out of yours.

Fair enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again "

Your right, it is to discuss.

Unfortunately you didn't offer the option to discuss, you ordered everyone to do what you want.

If you're afraid of bullies, don't go into the playground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's too much bickering in what should be simple fun forum threads at the moment. Be calm you guys please.

In answer to the OP, I don't think they are always formulaic, but there do seem to be stock phrases.

Please treat this comment with respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's too much bickering in what should be simple fun forum threads at the moment. Be calm you guys please.

In answer to the OP, I don't think they are always formulaic, but there do seem to be stock phrases.

Please treat this comment with respect

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No matter how formulaic, boring, graphic or jokey the verification: no one is under any obligation to show them, so if they do show them, we can safely assume both parties are happy with that which is all that matters.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

It seems that, no matter what people write in them, it's wrong. They're either too graphic, too gushing, too cliché or its lamppost pissing.

So, we generally hide ours to avoid upsetting people.

That apparently, makes us fake, you just can't win.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again

Your right, it is to discuss.

Unfortunately you didn't offer the option to discuss, you ordered everyone to do what you want.

If you're afraid of bullies, don't go into the playground."

There you have it ladies and gentleman

A bully with 'I'm a bully' t shirt

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"No matter how formulaic, boring, graphic or jokey the verification: no one is under any obligation to show them, so if they do show them, we can safely assume both parties are happy with that which is all that matters. "

Stop talking sense, that's frowned upon here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification "

Then why read them? I for one don't as I don't take much from them. Varis will always be what they are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I don't think it should be inferred that if someone doesn't show them they're not happy with them, which is an assumption often made about the fact I hide mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again

Your right, it is to discuss.

Unfortunately you didn't offer the option to discuss, you ordered everyone to do what you want.

If you're afraid of bullies, don't go into the playground.

There you have it ladies and gentleman

A bully with 'I'm a bully' t shirt "

I cannot see how he's bullied you and he does have a point, you have basically told people to write verifications the way you want rather than starting a discussion on the topic of what people write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care

They show I'm the real deal that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification "

As long as they're not writing one for you what does it matter what anyone puts on anyone else's profile?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

But I don't think it should be inferred that if someone doesn't show them they're not happy with them, which is an assumption often made about the fact I hide mine."

No, not at all. I'm happy with all of mine but the reason I hid most was that some of the people were getting hassle.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Stop talking sense, that's frowned upon here.

I'll write my own....

"Mrs Benderoos was so sexy she made me cum from 50+(driving) miles away"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They show I'm the real deal that's all that matters"

Exactly this! Mine exist but are hidden.

Turned up on time and where they said they would looking like their pictures would be ideal!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You know if people are going to join in there is no need to sound aggressive or be rude as it then sends the thread on a different direction

Also, if someones post annoy you please just ignore them altogether

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Verifications are becoming so boring

All guys write is

'Well what can I say about this genuine girl treat her with respect you will be rewarded'

Over and over

Show some respect by giving a decent verification "

I never write such dreadful cliches in any of my verifications, and similarly don't expect to receive them.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Stop talking sense, that's frowned upon here.

I'll write my own....

"Mrs Benderoos was so sexy she made me cum from 50+(driving) miles away" "

Imagine, what I could do from 0 miles away.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I rarely read other profiles veris, they pretty much spout the same bullshit

gorgeous girl/guy

fucks for hours

made me cum buckets

Don't miss this one

blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't read too much into them, if it's a 'review' we just accept that's the way some people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have some of my verifications displayed

I also read verifications first before I decide to take things further

Verifications are important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right

The idea of a forum is to discuss stuff

If something bothers me but it doesn't bother you

Why does it make you right ?

I have an opinion

If your not fussed

Leave idobt get so excited

Damn forum bullies out again "

I didn't say I was right.

I didn't say you were wrong.

You didn't express an opinion, you attempted to impose a dictat. Few people like a dictatorship, even a benevolent one.

Fab has a set of rules, we all choose to comply with them. Fab doesn't need me to write any more rules.

Taken from a sporting homily;

When you enter into a discourse, play the ball, not the man.

Accusing people of doing something they haven't done detracts from your point and doesn't strengthen it.

Give your point some value, tell us why and how you think it will improve things. Share your thinking, give us something to consider.

I've frequently read someone else's perspective and thought, "hold on, they have a point".

Thanks for the engagement, it was interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell that to the women who said I was a shit shag and slightly better than a wank

The OP's beef was with guys though

Oh that's ok then.

But what you're demanding here is a nice review, not a respectful review. Reviews should inform the reader, after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely read other profiles veris, they pretty much spout the same bullshit

gorgeous girl/guy

fucks for hours

made me cum buckets

Don't miss this one

blah blah"

You used to be fun

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