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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

Build

Attractive

Height

Cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?"

Exactly that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it is:

Tit size

Personality

Attractive

Build

Height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I look for is if we get on online first off...

Some people can do the flirty thing and some really can't ... I steer clear of people who take this site, and themselves, too seriously

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By * Reason WhyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Area

personality

height

build

the others are unimportant to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I look for is if we get on online first off...

Some people can do the flirty thing and some really can't ... I steer clear of people who take this site, and themselves, too seriously "

You forgot the

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

For me:

Personality

Build

Height

Attractive

Cock/tits size.

Personality will usually sway all the rest. To be honest, attraction is for me, a combination of them all anyway plus other things.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Hope this ain't inspired by our convos Bottle!

Personality (I would be talking to anyone without a decent one - let alone a social!)

Attractive

Build (although I class that as being part of attractive tbh

Height

Cock/tits size

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope. Inspired by other threads. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I look for is if we get on online first off...

Some people can do the flirty thing and some really can't ... I steer clear of people who take this site, and themselves, too seriously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?"

Physical attraction is important but so is Personality, both top for me.

Build

Height

Cock size nothing smaller than 6 inch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height. There are some hot guys on here but shorter than me and I don't like it.

Physical attraction, inc build. As the first point of contact is usually a photo.

Personality. Got to have a good sense of humour!! I could totally be laughed into bed

Cock size is irrelevant really

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Attractive

Build

Personality

Height

Cock size

And that is why I hardly ever meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction

Personality

And that's it. Considering our height difference, it'd be silly to judge on height. Same goes for build, we're polar opposites. After all that, if we find the people attractive enough to want to fuck them, then cock or tit size has no bearing either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

Height

Build

Attraction

Cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I look for is if we get on online first off...

Some people can do the flirty thing and some really can't ... I steer clear of people who take this site, and themselves, too seriously

You forgot the "

Obviously you are in the 'non flirty' camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction and personality are top together- I have spoke to some gorgeous guys who have the personality on a Knat so haven't bothered to meet them. The same thing I've spoke to people and although they may not be my usual type I've found them attractive because of their personality.

Then height - I like tall but as long as taller than me I'm happy

Build and cock /boob size are the same level, least important to me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?"

Personality

Attractive

Build

Height

Cock tit size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh can I have age as that's a importance to me - men must be older than me

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By *helonewolfMan
over a year ago

Teesside

Personality

Attractive

Build

Tits size.

Height

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?"

For me personality and attraction can go hand in hand, I'm kind of shallow and need the attraction in the first place but personality can make me like someone far more

Build goes into attraction

Height

Cock/ tits size is irrelevant

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive/Personality

Height

Build

tits

waist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooh can I have age as that's a importance to me - men must be older than me "

Sorry. Yes, age is a filter that's important to many. I missed that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I look for is if we get on online first off...

Some people can do the flirty thing and some really can't ... I steer clear of people who take this site, and themselves, too seriously

You forgot the

Obviously you are in the 'non flirty' camp "

Your right, he should know how and when to use a smiley, shouldn't he gorgeous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All equally important to me. If they don't match my criteria in any of those categories, I won't meet them.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Personality

Build

Attractive

Cock size

Height.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Difficult as all have a place in how I chose but it would be

Attractive

Personality

Build

Then the remainder.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Attraction

Personality

And that's it. Considering our height difference, it'd be silly to judge on height. Same goes for build, we're polar opposites. After all that, if we find the people attractive enough to want to fuck them, then cock or tit size has no bearing either. "

Literally wrote our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height - that's the first thing I check

Attractive - I'm shallow, so sue me

Personality - I'd put this equal second if I could

Build - this is part of attractiveness anyway

Cock size - doesn't even really come into it

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?"

Personality. I don't decide based on any other personal quality

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Just put these in order of importance of how you mark somebody up as a potential meet.

Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size.

Just for fun. I know there's other things but we all have filters set, so how important is it until you have a social?

For me personality and attraction can go hand in hand, I'm kind of shallow and need the attraction in the first place but personality can make me like someone far more

Build goes into attraction

Height

Cock/ tits size is irrelevant

Beard"

This for me too. Nothing wrong with being a little shallow, I don't plan on having sex with someone that I am not visually attracted to. I wouldn't enjoy it.

Sorry

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Height - that's the first thing I check

Attractive - I'm shallow, so sue me

Personality - I'd put this equal second if I could

Build - this is part of attractiveness anyway

Cock size - doesn't even really come into it "

Yeah I'm shallow too. See you in the sue section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

Attraction

Build

Height

Cock size xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality..engaging my brain is a big turn on

Attraction..no type here but I just know as soon as I see a face pic.

Build..no extreme either way.

Cock size..as long as it's not huge. ( If I'm really honest the smaller end of the scale really turns me on.)

Height..really not bothered.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

My order would be:

Attractive

Build

Personality

Height

Cock size

Whilst cock size is the least important even if all the other boxes were ticked I would not meet anyone with a small cock

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Attractive

Personality

Height

Build

Cock/tits size."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-Personality

2-Tushy size

3-Attraction

4-Physique

Rest is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction

Personality

Build

Cock

Height

The first 2 are closely linked though as if I'm put off by either looks or personality I'll be put off completely.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Attractive (Has to be an initial attraction)

Cock size (Never thought it was too important to me until recently)

Build (Love a bigger built guy)

Personality (Would normally be higher on a list like this but I'm a bit tiddly)

Height (Usually really important but if I've got to compromise on something it will be height....well so long since they're not short arses )

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