FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a pretty straight fem of a couple when I'm searching for couples although the woman's pictures play a part I'm in truth looking to be physically attracted to the male. Yet I'm finding 90% of couples profiles have no pictures of the male or at best one of his cock. I'm just wondering why if you're hoping to attract couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most 'couples' profiles are really single women pretending to be a couple...

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Slimandtrim300 posted this thread yesterday. They had the same 90% figure as OP states so it must be true.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a pretty straight fem of a couple when I'm searching for couples although the woman's pictures play a part I'm in truth looking to be physically attracted to the male. Yet I'm finding 90% of couples profiles have no pictures of the male or at best one of his cock. I'm just wondering why if you're hoping to attract couples? "

We find the same. As a straight couple we both want to feel an attraction . Having said that the female firm will always attract more attention .

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have photos of both of us .... probably because we are genuine.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like looking at both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of us both although not face pics, those are in our friends only stash

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Slimandtrim300 posted this thread yesterday. They had the same 90% figure as OP states so it must be true.

Sally"

Haha really. I've not used the forums in a while so I agree with slimandtrim. Maybe it should be a must for couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have photos of both of us .... probably because we are genuine.

Your profile is great!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like looking at both

Now that wouldn't surprise me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have pics of us both although not face pics, those are in our friends only stash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both and have face pics to share if we think a meet is on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to run a site do so its no good saying in here this should happen or that should happen cos it won't work we got a time out in here just for putting an opinion on swinging is not what it used to be the standards of sites are not the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have both and have face pics to share if we think a meet is on the cards. "

Amazing photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The woman is usually the selling point so gets put on more is the feeling we get. This makes you wonder slightly though as women seem to be more picky when it comes to partners appearance than men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The woman is usually the selling point so gets put on more is the feeling we get. This makes you wonder slightly though as women seem to be more picky when it comes to partners appearance than men"

That's very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a full frontal of me on view nothing to hide apart from face,

mildred is just so much sexier than I am and she likes poseing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a full frontal of me on view nothing to hide apart from face,

mildred is just so much sexier than I am and she likes poseing "

I disagree you have a sexy body

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

There are a few of me on our profile, and whilst I agree there should be more, unless you're a ripped adonis (which I'm the first to admit I'm not) it's difficult to find poses that show you in a good light or aren't a blatant cock shot (which I'm reluctant to post)....and besides Ms G is far more visually appealing than me

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a full frontal of me on view nothing to hide apart from face,

mildred is just so much sexier than I am and she likes poseing

I disagree you have a sexy body "

thank you he says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have photos of both of us, bit they are hidden and only sent via message when and if we feel it's safe enough to do so.

Public pics are just a teaser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have both and have face pics to share if we think a meet is on the cards.

Amazing photos "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The woman is usually the selling point"

Speak for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a few of me on our profile, and whilst I agree there should be more, unless you're a ripped adonis (which I'm the first to admit I'm not) it's difficult to find poses that show you in a good light or aren't a blatant cock shot (which I'm reluctant to post)....and besides Ms G is far more visually appealing than me

To you she is (and I'm not saying she isn't ) but I'm straight therefore I want to see you My other half can perv on her lol

Mr G "

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

To you she is (and I'm not saying she isn't ) but I'm straight therefore I want to see you My other half can perv on her lol

Mr G "

Ha ha..and not disagreeing with you at all from that perspective, which is why there are some of me on there and we continually try to come up with ideas for more to post

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have hidden pics of us both that we send when we get chatting to someone we think could lead to a meet. The main pics on our profile are of me as I would like to experience my bi side, so for us it'll only really be me playing..... If that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have more of Mrs s as I didn't get anyone attracted to me. So gave up and just had her photos on here and more interest.

Just playing the getting some sex game really...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are only the 'selling point' on here because of the market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are genuine, pics and veri's will confirm that, pics of both too

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Slimandtrim300 posted this thread yesterday. They had the same 90% figure as OP states so it must be true.

Sally"

I just read this.

It's on the internet.

Must be true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women are only the 'selling point' on here because of the market. "

To bi women and men I agree. I'm straight though as are others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics of me (mr), too much body art that is easily identifiable and job anonymity prevents me letting it all be in show.

Plus I'm hot as fuck and we would be swamped by single women wanting to meet us

We are verified, very genuine and send photos of both after a fem/fem chat by phone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have hidden pics of us both that we send when we get chatting to someone we think could lead to a meet. The main pics on our profile are of me as I would like to experience my bi side, so for us it'll only really be me playing..... If that makes sense? "

Yes it does as you explain in your profile. Which is perfectly understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are a couple but only looking for males, horses for courses. people will reply to profiles they are intested in , pics are a by product, cos they could be years old or just not on the peeps. I'm sure no one relies on pics alone ,, well not if they have any common sense lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No pics of me (mr), too much body art that is easily identifiable and job anonymity prevents me letting it all be in show.

Plus I'm hot as fuck and we would be swamped by single women wanting to meet us

We are verified, very genuine and send photos of both after a fem/fem chat by phone."

Hehe I saw a post on that once !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are only the 'selling point' on here because of the market.

To bi women and men I agree. I'm straight though as are others "

So aim for the profiles with pics of men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we are a couple but only looking for males, horses for courses. people will reply to profiles they are intested in , pics are a by product, cos they could be years old or just not on the peeps. I'm sure no one relies on pics alone ,, well not if they have any common sense lol

Perfectly understandable. You're looking for males so are showing the men the female. But that's my point. If you were looking for a straight couple would you show both?

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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

We have both on ours n face pics in private and our pics and verifications show we are genuine xx

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We have mostly pics of female half, two male, two together. We don't actually use fab to arrange meets, just stay in touch with people met at clubs so we're not really selling anything or looking to appeal to anyone.

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By *elly totsCouple
over a year ago

teesside

Hhmmm think we should have more pics of the mr on here better get the camera out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hhmmm think we should have more pics of the mr on here better get the camera out

Hehe I think that would be a fabulous idea the ones you have tickle the taste buds so to speak lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I like looking at both

Perv

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

90% I'd say that rather high.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

As a straight single fella who meets couples, I am obviously going to be attracted by what the woman looks like rather than hubbie. What they are like as a couple is important though and there, the best guide is the words on the profile. However, I will often fab a regular photo - ie a non playing one - of the couple together as it helps show they are straight up people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have face pics in Fr and when requested and like to confirm by camor phone to avoid fakes.

Wouldn't really put face pics on public view all down to choice I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have face pics in Fr and when requested and like to confirm by camor phone to avoid fakes.

Wouldn't really put face pics on public view all down to choice I suppose"

We wouldn't put face pics on. But have full length photos of both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a straight single fella who meets couples, I am obviously going to be attracted by what the woman looks like rather than hubbie. What they are like as a couple is important though and there, the best guide is the words on the profile. However, I will often fab a regular photo - ie a non playing one - of the couple together as it helps show they are straight up people."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both but wouldn't want to meet a coupke with a straight female .

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

"The woman is usually the selling point so gets put on more is the feeling we get. This makes you wonder slightly though as women seem to be more picky when it comes to partners appearance than men

That's very true "

Indeed!

And as a large percentage of women in couples are bi it's important that they find both parties attractive - so I really don't understand the reticence to show pics of the male!

Even worse (or better from an entertainment PoV) is when the woman of the couple is pictured shagging so many different guys that you're playing 'guess the husband!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the same. As a straight couple we both want to feel an attraction . Having said that the female firm will always attract more attention ."

We mostly meet single men off here, in fact can't remember the last time we met a couple off here, any couples we have played with have all been met in clubs

So when meeting single guys it really doesn't matter what I look like,

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By *mmersCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

This is so true OP. On our profile itself, we have more pics of Emma than myself, feel guilty now. Guess we also went with what we saw isn't it? However in our friends there r pics of myself and in private we both have face pics so we can send them to whoever we would like to seeing a mutual connection. Career fear implies too, so keeping it low u see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The woman is usually the selling point so gets put on more is the feeling we get. This makes you wonder slightly though as women seem to be more picky when it comes to partners appearance than men

That's very true "

Totally!! Maybe I shouldn't be so fussy

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

We are a couple who play as a couple and so have pics of both of us including face pics so that people will know whether we are their type before they message.

We are always a little embarrassed at asking for pics of the man who has no pics on the profile and find he is not my type at all and have to politely explain. If there were at least a basic photo that wouldn't be necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because women are more photogenic and more attractive. I think we have photos of both of us on here, I can't remember? But the general consensus is people want to see the female half.

Most of the messages we get are directed at her, which results in a block usually. You're not messaging us both just to try and score with my wife in the hopes that I'll let you.

Besides.. I'm better in bed and my cock is bigger.

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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago

Barbados

We have pics of both of us on our profile. But there are more pics of Vik than me because of two main reasons:

1) When playing with couples, we like bi-fem couples, so more pics of Vik

2) Vik hates taking pics and I'm better with a camera lol

That said, there is a recent SHOCK HORROR! cock pic on our profile of me... due to being specifically asked for one by a single fem (kinda as part of a private joke). But I actually thought it looked quite good so put it on there lol

-Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly photos of me because it's mainly me who plays. Hubby doesn't really play apart from MMF or at clubs in a group scenario x

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

It all depends on what the couple's looking for. We mostly use fab for D to find single guys to join us - so it's mostly D in our pics, as it's fairly important that it's D they find attractive! We use our pics to show what it is we are looking for and hope this comes across in them. I don't think we've ever met a couple through the site but we do use fab as a way of staying in touch with couples we've met and played with at clubs and parties.

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We have photos of us both on our profile

So we are genuine

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We have photos of us both but the majority are of P

she likes to pose

We do wonder if our profile needs more of G?

We always send face pic's on messages, that's of us both together and separate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The woman is usually the selling point so gets put on more is the feeling we get. This makes you wonder slightly though as women seem to be more picky when it comes to partners appearance than men

That's very true

Indeed!

And as a large percentage of women in couples are bi it's important that they find both parties attractive - so I really don't understand the reticence to show pics of the male!

Even worse (or better from an entertainment PoV) is when the woman of the couple is pictured shagging so many different guys that you're playing 'guess the husband!' "

Haha I was going to mention that. But thought I'd get enough grief as it was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are a couple who play as a couple and so have pics of both of us including face pics so that people will know whether we are their type before they message.

This is what we're finding and the point of my post

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's because women are more photogenic and more attractive. I think we have photos of both of us on here, I can't remember? But the general consensus is people want to see the female half.

Most of the messages we get are directed at her, which results in a block usually. You're not messaging us both just to try and score with my wife in the hopes that I'll let you.

Besides.. I'm better in bed and my cock is bigger."

If I'm searching I look at profile then pics. It's rare I message if I don't see the man. However my man will message because he is attracted to the female

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have photos of us both but the majority are of P

she likes to pose

We do wonder if our profile needs more of G?

We always send face pic's on messages, that's of us both together and separate. "

You have some amazing pictures. Of you both. And g does look very nice. I think a few more would balance it out a little hehe but as there is pics of you both couples can see if all parties are attracted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have pics of both of us on our profile. But there are more pics of Vik than me because of two main reasons:

1) When playing with couples, we like bi-fem couples, so more pics of Vik

2) Vik hates taking pics and I'm better with a camera lol

-Matt"

Omgoshh you made me look!!!!!!!

But wow your pictures are amazing. Of both of you. A pleasure to scroll through

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Try being a Bi / Bi couple.

It's super frustrating as you want to see both (granted, we do still need more of me as well).

But yeah, if you're looking for couples, you want to be seeing a couple.

Otherwise it's like the addage when hitch hiking, theres the woman on the road flagging down the cars, and theres some monster in the bushes to jump out after the car's stopped.

You just have to assume the guys been beaten with the ugly stick if there's no pics of him.

Flames

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By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

we have pics of us both as we feel no point seeing 1 of the couple and not the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only really want bi men but we have pictures of both of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try being a Bi / Bi couple.

It's super frustrating as you want to see both (granted, we do still need more of me as well).

But yeah, if you're looking for couples, you want to be seeing a couple.

Otherwise it's like the addage when hitch hiking, theres the woman on the road flagging down the cars, and theres some monster in the bushes to jump out after the car's stopped.

You just have to assume the guys been beaten with the ugly stick if there's no pics of him.

Flames"

Hahaha I get you completely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"we have pics of us both as we feel no point seeing 1 of the couple and not the other "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We only really want bi men but we have pictures of both of us"

Makes perfect sense. You are only looking for single bi guys. So the single guys have to be attracted to both of you

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If a profile works for a couple but not for you then leave them to it and move on to a profile that does work for you. Despite assertions made in this snd similar threads you cannot assume anything from a couple's balance of photographs, other than it works for them otherwise they would presumably change ot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a profile works for a couple but not for you then leave them to it and move on to a profile that does work for you. Despite assertions made in this snd similar threads you cannot assume anything from a couple's balance of photographs, other than it works for them otherwise they would presumably change ot."

That's not the point of the thread. The question was to couples looking for couples. If you don't have photos of both of you why?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

That's not the point of the thread. The question was to couples looking for couples. If you don't have photos of both of you why? "

Sorry - I thought a forum was where people could make any comment they wished. We are a couple looking for couples and have more photos of me than my partner. Why? Because it works very well indeed for us. That is the answer to your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont have to many pics of mr simply because he isn't a selfie whore like myself haha

We do have face pics etc in friends only and have no problem Sharing them...he's a hot good looking guy which I think some people are surprised about because he isn't all over our profile like my attention seeking whore self haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's not the point of the thread. The question was to couples looking for couples. If you don't have photos of both of you why?

Yes it is a forum for people to make comment on questions and ideas. But as you say you're a couple looking for couples with pictures of both I'm just wondering why some couples don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We dont have to many pics of mr simply because he isn't a selfie whore like myself haha

Hahaha love it. Same as us really. Most photos are of me.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"We have photos of us both but the majority are of P

she likes to pose

We do wonder if our profile needs more of G?

We always send face pic's on messages, that's of us both together and separate.

Thank you

will think of some poses for G to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its best to have a mix of both on a couples profile

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