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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot on here, doesn't bother me at all, I just ignore it and find a thread that interests me more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This a story, or a fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This a story, or a fantasy? "

Ooooh good point. Its in the wrong forum, oh shite, I just found a fault with the thread, I'll get my coat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's neither a story or fantasy!

Just wondering if anyone else was pissed about being judged

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

So OP am i right in thinking that you are only interested in replies that concur with your opinion....only ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you married OP? Is this what you're getting uppity about?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"It's neither a story or fantasy!

Just wondering if anyone else was pissed about being judged"

Unfortunately ppl will always judge even when they say that they don't they do.

Some just don't go on about it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As with all things, some do and some don't. There are a few couples on here who appear, via their forum posts, to ooze fetid poison and are gleefully dismissive in their communications. Happily, I can only think of 3 couples who I've blocked.

Most are totally awesome and I want to have sex with loads of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see op as let single women off

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Are you married OP? Is this what you're getting uppity about?"

I'd guess you hit the nail on the head there lol¬!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are people on the forums you'll agree with and some you won't.

There's even people you will do both with, depending on the topic.

But to get wound up over it is a waste of energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with all things, some do and some don't. There are a few couples on here who appear, via their forum posts, to ooze fetid poison and are gleefully dismissive in their communications. Happily, I can only think of 3 couples who I've blocked.

Most are totally awesome and I want to have sex with loads of them.

"

Are you trying to pull Shag with your latest profile pic??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Do you mean they dare to have an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you married OP? Is this what you're getting uppity about?"

That could explain it!!

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I hope we don't do this. Often give our opinion but certainly don't force it on others

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

it happens a lot OP but a guy like me will go in there and stir the pot a bit for the fun of it

yes I'm bad really bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said many times before, some people take this shit way too seriously!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As with all things, some do and some don't. There are a few couples on here who appear, via their forum posts, to ooze fetid poison and are gleefully dismissive in their communications. Happily, I can only think of 3 couples who I've blocked.

Most are totally awesome and I want to have sex with loads of them.

Are you trying to pull Shag with your latest profile pic??! "

Haha I tricked him into admitting he'd eat a haribo if I had some, so I sent him that pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always a few who take the moral high ground and can't stop themselves from making snide comments - and it's not just couples.

Does it really matter what strangers on the Internet say or think? Even personal digs don't bother me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I hope we don't do this. Often give our opinion but certainly don't force it on others"

No, you don't. (Having scrutinised the green arrow of truth) but some use the word 'opinion' as an excuse to say nasty things to people, some of whom are less able to defend themselves.

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

'desperately seeking attention male'

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"'desperately seeking attention male'

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naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'desperately seeking attention male'

"

Hey don't be smug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Yes! Absolutely tools.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am a bisexual single man on a swingers site who does not sugarcoat, I say what I think, when I choose to and don't give a monkeys what other people think.

I put myself out there and happy that some will snipe at me, I will be concerned the second I start to give a shit what invisible people on the tinternet think.

Married, barebackers, bi guys and other subjects bring out the best and worst of opinions, but then again people ask for them. If all the replies were invitations for a shag, there would be no bleating.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I am a bisexual single man on a swingers site who does not sugarcoat, I say what I think, when I choose to and don't give a monkeys what other people think.

I put myself out there and happy that some will snipe at me, I will be concerned the second I start to give a shit what invisible people on the tinternet think.

Married, barebackers, bi guys and other subjects bring out the best and worst of opinions, but then again people ask for them. If all the replies were invitations for a shag, there would be no bleating."

Your last sentence is a bit iffy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, I had a photo of me in a sheep outfit.

No, you can't cos I deleted it.

Possibly, if I ask the lady to send it me again.

Unlikely, given the fact that I don't like the wool pulled over my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice to you OP would be 'if you don't wish to be judged then don't post on the forums' .. simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

People don't post unless they want opinions on their post.

Would it not be a trifle boring for a forum if the only replies were, ""Yes, I agree?"

So, for the benefit of the forum, I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've genuinely not read any of this thread other than the opening post (yeah I know perhaps I should) but are the pitchforks out yet? And the flaming torches?

If they're not they'll be along soon as sure as night follows day ..

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By *isexhotcoupleCouple
over a year ago

london

Totally agree and also just as bad if not worse some clown tries to immediately make fun of the OP with usually an unfunny joke and then that clowns click start trying to be funny back n forth the hole fucking day!

Some people put very interesting topics up that deserve discussion but these idiots keep pulling thing of track!

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

i threw in a flaming torch.... OP hasn't been come back with his pitchfork yet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've genuinely not read any of this thread other than the opening post (yeah I know perhaps I should) but are the pitchforks out yet? And the flaming torches?

If they're not they'll be along soon as sure as night follows day .. "

Mine was more cocktail stick and candle

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Totally agree and also just as bad if not worse some clown tries to immediately make fun of the OP with usually an unfunny joke and then that clowns click start trying to be funny back n forth the hole fucking day!

Some people put very interesting topics up that deserve discussion but these idiots keep pulling thing of track!"

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, that's what makes the forum tick x

I wouldn't say the couple's or single men were being smug for posting their moral opinions. XXX

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Kind of lost, isn't this available bitch dot com....

It's odd how frustration reveals...

Well in my world.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Just couples and men? Are single women not gulity of this behaviour on occasion too?

Everyone judges, even those who claim not too! Its just some people are more vocal about it.

I might agree with one person on one subject and then disagree on another. I don't even agree with Mr B about a lot of things.

Oops, does that make me smug for having a different opinion

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Smug judging comes from all quarters. I must admit I don't like any assumption that clumps 'couples' or 'single men' or 'single women' as having some common behaviour.

You'll get smart arses and haters regardless, just a fact of life, worse online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smug judging comes from all quarters. I must admit I don't like any assumption that clumps 'couples' or 'single men' or 'single women' as having some common behaviour.

You'll get smart arses and haters regardless, just a fact of life, worse online."

Thank you for your post, and you put that up with not the slightest realisation of the irony of it?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Smug judging comes from all quarters. I must admit I don't like any assumption that clumps 'couples' or 'single men' or 'single women' as having some common behaviour.

You'll get smart arses and haters regardless, just a fact of life, worse online.

Thank you for your post, and you put that up with not the slightest realisation of the irony of it?"

Since I wasn't being smug or moral policing, no I don't. But carry on being annoyed if that's what you prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have "morale opinions" so we find it best we keep shtoom!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smug judging comes from all quarters. I must admit I don't like any assumption that clumps 'couples' or 'single men' or 'single women' as having some common behaviour.

You'll get smart arses and haters regardless, just a fact of life, worse online.

Thank you for your post, and you put that up with not the slightest realisation of the irony of it?

Since I wasn't being smug or moral policing, no I don't. But carry on being annoyed if that's what you prefer."

Thanks, i will, as per my original post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice to you OP would be 'if you don't wish to be judged then don't post on the forums' .. simples "

Such a simple but perfectly correct statement!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

There seem to be certain types who moan about single 'married' men cheating on their wives. This is usually from the man who is cheating on his wife in front of her face. Consider the source and ignore it, I would say ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who fucking cares honestly?

It's only by chance that I've written this in this particular thread, it could have easily applied to a good number of the threads on this forum. So by no means directed at you personally, OP.

People are far too hung up on what everyone else thinks, instead of just getting on with their business and focusing on what interests them.

FWIW I get what you mean, as do I empathise with a lot of other moans on here, but why waste the energy when you can be getting on with productive things, like fucking and chatting up hot couples/girls/men/TV or whatever you're into?

Enjoy it mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really sure what the OP is referring to, but a lot of stuff goes over my head. It's also odd to me to say one group does it over others.

It's a swingers site, it's one big judgement fest, and the forums are an even bigger magnifying glass.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"...or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

May I at least snigger at the irony?

Mr ddc

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By *aveywMan
over a year ago

tramore

It's all bollocks. Everything. Your opinion is bollocks. Their opinion is bollocks. My opinion is bollocks. It's all bollocks. Except Mr. Trump. He speak the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

OP I think you've not mentioned the single female doing something wrong.......

I find in general everyone conducts themselves in a good way - but there are exceptions to this and those exceptions come from male, couple and female accounts.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Your profile says you'd like to meet couples. After this, calling couples smug, good luck with that quest xx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you married OP? Is this what you're getting uppity about?

I'd guess you hit the nail on the head there lol¬!"

Have we missed where the OP answered this?

Of course he doesn't have to, but it would explain his feelings a little!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Your profile says you'd like to meet couples. After this, calling couples smug, good luck with that quest xx Suzi"

If you read his OP again, you will see he said some smug couple not all couples are smug. Very different meanings.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Find fault with your thread - never. I will just help to pick up your toys and put them back in your pram. Something has clearly upset you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really hacked off with indignant single guys suggesting that I'm one half of a 'smug'couple,casting my aspersions on hacked off single guys who are hacked off at smug couples.

This 'hacking off'has to stop!

We are free next Saturday btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

"

I like it. I like watching people justify themselves to them when they're in the wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

You are so right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree with the OP, although all demographics are guilty of this behaviour. So many times have a seen someone have a bit of moan, then others crash in with what comes across as a belittling 'telling off' for feeling the way they do. What people say is often taken too literally or even twisted to make that person look foolish. Ive seen people nitpick over statements that others make, such that one has to be so careful with what one writes otherwise it will be torn apart, when it's bloody obvious what was really meant. Anybody coming across as a bit too generalising in a statement gets crucified. Even in this thread alone, the OP has been accused of throwing his toys out of the pram, when all he did was have a bit of a grumble. Then those who tear a strip of others protest that it is 'just their opinion' and they are 'allowed to disagree'. Of course we are! We are all allowed to disagree and we are all allowed to express an opinion. But can it not be done in a respectful way, instead of telling people off as though they are a child!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely agree with the OP, although all demographics are guilty of this behaviour. So many times have a seen someone have a bit of moan, then others crash in with what comes across as a belittling 'telling off' for feeling the way they do. What people say is often taken too literally or even twisted to make that person look foolish. Ive seen people nitpick over statements that others make, such that one has to be so careful with what one writes otherwise it will be torn apart, when it's bloody obvious what was really meant. Anybody coming across as a bit too generalising in a statement gets crucified. Even in this thread alone, the OP has been accused of throwing his toys out of the pram, when all he did was have a bit of a grumble. Then those who tear a strip of others protest that it is 'just their opinion' and they are 'allowed to disagree'. Of course we are! We are all allowed to disagree and we are all allowed to express an opinion. But can it not be done in a respectful way, instead of telling people off as though they are a child!

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For reasons of morality we as a couple shall not comment.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site."

Best post I've seen in a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site."

" just to whinge " how ironic as that's exactly what the OP'S post was " a whinge "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site."

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs"

Oh dear

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share "

I hope this popcorn lasts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Completely agree with the OP, although all demographics are guilty of this behaviour. So many times have a seen someone have a bit of moan, then others crash in with what comes across as a belittling 'telling off' for feeling the way they do. What people say is often taken too literally or even twisted to make that person look foolish. Ive seen people nitpick over statements that others make, such that one has to be so careful with what one writes otherwise it will be torn apart, when it's bloody obvious what was really meant. Anybody coming across as a bit too generalising in a statement gets crucified. Even in this thread alone, the OP has been accused of throwing his toys out of the pram, when all he did was have a bit of a grumble. Then those who tear a strip of others protest that it is 'just their opinion' and they are 'allowed to disagree'. Of course we are! We are all allowed to disagree and we are all allowed to express an opinion. But can it not be done in a respectful way, instead of telling people off as though they are a child!

Mrs"

Well said. However I'm still curious as to what exactly the OP is referring to. I will probably get flamed for this but in my perception it's the single females creating the most drama in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs"

So it's fine for you to criticise and comment and whinge about people who believe they are sharing or having an opinion,so what is your comment an opinion or a whinge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Completely agree with the OP, although all demographics are guilty of this behaviour. So many times have a seen someone have a bit of moan, then others crash in with what comes across as a belittling 'telling off' for feeling the way they do. What people say is often taken too literally or even twisted to make that person look foolish. Ive seen people nitpick over statements that others make, such that one has to be so careful with what one writes otherwise it will be torn apart, when it's bloody obvious what was really meant. Anybody coming across as a bit too generalising in a statement gets crucified. Even in this thread alone, the OP has been accused of throwing his toys out of the pram, when all he did was have a bit of a grumble. Then those who tear a strip of others protest that it is 'just their opinion' and they are 'allowed to disagree'. Of course we are! We are all allowed to disagree and we are all allowed to express an opinion. But can it not be done in a respectful way, instead of telling people off as though they are a child!

Mrs"

Thanks for the supportive post, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a moral opinion?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs

So it's fine for you to criticise and comment and whinge about people who believe they are sharing or having an opinion,so what is your comment an opinion or a whinge? "

its just a opinion a opinion which happens to be true in a lot of cases no one is personally being criticised by this post where as you often see people personally or slyly having a pop at others on here .

that's not what this place is about its about having sexual fun with interesting drama free people in my opinion

happily the forums show who the drama feel fun lovers are more often than it doesn't hence me liking the forums on here most of the time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs

So it's fine for you to criticise and comment and whinge about people who believe they are sharing or having an opinion,so what is your comment an opinion or a whinge?

its just a opinion a opinion which happens to be true in a lot of cases no one is personally being criticised by this post where as you often see people personally or slyly having a pop at others on here .

that's not what this place is about its about having sexual fun with interesting drama free people in my opinion

happily the forums show who the drama feel fun lovers are more often than it doesn't hence me liking the forums on here most of the time . "

Not everyone uses the site in the same way, it's about whatever you want it to be about.

Some people swing, some just have nsa sex, some don't meet and are keyboard wankers, some just chat to friends, some just use the forums to whinge, and probably numerous other reasons....

There's no right or wrong way to use the site as long as you don't break the rules and it's not for me or you or anyone else to say they are wrong

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I've just had a look through a couple of threads in the forum, and no matter what the op has started with you can guarantee some smug couple somewhere, or desperately seeking attention male will try and force their moral opinion on everyone else

Really annoys me,anyone else find that?

Oh and if you want to find fault with this thread please, feel free not to share

Let it go over your head mate you'll get the same clique that will sabotage every thread, I'm sure they sit on forums 24/7 just to winge.

Luckily most of these never meet which leaves it safe for us genuine swingers that actually do meet people & use Fab for what it is supposed to be used for...a swinging site.

No I don't think that's entirely accurate. These people seem to sit on the forums waiting to pounce on someone who dare's to verbalise a complaint, irritation, or grumble. These people criticise but are unable to give constructive feedback.

Mrs

So it's fine for you to criticise and comment and whinge about people who believe they are sharing or having an opinion,so what is your comment an opinion or a whinge?

its just a opinion a opinion which happens to be true in a lot of cases no one is personally being criticised by this post where as you often see people personally or slyly having a pop at others on here .

that's not what this place is about its about having sexual fun with interesting drama free people in my opinion

happily the forums show who the drama feel fun lovers are more often than it doesn't hence me liking the forums on here most of the time .

Not everyone uses the site in the same way, it's about whatever you want it to be about.

Some people swing, some just have nsa sex, some don't meet and are keyboard wankers, some just chat to friends, some just use the forums to whinge, and probably numerous other reasons....

There's no right or wrong way to use the site as long as you don't break the rules and it's not for me or you or anyone else to say they are wrong "

That's all correct that's why I love the forums and the little green arrow next to the name it really allows one to see through the bullshit .

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