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Getting over that feeling of wanting to share nd actually sharing your Gf/wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres always that fantasy of wanting to share your gf or wife but is it still the same actually sharing her or is there abit of regret or jelousy that you didnt have when thinking about it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Judging by some of the comments I've read it's a case of 'I wish we had done it sooner'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres always that fantasy of wanting to share your gf or wife but is it still the same actually sharing her or is there abit of regret or jelousy that you didnt have when thinking about it"

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about if your a long term couple say, 5-10years and youve only ever had any sexual activity with eachother and nobody else ? Anybody been in that situation and then shared?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it's different for everyone.

The fantasy of swinging with the other half is exciting (not that it'll happen) - but I've heard so many stories first hand of the reality going both ways, some couples hated it and the green-eyed monster raised its head when they saw their partner(s) enjoying themselves with others, some to the extent of ruining relationships, but others absolutely love it and, like said above, wish they'd done it sooner.

It's not a one size fits all answer I don't think!

The key is communication and being absolutely clear about expectations, rules and limits. If it's not fun for everyone, don't do it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh we both relly love the thought but afterwards would i be like shes fucked another guy kind of thing but then i might think ts hot still

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And also do you go with somebody different to your type or somebody she likes and would call fit sexy gorgeous etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh we both relly love the thought but afterwards would i be like shes fucked another guy kind of thing but then i might think ts hot still"

If you are not confident about your reaction, then do not do it.

If you are confident then make a couple's profile and stop dreaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Theres always that fantasy of wanting to share your gf or wife but is it still the same actually sharing her or is there abit of regret or jelousy that you didnt have when thinking about it"

No jealousy from sharing her. Just pure undiluted pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy it. We wouldn't be here else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love sharing her. I think it would be a crime not to let others sample how amazing she is fucking and sucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mark loves watching another fucking me and me sucking another cock...also loved mtg another couple for full swap fun but it's harder to find a couple we are both attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And also do you go with somebody different to your type or somebody she likes and would call fit sexy gorgeous etc? "

This is reasoning i don't understand why would you meet someone your not attracted to just to not feel jealous we would rather not swing than swing with people we don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And we tend to meet different types, for us swinging is about having things you don't get at home, 3some's for example

I like to meet shorter girls because it's different to l who is tall, l likes athletic men because in a podgy middle aged man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been married for over a decade and were only surprised by how easy and fun it was. Absolutely no jealousy issues at all. For some it may be a mountain but for us it was definitely a mole hill

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By *uddy and hollyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How about if your a long term couple say, 5-10years and youve only ever had any sexual activity with eachother and nobody else ? Anybody been in that situation and then shared?"
together 37 married 34 no regrets got into swinging 14 years ago

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By *j188Couple
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"Judging by some of the comments I've read it's a case of 'I wish we had done it sooner' "

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