FabSwingers.com forum: What wives love MMF and why?

By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

I thought I'd post something of an interest to me - MMF. There are a lot of married couples that love MMF and I wondered what excites them about it. I love hearing peoples different opinions and thought also, hearing other peoples may help ladies that aren't sure about it. Answer away! Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just wives...

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not just like by women, I do love to share.

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By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

"Not just wives... "

Obviously you are correct, but it intrigues me about wives and whether they enjoy their hubby and a stranger, 2 strangers, or it doesn't matter. I can imagine there's mixed reviews...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Us Us Us !!!

Will come back to this when I have more time.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF. "

lol I think we get what he means

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By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF. "

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

There's lots of reasons why wives might love it and that's what I'm trying to decifer. Feel free to start a thread which includes everyone if you wish, but anybody can post on here, whether they be single, living with a partner or indeed married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pardon me for asking.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

I was going to answer why we do it, but might not now after your questions.

You are on a swinging site asking if people swing for wrong reasons.

Your question should probably apply to any combination though, be that MFF.or even MFFM.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Not just like by women, I do love to share.

you could share me anytime...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

if you think any of those are good reasons... then you are mad...

in fact, if i thought any of those were the reason a couple would want to meet me, I would turn them down...

and if that what you believe of the couples that engage in mmf on this site... then I believe you are on the wrong site...

wow.... I have never seen anyone dig a hole so fast.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

I was going to answer why we do it, but might not now after your questions.

You are on a swinging site asking if people swing for wrong reasons.

Your question should probably apply to any combination though, be that MFF.or even MFFM."

totally agreed while there are some swingers who think Hubby cant perform or isnt up to the task pish....I meet MMF MMMf MMMMF(u get the point), and its not about a controlling husband, its about sexual fun...and at the end of it all....the actual partners go about their normal loving lives.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

I'm not sure I like the possible reasons you've come up with. However, from my point of view I do it because I like it and it's fun (shouldn't all sex be likeable and fun, anyway??) - preferably with hubby involved as one of the Ms, although he'd watch me in an MMf with 2 others no problem, and would enjoy both scenarios. I like it - and I get off on him getting off on it. But MMFs do not necessarily make the husband a cuckold (search past threads on what people think of as cuckolding - most think there's an element of humilation involved, which MMFs don't often have (well, ime, anyway)

I certainly DON'T do it because I'm bored of my husband - far from it. In fact, I'm (we're) seriously considering taking a break from meeting people and just having some total 'us time' for a while

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm not sure I like the possible reasons you've come up with. "

and it seems quite a few others feel the same way....

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By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

I completely appreciate all your posts so far and it's interesting to hear your views. I'm also glad none of it is personally aimed at me! (I've got myself a bigger spade!!)

The fact of the matter is, that the possible reasons are all possible and they were merely used in a pull to get your views. The reason for the thread is because I don't know the reasons and for most of you, that's clear! (Dig dig dig dig)

I love a good debate. It certainly makes me clear on what sort of people I would prefer to meet...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Sadly, you contradicted yourself. You asked in your first post what do we love about it, then in your next post put negative reasons of why you think we may like it.

It sort of doesn't fit.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

1)not tired of my husband hes a stud

2)we both love watching each other with other partners

3)yes i love turning my hubby on what wife doesnt ?

4)would never do anything my hubby didnt want because id never disrespect him in that way and also he'd soon put a stop to anything he wasnt happy about and vice versa

we joind this site to fulfill sexual fantasies and have had loads of fun along the way doing so ..we're all unique and have our reasons for being here but what i will say is couples are here for totaly diffrent reasons to singles for obvious reasons

Happy Swinging Everyone xxxxx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

" Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

you got that one wrong.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

or 5.... which you are likely to get a lot of... none of the above!

like i said... wow!!!

i really don't know what to put that lot of pish under..... sweeping inaccuracies from outside, or complete misunderstanding of swinging......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The original poster wasnt I think trying to be disrespectful with his reasons why a couple include a single guy, he just didnt or doesnt understand the chemistry it causes between hubby or wife, or fuck buddy and fuck buddy. Think the turn on value for a married couple is almost taboo in nature. We play with guys, my preference is for groups of guys. This isnt done to upset my cuckold hubby, hes probably, or is for definate the most powerful sexual man I have ever met. Hes not cuckold, its the chemistry between husband and wife, and sorry to say all the single men we use are in fact just our tools to get high together. If some of our blue rubs off on the guy, then thats great. There is no way I would ever swing because I was bored with my partner. My boy feeds my cock addiction, not the men I play with, sorry to burst most single guys bubble, but it would never be because uou are better than my or any other wifes hubby, suppose we just enjoy using your sexuallity for our own ends. Stil wouldnt be without the single guys, you make the game..........kudos single guys lol, we for one enjoy playing with you. But only when we need a fix...lol

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

None of the reasons you printed, would be a reason for us to do an mmf!

We do it because it is fun to have an extra pair of hands and an extra cock and that it adds an extra dimension to what we already have.

It means that my husband can lie back and watch and see things from an angle not possible when playing with me himself and also get a rest!

It means that I can be filled from both ends.

But in no way is it because my husband isn't good enough or doesn't satisfy me and it certainly isn't anything to do with degrading him, personally that is the last thing I would want to do.

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love mmf when both guys are focusing on her....it's just the intensity & intimacy of it. For many who think ffs is what men want, it's a real misconception. Above all it's whether it's ffs, mmf, mmmff, mfmfmfmf, it's about the characters & personalities taking part. Had one cuckhold experience & didn't really enjoy it...although I'd give a go again.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"and sorry to say all the single men we use are in fact just our tools to get high together. If some of our blue rubs off on the guy, then thats great. There is no way I would ever swing because I was bored with my partner. My boy feeds my cock addiction, not the men I play with, sorry to burst most single guys bubble, but it would never be because uou are better than my or any other wifes hubby, suppose we just enjoy using your sexuallity for our own ends. Stil wouldnt be without the single guys, you make the game..........kudos single guys lol, we for one enjoy playing with you. But only when we need a fix...lol"

I think of it as a sort of foreplay to the later event - which will always be the main event for us - sorry, guys.. MMF/ MMMF etc (or even MF with someone else) are all fun, but nothing tops 1-2-1 between the two of us. The rest is just fun, whereas just us is meaningful fun!

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By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

My original post question to me seemed an easy question and I didn't realise it would cause so much controversy!

I will take the critism received in good spirit and learn for the future

Thanks though for the honest detailed answers. I for one love MMF. I've assisted a few couples in living out their fantasy and am looking forward to plenty more. I really enjoy watching aswell as performing. There's nothing better than watching a horny wife being pleasured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s simply an addition to ones sex life, call it experimenting if you wish, but hey its fun and there’s only so much two people can do together, some may settle for a sex toy from Ann Summers, but it’s far more fun being joined by someone and getting the real thing, it’s certainly none of the reasons you gave, in fact those reasons would be more suited to someone who was having an affair or had no sex life rather than people who swing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"My original post question to me seemed an easy question and I didn't realise it would cause so much controversy!

I will take the critism received in good spirit and learn for the future

To be fair, your OP was an easy question, it was your second post that clouded things.

I think people are just surprised at your comments of why you think people may be playing.

As it is what you posted, we all assumed thats the reasons you think couples swing when normally for most people it is for more positive reasons.

I see you have met couples, so I am guessing you are talking from experience of those couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a wife but i love MMF

Always harder for me tho as i have to find two bloody men and couples only have to find one

They have to be bi guys tho, not really into MMF with straight guys, i just love sharing a cock with another guy, helping him suck and lick and having a nice snog over a hard cock is just devine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tried it yet but its on the list hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

seriously do you really think any female half of a couple is going to reply to this thread admitting she swings with other guys cause shes bored if her hubby lmao

made me chuckle that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been reading this interesting debate again and think one really important factor has not been aknowledged.....If it wasnt for all the couples lovely, understanding husbands we wouldnt be able to have fun. I for one think all hubbies who allow their girls to play with single guys are far from cuckolds, more guys who have sorted out any issues if any....my boy adores to see me gangbanged, kudos hubby you my hero...and yes he says sometimes it hurts to watch me, kinda adds to the pain,pleasure for us both...

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Been reading this interesting debate again and think one really important factor has not been aknowledged.....If it wasnt for all the couples lovely, understanding husbands we wouldnt be able to have fun. I for one think all hubbies who allow their girls to play with single guys are far from cuckolds, more guys who have sorted out any issues if any....my boy adores to see me gangbanged, kudos hubby you my hero...and yes he says sometimes it hurts to watch me, kinda adds to the pain,pleasure for us both..."

I have to agree to this. As my experience is that the hubby is, letting the wife fufil her fantasy, and occasionally their own.

So to all those husband that share with us guys, a big thank you.

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By *usclelegs OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

"My original post question to me seemed an easy question and I didn't realise it would cause so much controversy!

I will take the critism received in good spirit and learn for the future

To be fair, your OP was an easy question, it was your second post that clouded things.

I think people are just surprised at your comments of why you think people may be playing.

As it is what you posted, we all assumed thats the reasons you think couples swing when normally for most people it is for more positive reasons.

I see you have met couples, so I am guessing you are talking from experience of those couples."

Yeah, I think the comments have confused people. They were just merely examples of possibilities, they definitely aren't the reasons that I think or even believe any wife would use to enjoy MMF... (Gun to my foot again!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"They were just merely examples of possibilities, they definitely aren't the reasons that I think or even believe any wife would use to enjoy MMF... (Gun to my foot again!

So... that begs the question as to what you do 'think or even believe are the reasons any wife would use to enjoy MMF'???

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

mmf rocks

i could tell you a whole host of reasons i have heard from cpls about why they do it etc but i think at the end of the day it is all about getting high on something different to the norm.

right i,m off for another mmf lol laterzzz

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My original post question to me seemed an easy question and I didn't realise it would cause so much controversy!

I will take the critism received in good spirit and learn for the future

To be fair, your OP was an easy question, it was your second post that clouded things.

I think people are just surprised at your comments of why you think people may be playing.

As it is what you posted, we all assumed thats the reasons you think couples swing when normally for most people it is for more positive reasons.

I see you have met couples, so I am guessing you are talking from experience of those couples.

Happy shooting.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

1. No

2. No

3. No

4. No

Good grief!

We do it because it is in our comfort zone. My partner says he gets to see me in a way he wouldnt normally. We have a fantastic sex life and the occasional mfm adds spice to that. We dont swap, just add one. We can explore sexually with three in a way that two cant. Meet different people who have new ideas and things to try. For a woman to have the touch of a new exciting partner at the same time as her familiar trusted and valued lover... well the combination can be mind blowing. btw, the best threesomes are always with the guys who my partner gets on best with. They team up and give me the wildest times of my life. This gives us lots of horny thoughts and memories and the sex afterwards between the two of us is even better. Just like to add that after two years of swinging I can tell you that no one can do it for me like my partner. He is expert where I am concerned and of course the only one I play bareback with. He is mature, considerate and the bomb!!!!! I know you want to learn, which I hope you do, as I think some couples would find your niave views a bit insulting. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will answer and actually think that the OP is looking to see why.. but really think he borrowed my shovel for digging myself into trouble..

OP is fine to keep it.. lol

Okay to answer...

My Master( who is my Husband so as not to confuse people) LOVES to see me with other men.. We tend to play mostly while Master is away in the week for work... And Master is in no way a cuckhold...

Anyway, No man ever satisfies me like my Master does, and the time we have together is off the scale compared to playtimes with others.. but we still have a very good time..

I have had MMF with Master and I do have to say for me, its the better experience.. as it is if we are honest for my Master.. but.. Master still loves to see me get that when he is watching me on cam.. seeing two men pleasuring me.

Now I think single men on here that are invited to play with single women for this or couples, fail to realise that us females are just as capable of wanting men just to feed our sexual needs.. and fantasies..

I personally like more than 2... but getting that organised is a bit hard.. plus day time play is limited.. and I wont have more than a regular single playmate here in the evenings.

But..we do it because we like it.. and afterwards.. even if Master is away.. its our time and that is when we really get dirty..

Katie. x

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i like them but prefer ffm or fff lol

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I 'd like to get my wife interested but Know I couldnt even ask her,i feel that it would be a nice present for her to have me and another bloke pleasuring her,but it would never happen she just isn't that way inclined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought I'd post something of an interest to me - MMF. There are a lot of married couples that love MMF and I wondered what excites them about it. I love hearing peoples different opinions and thought also, hearing other peoples may help ladies that aren't sure about it. Answer away! Thanks x"

and pray, what is wrong with unmarried couples, Sir? how prudish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh the passion of the reclaim

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By *rownsuga1982Man
over a year ago

leicester

in my experience its the guy that love seeing their partner with another guy. not just the woman that enjoys it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"What's so special about wives? You're excluding women who have a partner but aren't married, as well as women who have a regular FB and enjoy MMF.

Surely if I want to find out what goes through a wife's mind with reference to MMF then that's what a forum post is for? Does a wife do it because:

1. They're bored of just their husband?

2. They did it in their single days and took it with them as a criteria for a husband?

3. They just really enjoy turning their cuckold hubby on?

4. Their husband hates it but she does it regardless with strangers?

You do seem to have an awful lot of negative ideas about swinging couples who do mmf,so here is a scenario for you.

Wife says to husband would u like to have sex with me and my attractive mate,...why do u think he would say yes?

After you have thought a bit you might top judging ppl who enjoy threeomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh the passion of the reclaim"

That's us to a tea. She has even cried with the passion we show each other during the reclaim.

I think it's the passion anyway. Could be the onions she chopped ten minutes previously.

And before anybody says it, no, we don't take onions with us on meets.

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