FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're still pretty new to this site and we thought that has common courtesy if you ask to see face pics then you should be willing to send yours first am I right in thinking that? We don't mind sending ours at all but wouldn't like none genuine people getting hold of our face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're still pretty new to this site and we thought that has common courtesy if you ask to see face pics then you should be willing to send yours first am I right in thinking that? We don't mind sending ours at all but wouldn't like none genuine people getting hold of our face pics. "

I agree! I have sent mine first a few times. Don't have a problem with sending them

However had had some people ask to see it, I send them then we carry on chatting. Surely it is common decency to then send yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be a reciprocal thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I always send a face pic with a first message. If I don't I wouldn't expect a reply. I guess it's the same for couples I just see it as common courtesy But that doesn't always apply to fab.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you put face pics on your profile then no one has any need to ask you for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask to see them in a first message. So if I recieve one I send one back

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I used to have face pic on profile but 6 months ago I changed job the day I started someone I never met messaged me saying where I just started freaked me out a bit

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

People can ask for whatever they like, and you're not obliged to comply with any requests.

It's entirely up to you if you send face pics to someone, and going do will always imply a risk of the pics becoming public and associated with a swingers' site. It's up to you to judge those risks, and whether you think it's worth it. You are unlikely to get a meet where you haven't exchanged face pics first, so the choice is always yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is very true and we did have ours up but a male who lived near us saw our profile and became a little weird towards me and I saw him all over the place he kept trying to talk to me on the bus when I had my young daughters about inappropriate things so best kept private for us.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Going do? Doing so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i message you. I send a pic first. If you massage me. I now expect one first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i message you. I send a pic first. If you massage me. I now expect one first.

Massage me? Yes. I meant that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lifestyle is private for a lot of ppl so totally get why face pics aren't public but If we seem to have some sort of interest in mtg someone ie. After first msg then we do usually ask for their face pic and reciprocate with ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With brand new or unverified people we sometimes ask them to show their first fake people may have a pic on there but it's a little extra thing to out timewasters

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

I do not send a face pic until I have chatted and am happy the person is genuine and we have a possibility of meeting.

I enjoy this lifestyle, but don't want certain friends or relatives finding out. So need to check I don't know people first too

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I think if you ask for face pic you should send yours with the request

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We work on the basis, if we make first contact, then we'll attach our face pics first.

If someone chooses to contact us first, then we'd expect them to show theirs first.

We actually get a bit miffed when someone messages us and doesn't include them, yet ask us to attach ours by return mail. It's becoming more common, we usually tell them politely,to buggar off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people ask, I'll send one. Don't voluntarily do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I contact anyone first, then I always attach a face pic.

If anyone contacts me first and asks me to send them my pic before they are willing to send theirs then they can go spin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

Imagine the volume of cock pics you'd get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our own tastes and limits. lots of people on here don't want to send face pics out under any circumstance, even if they would like to see face pics of others. I suggest we have to respect their boundaries, and if we don't like them we can block their profiles (politely!) and have nothing to do with these people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is our profile pic but we do state on our profile that if face pic is not sent with first message then we will not reply. If a pic is not sent then we take it that they didn't read the profile or they are time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

Imagine the volume of cock pics you'd get!

Sometimes that's a blessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think ppl should send them with first message..

In fact I think fab should make it so that when ppl do send a first message, it can't be sent without a picture...

That would stop a few timewasters in their tracks

Imagine the volume of cock pics you'd get!

They could do it where as you have to upload a verification pic and a face pic that are crossed checked to make sure there the same person/ persons the face pic gets sent with every message if you don't then you can't send messages would cut out a lot of time wasters and fakes

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