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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I had a quick search about these but couldn't see an answer.

Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

message him to check he has done one? sometimes they don't always post because of filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I had a quick search about these but couldn't see an answer.

Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?! "

Snazzy moves = Good veri surely

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Is he veried?

Have you asked him to give you your first veri?

Some people just don't give out veris, even if you send them a nice one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are a lot of people that don't verify as it gives and indication of how many people they have met! I have seen a number of people get to high veris, leave then rejoin to start again. If that person leaves then if they have verified you it doesn't display so it looks like YOU haven't displayed it for whatever reason.....quite frustrating really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he veried?

Have you asked him to give you your first veri?

Some people just don't give out veris, even if you send them a nice one."

Yeah, we talked about it. I even asked him to do it... I'm not going to keep asking. He's verified, so it's just a little strange!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, I had a quick search about these but couldn't see an answer.

Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?!

Snazzy moves = Good veri surely "

Exactly... I nearly put my back out and everything! Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he simply doesnt do veris ? Probably best to ask him why

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Shit shag verifications.......I know them well

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You dont have to display your verification summary so you could have 1 or 1000 and no one would know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for them personally. I did receive one the other day from someone who thought it would be good to write a joke one. What was in fact 2 drinks and chat was described as very graphic play which I didn't find funny. He's now blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shit shag verifications.......I know them well "

Oi... did you not hear the part where I said "snazzy moves"

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Let go of it...I am sure you will get plenty more...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The point here is I'd quite like my first one. Not to show, I personally wouldn't want to show them, but at least I'd be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I had a quick search about these but couldn't see an answer.

Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?!

Snazzy moves = Good veri surely

Exactly... I nearly put my back out and everything! Haha!"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Shit shag verifications.......I know them well

Oi... did you not hear the part where I said "snazzy moves""

I can well imagine, believe me.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"The point here is I'd quite like my first one. Not to show, I personally wouldn't want to show them, but at least I'd be verified.

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People all react differently after a shag...He may have moved on...relax you will get plenty verifications. .only been on here 14 days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications. Course of so much drama and never seen a bad one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The point here is I'd quite like my first one. Not to show, I personally wouldn't want to show them, but at least I'd be verified.

People all react differently after a shag...He may have moved on...relax you will get plenty verifications. .only been on here 14 days!"

No, in contact, have another meet planned.

I think maybe my post is getting a bit confused. I'm just wondering if anyone's had the same issue...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Verifications. Course of so much drama and never seen a bad one "

Really? how odd....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Verifications. Course of so much drama and never seen a bad one

Really? how odd...."

That came out wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point here is I'd quite like my first one. Not to show, I personally wouldn't want to show them, but at least I'd be verified.

People all react differently after a shag...He may have moved on...relax you will get plenty verifications. .only been on here 14 days!

No, in contact, have another meet planned.

I think maybe my post is getting a bit confused. I'm just wondering if anyone's had the same issue..."

I did have to remind my first meet to do one as he forgot so might be worth just asking him if he can do it for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The point here is I'd quite like my first one. Not to show, I personally wouldn't want to show them, but at least I'd be verified.

People all react differently after a shag...He may have moved on...relax you will get plenty verifications. .only been on here 14 days!

No, in contact, have another meet planned.

I think maybe my post is getting a bit confused. I'm just wondering if anyone's had the same issue...

I did have to remind my first meet to do one as he forgot so might be worth just asking him if he can do it for you "

Yeah, y'know when you want to be all cool and not keep bringing it up! Haha, that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He maybe unsure of what to write as it can be a tricky subject to write about. Tell him he will get no more until you get a vari

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

He's maybe just not got round to it yet or forgotten...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?! "

I haven't verified everyone I've met and likewise. However the clue may be in your second paragraph. You are unverified so might find it harder to meet guys (some won't bother with unverified girls). He wants to meet you again. He might not want to make it any easier to meet others...

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?!

I haven't verified everyone I've met and likewise. However the clue may be in your second paragraph. You are unverified so might find it harder to meet guys (some won't bother with unverified girls). He wants to meet you again. He might not want to make it any easier to meet others..."

blimey...what a terrible thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is he veried?

Have you asked him to give you your first veri?

Some people just don't give out veris, even if you send them a nice one.

Yeah, we talked about it. I even asked him to do it... I'm not going to keep asking. He's verified, so it's just a little strange! "

I would leave it to be honest. He obviously has his reasons. I have had this happen a few times with me. I always ask them to verify me first before I hand out one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?!

I haven't verified everyone I've met and likewise. However the clue may be in your second paragraph. You are unverified so might find it harder to meet guys (some won't bother with unverified girls). He wants to meet you again. He might not want to make it any easier to meet others..."

Ahh okay!

Yeah, I don't necessarily want a review. Just to be verified so I don't constantly get asked about not being verified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he veried?

Have you asked him to give you your first veri?

Some people just don't give out veris, even if you send them a nice one.

Yeah, we talked about it. I even asked him to do it... I'm not going to keep asking. He's verified, so it's just a little strange!

I would leave it to be honest. He obviously has his reasons. I have had this happen a few times with me. I always ask them to verify me first before I hand out one"

You can't verify if you're a newbie, unfortunately!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Go on cam if you are desperate to be verified...I suggest it would take you all of ten mins to find someone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go on cam if you are desperate to be verified...I suggest it would take you all of ten mins to find someone..."

I'm not "desperate" to be verified...

I was wondering if anyone had an issue with a guy verifying them.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"So, I had a quick search about these but couldn't see an answer.

Has anyone had an issue getting a guy to verify you? Had my first meet, it went well. we joked about verifications but he's not done it. We're in contact, he wants to see me again but still no verification.

I didn't get the impression that he thought it was a terrible shag (I even pulled my snazzy moves out), but just wondered if this is a usual thing!?! "

my first thought OP upon reading your post was

he hasn't done it as a way of maybe trying to make sure you meet him again kind of like a carrot to make sure you give him a second meet .

I could be wrong but that was my first thought on reading your post .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably can't be arsed, inwouldnt streas about it

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