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Is it right to be very fussy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.

I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's right to be fussy and also your perogative XXX

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm guessing the men you turned down said you were too fussy?

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Could not agree more and by maintaining our standards we have now met the perfect couple for us.

B2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.

I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets."

Your absolutely right . your here for what YOU want not everybody else . Stick to what you like

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

100% right to be fussy, we have had the same said to us before today. Also we do not like to play too close to home and we have received a bit of hassle for that too. But at the end of the day it is our / your choice simple as. Those that don't like the rules you set for yourself are no doubt not the type of people you would want to meet any way.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm guessing the men you turned down said you were too fussy? "

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I think so personally but I have had quite a few messages from guys saying I set my standards too high.

I disagree. You need to know exactly what you want on here and I have still managed to get plenty of meets."

They're just miffed hun because they know they don't stand a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect anything less. If someone has low or no standards then they're not worth meeting.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Personally I think you have to be fussy otherwise what's the point. I wouldn't want to feel like I was just a hole for the guy either

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We know what we like and what we're looking for.

If others think we're too picky or not picky enough, that's their problem, not ours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting replies. A guy was in touch with me not long ago asking if I would come to his hotel. He had posted a meet asking if any fem or couple would meet him in a hotel. He also posted that he would pay for the hotel himself with any couple or lady. Does that sound like he was fussy or what??

I declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fussy is the only way I want to be

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I dont think you are fussy.. just because you dont say yes to someone or decline many does not make you fussy. You like what you like.. end off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about setting your standards too high. It's about knowing what you like, and not being willing to settle for less. Why should you compromise that in any way? It's sex after all, not a handshake. I have my preferences, and if someone sees that as having too a high a standard, then so be it. I only share my body with those who fit what I am looking for, I could never compromise on that.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Be fussy as you like - I am ad enjoy every second. Apologise to NOBODY for setting your own standards and sticking with them!

The ones complaining are only the ones you say no to.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don't think it's fussy, think it is value alignment. There are a lot of girls on here who I don't value align with.

Probably the ones who's ID is higher than there IQ and reality.

Luke life you choose, not make do, well in my world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about setting your standards too high. It's about knowing what you like, and not being willing to settle for less. Why should you compromise that in any way? It's sex after all, not a handshake. I have my preferences, and if someone sees that as having too a high a standard, then so be it. I only share my body with those who fit what I am looking for, I could never compromise on that. "

Thanks x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Don't think it's fussy, think it is value alignment. There are a lot of girls on here who I don't value align with.

Probably the ones who's ID is higher than there IQ and reality.

Luke life you choose, not make do, well in my world "
really need to prune the size of my fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as being fussy, it's just standards.

Only those that don't meet those standards believe in Fussiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so so fussy

I have standards & expect the same. I'm not desperate & will filter & sift until I find someone the same

In fact when a guys profile is detailed & he seems fussy it makes me want to know more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Wouldn't question my way of doing things because of comments from random people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't drop your standards/preferences, just make mine your benchmark..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am very fussy, but I wouldn't have a clue who it was that I was looking for looks wise. The men I have met have not been physically similar, but their personality has been the part to make me want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so so fussy

I have standards & expect the same. I'm not desperate & will filter & sift until I find someone the same

In fact when a guys profile is detailed & he seems fussy it makes me want to know more "

Glad I'm not the only one. If a guy has that kind of profile, it makes them more attractive. There's one on the forums ( not mentioning any names) who seems completely ungettable. Although I have not messaged him, he definitely has caught my attention .

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