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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so how lng did it take you al to take the plunge and actually have yr first swinging meet after the initial idea came to you?

it was about a year for us, we have just found out our best friends actually swing (we wont meet them as they dont know we do) and she said it took them 4 years....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I had found this site, there was no holding me! Been here for 8 weeks now and have met 3 cpls who are real friends - way beyond just the sexual side of things.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Just a few hours. I fell in with a snowbird and a couple of ladies he'd met en route in a bar in Pompano Beach on Hogmanay about 20 years.

During the conversation it became clear they were headed for a local swing club and I was invited along.

My kilt was a major hit and I've never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took us about 2 months, not for lack of trying though!

After a couple of no shows (men pretending to be a couple) we just bit the bullet and went to a club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It took us about 2 months, not for lack of trying though!

After a couple of no shows (men pretending to be a couple) we just bit the bullet and went to a club."

thats exactly what screwed us up, we were looking for a girl and used the gumtree sites but the amount of guys pretending to be girls was shocking, we saw through everyone of them thankfully

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

our initiation was a trip to Chams after 2 months but only 'soft' swaped for 8 months before we took the plunge and went the whole hog so to speak. Pleased to say we are still very good friends with that same couple who poped our cherry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish we had, can't believe how clueless and trusting we were back then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me andmy hubby have yet to meet a nice couple, we met one single bloke together and both met people alone but hope to change all that very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3.5 seconds - it would have been quicker but they tried to do a runner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took us about 2 months, not for lack of trying though!

After a couple of no shows (men pretending to be a couple) we just bit the bullet and went to a club."

You guys are way braver than us as it took us about 3 years to pluck up the courage to visit a club

We discussed swinging and within a month or so, via a Yahoo group, we were lucky enough to meet a very nice couple who gently introduced us to this lifestyle.

We met and played with some lovely folk, as well as having a couple of disasters along the way. We now have regular meets with one special couple and restrict everything else to folk we meet in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just talked the talk for ages using fantasy. Then we actually joined a site about three years ago and had our first meet shortly after. It was a gradual thing starting with a webcam ... girly fun ... soft swap ... then full ... now we have few inhibitions and few rules lol ... fancy a naughty night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talked it over a few times... for many years... bedroom talk and all that.

Then when we took the plunge and joined a site.. 4 days we had our first meet!

All very tame as such.......... but great fun all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heard about it initially when i lived in england but took cpl years before i decided to go for it......so far just met men but hoping to change that xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 days...lol

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

I went to a swinger weekend in Paignton for my first swinging experience. 10 guys later and I was hooked. I went with a fuck buddy as a way to give him his fantasy of a threesome and he got a whole lot more! A guy we met their took us straight to Chams for our next experience and six years later have never looked back. I think u should just go for it and see if you like it!

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"so how lng did it take you al to take the plunge and actually have yr first swinging meet after the initial idea came to you?

it was about a year for us, we have just found out our best friends actually swing (we wont meet them as they dont know we do) and she said it took them 4 years...."

Hey that's almost the same as us - we first got the idea after we found close friends were swingers (we still friends with them but don't play). It took us about 15 months from the seed of the idea to actually doing it.

First experience - we met a couple at a local club who chatted us up and took us to their house - where we did full swap same room

xxxx

ju & rich

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we took about 4 months.

we went to local a club

only soft swong, but still was nervous about just doing that lol

sue and ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had my 1st meet with a guy whom msn addy got passed to me, then joined here and had a meet within a day.

get stuck in is my motto

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Always been a swinger but only attended clubs last couple of years or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

took me bout 4 months when u get reply like not your type or not what im looking for you get bit didonpdant but i kept on trying and have meet some lovley peopel off here and hopefully some more

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By *uicyandSpicieCouple
over a year ago

Livingston

we have been on this site for 7 months now,have been to many socials met lots of great friends but still not ready to take the full swap yet,we have attended a swing club but only had fun with each other,the general advice we have been given, is to take our time and enjoy meeting people.We will eventually find the right couple,to be honest i think we need to attend a house party then i think our cherry will be popped!

Juicy and Spicie xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats the worst fishing for a party invite ever lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been in the scene about 10 years or so.

started with a social and had first meet about a week after and havent looked back .,

only had one 2 let downs in all them years too. so not bad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We thought about it for a while,then decided to go to a club and pull a guy,I saw him walk in and said yes thats the one and 5 mins later was taking him to our hotel

Progressed then to a swingers club and had a great time

then joined a site about 6 months later and had our first meet for a drink after a couple of weeks and a play meet the day after that(which was crap I have to add)

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

We discussed it and joined a site on New Years Day 2007 (fab resolution hey!!) Had our first meet on 6th Jan 2007. Took to it like a duck to water and we have never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby told me about a couple of sites he had looked at on a Friday evening. We joined 2 sites on Saturday morning & had our first meet that Sunday evening. Never looked back.

Can't understand why it takes some people years to do something they both agree about. No point dipping your toes in, just jump in with both feet & enjoy yourselves xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy not very long , was a lot easier i think for just me to decide ill give it a go . i met a lovely couple who really introduced me to it . if i was in a relationship i dont know i think i would still like to go through with it but it would really have to be something we both wanted . i have a lot of respect for the couples that do swing think it takes real strength and love in a relationship to do it , so hats off to all you couples .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me about an hour! My friend wanted to try swinging and I accompanied her to The Club in Aberdeen. I took to it like a duck to water..... my friends face when she popped her head round the sling-room door was a picture....myself and several bodies getting it on lol, she was in shock I was a convert. I've never looked back since, alas it didn't suit my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first time about 4 hours with a very good friend left scene for about 6 years moved areas this time been on different sites for about 4 months and no luck yet but still hope full cant go to nearest club as they not accept single men yet only couples

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Same day, found a club in area and we wen't that night

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

we spoke about me watching her with a fem after a cpl of weeks on the net saw a local club for a weekend do we just booked for the friday incase we didnt like it went and after a few party games we ended up in a play room me getting me cock sucked as i looked over to her she was in a ffff foursome awesume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we talked about and put up our profile. Got a meet within a few weeks and just went for not having a clue. But loved and gone back to same guy twice.

He introduced other people to us. So now have done a full circle and got our first couple. Feel quite liberated having tasted pussy now know why guys like it so much.

As now want next fantasy done so if any know of any guys that like curvy greedy girls and willing to travel, hook them up with me.

I do like a good hard and rough fucking in all my holes. So for being rude but still horny after meet.

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By *nffCouple
over a year ago

derby

we talked after i chatted to someone on a "normal" chat site, basically to try my bi fantasy. he was thrilled lol and we have not looked back

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