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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain !

Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he not just join in to help . X

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I've never been caught out , but would love to see the selfies in question

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Did he not just join in to help . X "

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Just say you were going to send them to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats the reason I don't have many profile pics!! Not often I get the chance to take them without the risk of getting caught!

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By *ime for me21Man
over a year ago

skeg

I've almost been caught x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain !

Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ?

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Just tell him your here then he will know so may offer to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss"

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."

Pork bloody scratchings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."

My thoughts, but keeping my mouth shut

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Nearly got caught earlier taking pictures of my ass, I would of just laughed it off. Showed him anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

My thoughts, but keeping my mouth shut "

Well I'd keep my mouth shut to but I've got 2 pieces of pork scratchings in my gob

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By *arlacumhardCouple
over a year ago

Latex

Hope we get to see the pics. I've been caught masturbating by the window cleaner whilst on FaceTime to Steve when he was working away. All dressed up and doing something I couldn't suddenly stop, so had to let him watch

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I have nearly been caught by someone's husband....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."

He would effectively be committing fabicide and be hounded from the forums but angry locals with pitch forks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

He would effectively be committing fabicide and be hounded from the forums but angry locals with pitch forks "

Do you think,we couldn't possibly comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."

I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx"

Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx

Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice "

Variety is the spice of life!!xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So pleased I'm not the only naughty one

Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx

Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice

Variety is the spice of life!!xx"

Oh yes

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I got caught with a meet by my now Ex hubby....best day of my life, signalled the inevitable end of our marriage.

Not the best way to end a marriage I should of walked but hey Ho I'm.free!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now...

I thought this too. Please may I share your pork scratchingstrips? xx

Course you can they are slightly different to pork scratchings and not as nice

Variety is the spice of life!!xx

Oh yes "

Mmmm, pork scratchingstrips.... Sound like some sort of Chinglish product...

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Did he not just join in to help . X

Not if he doesnt know about fab

Miss

Hmmmm wonder just wonder if a guy posted this,just saying off to eat my pork scratchingstrips now..."

It's alright, it's women, it's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to see the pictures

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Mmmm!

Any pork scratchings left

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't. "

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I was playing with a married lady and her husband came home. I hid in the front room and she took him out back to show him something and I slipped out the front door.

Fuck my heart was in my throat! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one

Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide "

Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one

Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide

Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway."

Where exactly does finances come into any of this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say "
true . If I was your partner, I would openly encourage you to seek out guys hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was playing with a married lady and her husband came home. I hid in the front room and she took him out back to show him something and I slipped out the front door.

Fuck my heart was in my throat! Lol"

Oh that's a bit close for comfort ! Bet it got the adrenaline flowing

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one

Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide

Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway."

Why would a woman commit financial suicide leaving a man? Some of us earn more than our partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say "

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondered in what way suicide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So pleased I'm not the only naughty one

Couldn't possibly tell my husband I'm on here, that would be suicide

Suicide? You mean financial suicide? But surely, you'd get to walk away with half his stuff anyway.

Why would a woman commit financial suicide leaving a man? Some of us earn more than our partners "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say "

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same . "

I can guarantee you he isn't

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I was actually thinking that the married man crowd were starting to get less abuse around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be good if he was, and I'm sure you'd support him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it."

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't "

So long as he's happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be good if he was, and I'm sure you'd support him."

It would be good if he was, I'd love nothing more than to do swinging with my huband. My life would then be about perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him u was going to do him a calendar for xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."

So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."

Are you for real?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy "

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be a wind up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This has to be a wind up"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The glaring contradictions are just too, well, glaring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I feel a little uncomfortable reading this!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family "

Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have good reason to feel uncomfortable. But I do think it's a wind up

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Why do I feel a little uncomfortable reading this!"

because it doesn't make great reading,it does however make a change to guy's starting these type of thread's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have good reason to feel uncomfortable. But I do think it's a wind up"

You've lost me now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum? "

and you love him so much you're cheating

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."

I think if you love him very much, then why cheat on him. Cuz at the end of the day, no matter how you try to gloss this up, that is exactly what you are doing.

And it isn't just you, lots of singles are on here under false pretences.

You need to decide which side of the toast you want buttered.

Play with fire and you will one day get burnt. Sorry if you don't like this response, but getting nearly caught and posting about it, is probably not a good idea. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family

Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud..."

But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much."

Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

I think if you love him very much, then why cheat on him. Cuz at the end of the day, no matter how you try to gloss this up, that is exactly what you are doing.

And it isn't just you, lots of singles are on here under false pretences.

You need to decide which side of the toast you want buttered.

Play with fire and you will one day get burnt. Sorry if you don't like this response, but getting nearly caught and posting about it, is probably not a good idea. Xx"

Thanks for your concern but my marriage is fantastic. Everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught.

See how far the professed 'love' gets you then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever. "

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

Ok, I can understand that, I just can't reconcile it with enjoying nearly being caught and the thrill of the deceit - that aspect has never done anything for me whatsoever.

Each to their own "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say you were going to send them to him "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught.

See how far the professed 'love' gets you then."

If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family

Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...

But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner "

Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

This thread looks as though its gonna be a good one. Think im gonna sit and watch for gits and shiggles

OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

Absolutely it was just a question as it didn't seem the wording used if someone was concerned about being caught. I didn't mean anything by it.

I'm extremely concerned about being caught. I love my husband very much.

So why are you here cheating then highlighting the fact on a forum?

and you love him so much you're cheating "

Oh if only life was as black and white as that, it would be easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'."

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread looks as though its gonna be a good one. Think im gonna sit and watch for gits and shiggles

OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage."

Very well said. Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been caught out , but would love to see the selfies in question "

I don't have a husband lol!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "

Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast

Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting "

That's the spirit just make sure it's at a hidden location lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money. "

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught.

See how far the professed 'love' gets you then.

If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences. "

The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. "

True, but you'll find on here that a lot of people will try to dictate to everyone based on their own experience, making the assumption that no other experience, scenario or relationship could possibly exist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family

Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...

But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner

Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now "

Well if he is, I hope he's having as much fun as I am. We could then swing together as man and wife. That would've even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a an attention seeking thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life.

True, but you'll find on here that a lot of people will try to dictate to everyone based on their own experience, making the assumption that no other experience, scenario or relationship could possibly exist. "

Very true....and that is called narrow mindedness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial."

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "
true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes "

Is it?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I got caught at work but it had a very positive outcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught.

See how far the professed 'love' gets you then.

If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences.

The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught "

Caught taking selfies though , not with another man. Huge difference

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You seem a bit as though you get off on the deceit, is that a fair comment?

And no, I haven't.

Yes it is fair and yes it does add to the buzz and excitement. We all have our reasons why we are here though and life is far from black and white.

Live and let live is what I say

I agree and I'm sure hubby is doing the same .

I can guarantee you he isn't

So long as he's happy

He's extremely happy. We all are a very happy loving family

Would he be extremely happy if he knew you were on here,just thinking out loud...

But he doesn't know so he is happy. Everyone's a winner

Thing's sometimes have a tendency to come out unfortunately,maybe you are oblivious to your husband's shagging like he is to yours. Maybe just maybe he's watching right now

Well if he is, I hope he's having as much fun as I am. We could then swing together as man and wife. That would've even better "

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By *acko9568Man
over a year ago

saltburn


"This has to be a wind up"

Why does it have to be a wind up? I meet a lady regularly from the site, she loves her husband, but loves the "illicit" enjoyment that our meeting bring. Everyone has the right to enjoy themselves in whatever way suits them. Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'."

So, how many cheating relationships have you been in? I'm assuming that you have experience, otherwise how can you give an explanation, give advice and provide a judgement on what is right, wrong and best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it?"
yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?"

I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them.

In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lines being drawn in the sand, sides being taken, this could prove eventful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming this isn't a 'look at me, look at me' post, consider, for one moment, the fallout from discovery because one day you will slip up and get caught.

See how far the professed 'love' gets you then.

If that ever happens, though I seriously doubt it will, then I would deal with the consequences.

The false optimism of doubting g you'll ever be caught is somewhat contradicted by your original post detailing how you were almost caught

Caught taking selfies though , not with another man. Huge difference"

Well maybe your husband is stupid/gullible enough to not find anything odd about his wife taking naked selfies not for his benefit.

Do you seriously believe that the only way you can be caught is if he catches you with another man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?

I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them.

In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. "

More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

People who are adults can make their own choices, I was just pointing out the amusing variance in gender responses to such subjects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast "

Not entirely true.

It's the whiners and those asking for forgiveness and support that get blasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

So, how many cheating relationships have you been in? I'm assuming that you have experience, otherwise how can you give an explanation, give advice and provide a judgement on what is right, wrong and best? "

All I'm saying is best not assume that you'll never be caught. Best to think what being caught would actually be like and then consider the decision to cheat again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"

That's an insightful observation then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

That's an insightful observation then "
yes, bow to my superior intellect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"

You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?

I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them.

In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too.

More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money. "

Thanks for 'breaking it' to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast

Think mine could be a 1 hour roasting

That's the spirit just make sure it's at a hidden location lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them"

Getting annoyed? Or just not agreeing with what those comments said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?

I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them.

In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too.

More assumptions. I hate to break it to you but it's not 1956 any more. Some women actually earn their own money.

Thanks for 'breaking it' to me."

You're welcome.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Lines being drawn in the sand, sides being taken, this could prove eventful "

My thoughts too

I predict 3 sides, those with the OP (including 'knights' in shining armour), those not with OP (including those who mention what if a guy posted) & those sitting on the fance as its the OPs choice (including those like me in it just for gits and shiggles )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast

Not entirely true.

It's the whiners and those asking for forgiveness and support that get blasted. "

invariably this is the reason why cheating men get such a hard time, it's almost always self inflicted due to the nature of their posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nights tend to be looking for the sympathy shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knights, spelling Arghhhhhh

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

My only response to this would be to ask for more open mindedness. Quite often there are things going on in the background. Life isn't black and white, all multiple shades of grey. Everyone has different reasons for being here, fab appears to be a broad church and as such no-one should be going all morals and ethics.

If the OP is caught then that is for her to deal with but there is that old saying about walking in other people's shoes...

I just say fab on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them"

If hypothetically speaking, a person points out that someone else is talking bullshit based on zero relevant experience, would that be allowed?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol"

Sorry, I'm confused. Are the people in the middle cheaters or not?

You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Lines being drawn in the sand, sides being taken, this could prove eventful

My thoughts too

I predict 3 sides, those with the OP (including 'knights' in shining armour), those not with OP (including those who mention what if a guy posted) & those sitting on the fance as its the OPs choice (including those like me in it just for gits and shiggles )"

Got that slightly wrong for me dude I mentioned what if a dude said it and I don't give a shit what other people do. I'm here for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

You missed out other cheaters getting annoyed by comments that weren't directed at them

Getting annoyed? Or just not agreeing with what those comments said."

On this thread generally the latter. But in the context of cheating threads and 'how they always go' there is often someone that get way more defensive/aggressive than the OP because a nerve has been touched

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"My only response to this would be to ask for more open mindedness. Quite often there are things going on in the background. Life isn't black and white, all multiple shades of grey. Everyone has different reasons for being here, fab appears to be a broad church and as such no-one should be going all morals and ethics.

If the OP is caught then that is for her to deal with but there is that old saying about walking in other people's shoes...

I just say fab on "

Exactly everyone walks their own road. Just concern yourself with your own journey and choose who you meet on the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. The OP post did seem to have a huge 'gloat' factor to it. Why post it otherwise. It wasn't asking for advice. It was all 'look at me''

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Well, you nearly had some explaining to do tonight and no one ever thinks they will be caught. That's the cheaters self-delusion.

Best plan for the 'dealing with it'.

You still haven't explained why it would be financial suicide or she'd be getting half his money.

It was a question, what does she mean by suicide? I assumed financial.

Sure, my question is why did you assume financial? Because women are all money grabbing and trying to fleece their poor hardworking menfolk out of half their pension while they sit at home painting their nails?

I wouldn't have put it like that no. It could be financial suicide for both of them.

In the OP's case, given the plethora of verifications, she does seem to have quite a bit of time on her hands for meeting. I would bet that the meets are predominantly daytimes too. "

Maybe she works nights or her hubby does. we both work long hours and they don't always coincide. Doesn't mean one of us isn't working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have nearly been caught by someone's husband...."

Tell us more......

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why! "

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent "

To answer your question, if you're caught it looks like you'd be screwed. Think a bit more about what you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My only response to this would be to ask for more open mindedness. Quite often there are things going on in the background. Life isn't black and white, all multiple shades of grey. Everyone has different reasons for being here, fab appears to be a broad church and as such no-one should be going all morals and ethics.

If the OP is caught then that is for her to deal with but there is that old saying about walking in other people's shoes...

I just say fab on "

Couldn't of said it better myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent

To answer your question, if you're caught it looks like you'd be screwed. Think a bit more about what you're doing."

That wasn't the question either.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Well that was an interesting read, thank you everyone for your input, but not many people answered my question about being caught, which actually was what this thread was meant to be about, but it seemed to go off on another tangent "

Ha ha true the exam question has become a moral soul search!

Shame on you, you soulless fuckghoul!

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

"

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

"

My ex and father if my kids cheated on me and whilst it hurt at the time, I do not get involved in others business. I have been told I should because I have been the victim, but this is always by men, usually younger, who like to try to tell me what to think. If anything, at that point, or maybe some time after I thought about my part in it all and now I think how much I would have offered him meeting women who wanted nsa sex rather than one wanting a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Imagine just for a moment a guy posted this thread..... one minute roast true and the other cheaters will support them, how it always goes

Is it? yeah. Some people against it, some support the op, then people on the middle say 'each to their own' blah blah same old lol

Sorry, I'm confused. Are the people in the middle cheaters or not?

You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group."
no I haven't, i said some, not half. On a topic like this some are very aggressive and some very defensive. And people on the middle a bit calmer balancing the two. Who knows if they're cheaters or not, don't really matter fam. I'm not gonna check all they profiles lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group."

Duhh, obviously!

Sweeping generalisations are made when a person has an idea and no room for any more!

Facts, information, experience, common sense, empathy... those things can't influence the monoideaist.

They can't help it, so try to understand. Otherwise it's best to just put them on the head and say "well done"

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

Maybe, however I think that 98% of people on here aren't who or what they seem. Whether it's escapism or a total parrallel life for a multitude of reasons, there shouldn't be an expectation of reality in most conversations

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it."

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it."

White knights on both sides of the argument then?

I daren't post anything - someone will accuse me of having an ulterior motive..

Er....youse are all bastids....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You've generalised thread respondents into two (mutually exclusive) groups, then added to third group.

Duhh, obviously!

Sweeping generalisations are made when a person has an idea and no room for any more!

Facts, information, experience, common sense, empathy... those things can't influence the monoideaist.

They can't help it, so try to understand. Otherwise it's best to just put them on the head and say "well done""

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By *oenickmanMan
over a year ago

Hatfield

I don't do naked pics so no have never been caught but I am assuming you could get away with it as you could always say it's for him don't you think

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

My ex and father if my kids cheated on me and whilst it hurt at the time, I do not get involved in others business. I have been told I should because I have been the victim, but this is always by men, usually younger, who like to try to tell me what to think. If anything, at that point, or maybe some time after I thought about my part in it all and now I think how much I would have offered him meeting women who wanted nsa sex rather than one wanting a relationship. "

Fair play and good on you for taking a broader view. Sorry to hear of the hurt tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skube66 Snapchat add away

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it."

Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I got caught at work but it had a very positive outcome

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over a year ago


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.

Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel."

I don't think it is blasé actually. It applies perfectly to some. Not to all, of course.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Oh yes, I never answered... no I haven't been caught doing something I shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel."

Of course it's not a binary situation: don't cheat = bliss; vs cheat = devastatation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"This thread looks as though its gonna be a good one. Think im gonna sit and watch for gits and shiggles

OP your choice what you do and the risks you take as it is your marriage.

Very well said. Life isn't black and white. Everyone has their own reasons for actions they take in life. "

It may not be black and white but you can choose the shade you wear.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.

Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel."

Cheating does not necessarily bring devastation to the innocent party or the children. When I was cheated on I managed the situation so the children were not devastated. You dont have to dwell on the drama.

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over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught."

And you have experience and data?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data? "

Or; happened to you, therefore "most"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data? "

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

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over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere"

Surely your experience says something about you, not anyone else?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain !

Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ?

"

OP fab up girl... break out them backless panties and get the selfies goin!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere"

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

"

Only after he pivoted her table

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table "

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

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over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table "

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table "

I guess he wants to fill her cell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)"

But did he insert values in her selection range?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table "

Arghhhhhhh im having nitemares of work. Stop the excel references please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit "

Excel or gtfo

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over a year ago

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit "

Cross Tabs sounds like a seven year old's insult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit "

... But with spreadsheets I do get an Inner Join

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?"

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit

Excel or gtfo"

Excel can only cry itself to sleep over what Sql Server can do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit"

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit

Excel or gtfo

Excel can only cry itself to sleep over what Sql Server can do! "

SQL Server's just jealous of excel's accessibility to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just came so close to being caught taking naked selfies by my husband....that would of been difficult to explain !

Just made me curious if anyone else on here has ever been caught out ?

"

Yep, full on naked poses apart from hat and cigar when the gf walked in she thought I was doing the dirt, so I bent her over and fucked her so well, she never bought it up again

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

... See, I couldn't have made that comment because I'm more database than spreadsheets, and in databases they are called Cross Tabs, which just sounds shit

Excel or gtfo"

This is getting too graphic

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label."

Making him PasteSpecial all over himself...

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label."

Nice

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label.

Making him PasteSpecial all over himself..."

May need the bucket to fill her box

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label.

Making him PasteSpecial all over himself...

May need the bucket to fill her box "

Listbox or combobox?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread "

Java nightmares?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label.

Making him PasteSpecial all over himself...

May need the bucket to fill her box

Listbox or combobox?"

Custom formula my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread

Java nightmares? "

Java?

99 little bugs in the code

99 little bugs in the code

Take one down, patch it around

117 little bugs in the code

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread

Java nightmares? "

You bastid !!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Most cheaters get nearly caught I would think and in the end most get properly caught.

And you have experience and data?

Loads of experience and a spreadsheet somewhere

Did she OFFSET your MATCH with an INDIRECT function?

Only after he pivoted her table

Which were only needed after she ran out of 'columns'

(we've hit my speciality now, this thread is toast!)

But did he insert values in her selection range?

No, because he hadn't declared his Option Explicit

Oh that's a shame, she could have displayed her plot area and modified his vertical axis label.

Making him PasteSpecial all over himself...

May need the bucket to fill her box

Listbox or combobox?

Custom formula my friend "

Ooh, put a button on my ribbon, dearie...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Skube66 Snapchat add away"

Funniest comment yet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate you all for the excel references now im going to jave work nitemares and at work i'll be thinking of this thread

Java nightmares? "

Not fair picking on the Java people. They can't help it. They need our sympathy and support.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Gloating is not a nice trait to display, it does seem the women on here have it a hell of a lot easier to the cheating men and I have no idea why!

Quite simply because mostly women who have been hurt by cheating are more likely to be vocal about it than men

It depends who has started the thread. Lots of men are suddenly very anti cheating if they get a sniff that it might help them bag someone with a chip on their shoulder about it.

Chip on their shoulder,that's a pretty cruel thing to say. When someone knows the devastation cheating brings to themselves and their children,to say they have a chip on their shoulder is a little blasé I feel.

Cheating does not necessarily bring devastation to the innocent party or the children. When I was cheated on I managed the situation so the children were not devastated. You dont have to dwell on the drama."

Maybe my 6 year old crying in my arm's when I couldn't bare her daddy being around anymore and asked him to leave weren't tears of devastation then. Maybe two adults and two little girl's crying weren't tears of devastation when I couldn't cope and asked him to pick them up. Maybe every single time my girl's came back from spending the day with him and cried their eyes out until bedtime weren't tears of devastation. For them I can assure you it was,they had been with us two year's,it was the first time in their young life's that they knew what it was like to be apart of a 'normal' family and he/we cruelly took that away from them. We did however get back to a happy place for their sakes and for my own,you can't feel hatred forever.

The consequences from divorce are still evident today to a minor degree,not with myself but with the kids.

I don't care what anyone else does on here,but I just hate seeing people gloat about their cheating

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Right that's the end of the Excel innuendo for the evening. Apologies to the #Div0 s that didn't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a total aside, I once wrote an app (with domain admin access) to traverse the network, onto each pc, recursively into each folder and pull out a list, by pc/user, of all excel spreadsheets.

Some people had over 10,000 spreadsheets.

Excel may be useful, but that's its biggest problem: idiots misusing it, because it can be (mis)used for too many inappropriate things.

The lesson is: use a database to store and manipulate large amounts of data. Use spreadsheets with caution.

So, obviously that summarises this thread perfectly for anyone who scrolls from the opening post to the last one.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

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...because nobody ever designed a crap database.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fixed more spreadsheets with problems (especially when someone learns a little bit of code and runs automated scripts in vba ) than databases.

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