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By *aveyw OP   Man
over a year ago

tramore

Wondering if this has happened to many. I was playing with a couple whom I regularly meet. Great as usual but I couldn't cum. Hard as a rock but couldn't finish. Loads of fucking until she'd had enough. She then wanked me til her arm nearly dropped off. No good. Never happened to me before. Very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if this has happened to many. I was playing with a couple whom I regularly meet. Great as usual but I couldn't cum. Hard as a rock but couldn't finish. Loads of fucking until she'd had enough. She then wanked me til her arm nearly dropped off. No good. Never happened to me before. Very frustrating "

I used to have this when I was inexperienced and not fully relaxed with my partners. It was to do with nerves for me, but this might not be the case for you as you say you've met this couple regularly?

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

It happens more as I get older.

Think of it the other way, longer staying time

If I get the feeling that it just ain't gonna happen, I turn things around and concentrate on her, with more time, you can please her more. Sometimes doing this suddenly hits the spot, then you've had a better, longer time - we all win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wondering if this has happened to many. I was playing with a couple whom I regularly meet. Great as usual but I couldn't cum. Hard as a rock but couldn't finish. Loads of fucking until she'd had enough. She then wanked me til her arm nearly dropped off. No good. Never happened to me before. Very frustrating "

I would worry more about why you have a need to ejaculate. Why worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you take viagra? I know people who use it while playing and they usually don't cum, either.

Why worry about it? I'm sure it was still fun

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

If a one off.. put it down to a good meet.. worrying about it will cause you to worry about it more till next time and same situation

Am sure it happens to us men at some point.. i know its happened to me once!

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By *aveyw OP   Man
over a year ago

tramore

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

yep happens to me alot now but i quiet like the fact that i dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you particularly hot? I mean body temperature wise?

Sometimes when playing, if the room becomes increasingly hot as time goes by, I can struggle to finish.

It doesn't help having an issue with my sympathic nervous system where my body temperature regularly runs a degree hotter than normal.

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By *aveyw OP   Man
over a year ago

tramore

Not just me then. No I hadn't taken viagra. It didn't really worry me. Just frustrated me. And she does like to see her men cum. One off I hope.

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By *aveyw OP   Man
over a year ago

tramore


"Were you particularly hot? I mean body temperature wise?

Sometimes when playing, if the room becomes increasingly hot as time goes by, I can struggle to finish.

It doesn't help having an issue with my sympathic nervous system where my body temperature regularly runs a degree hotter than normal. "

Yes I'd say I was hotter than normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were you particularly hot? I mean body temperature wise?

Sometimes when playing, if the room becomes increasingly hot as time goes by, I can struggle to finish.

It doesn't help having an issue with my sympathic nervous system where my body temperature regularly runs a degree hotter than normal.

Yes I'd say I was hotter than normal. "

Look up mens thermoregulation issues its very common pal. Certainly nothing to worry about

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By *aveyw OP   Man
over a year ago

tramore


"Were you particularly hot? I mean body temperature wise?

Sometimes when playing, if the room becomes increasingly hot as time goes by, I can struggle to finish.

It doesn't help having an issue with my sympathic nervous system where my body temperature regularly runs a degree hotter than normal.

Yes I'd say I was hotter than normal.

Look up mens thermoregulation issues its very common pal. Certainly nothing to worry about "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No worries, as a regular sufferer it's a real pain in the arse.

Especially at clubs where ventilation isn't the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were you particularly hot? I mean body temperature wise?

Sometimes when playing, if the room becomes increasingly hot as time goes by, I can struggle to finish.

It doesn't help having an issue with my sympathic nervous system where my body temperature regularly runs a degree hotter than normal. "

Haha. Your right. I'm like a flipping delicate orchid. Too hot or too cold and I get uncomfortable. All I can think about is putting my socks on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I frequently have the problem the OP talks about. For me I use it to my advantage, a longer staying time and why is cumming seen as so important anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I frequently have the problem the OP talks about. For me I use it to my advantage, a longer staying time and why is cumming seen as so important anyway?

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It does have it's advantages yes, but like a man loves to see and feel a woman come, why would a woman not love to see and feel a man come?

It's about knowing you excite that person into going over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has happened to me a few times fella and I love it when it does.

How can you be possibly frustrated or even embarrassed at the fact that not only are you hard, you go on for long enough to please the woman and still have enough left in the tank to fuck some more.

That for me is an ideal situation and wished it happen to me more often than it actually has

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes, it does happen occasionally.

There's usually good reason tho'

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By *ikeyb368Man
over a year ago

Cottingham

I often have this problem due to been diabetic. As others have said it means you perform longer and therefore hopefully please your partner more. Don't worry to much about it.I have used Viagra but don't like it as it gives me a headache. I also find it happens more if I am wearing a condom, not that I am recommending not using one, as my diabetes reduces my sensitivity.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Us ladies love a stayer ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hit or miss for me .Potluck if I do since I had the snip

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I've had this in the past. Usually down to not being relaxed or going through some stress in my life. The more you worry about it, the worse it gets. If it becomes a regular occurance then talk to your GP about it

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By *cared and curiousCouple
over a year ago

Jarrow

This is not uncommon.

We often meet guys who don't cum. Think at first it seemed odd, but it's actually quite common. Even Mike sometimes doesn't cum on the meet, but strangely enough once we get home and relive it... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hit or miss for me .Potluck if I do since I had the snip "

Same here

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