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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30 maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. Ppl say too young. 33 man

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I too look great for a man of 90

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, being 40 and looking 30 would be awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked for ID in Tesco the other day. I'm 39!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I too look great for a man of 90 "

What's your secret? Not that I need any help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair, being 40 and looking 30 would be awesome! "

It's gonna be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get this too. I've always looked younger than I am... oh well, maybe it will help me score a cougar or MILF??

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's why I have the beard! Saying that that was before kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have got older I prefer guys nearer to my age, say 38 to 52. Its just an attraction thing. I think if i was at a swingers party though it could be different as you see more than just a two dimensional photo. The youngest guy I have been with most recently has been 33. Never say never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty young looking - people at work call me Dorian Gray.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As I have got older I prefer guys nearer to my age, say 38 to 52. Its just an attraction thing. I think if i was at a swingers party though it could be different as you see more than just a two dimensional photo. The youngest guy I have been with most recently has been 33. Never say never. "

Interesting view on it, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it too OP I 31 and look in my mid 20's would rather look older or at least my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here. "

Yeah I get the same thing but I definitely don't mind being called cute! hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't mind seeing this baby face...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldn't mind seeing this baby face... "

You have mail

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

I get it too ,which suppose ain't a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here. "

How come we have same username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.

How come we have same username"

Hahaha great minds, huh?! .

I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to say i fall in this category

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I still get asked for ID from time to time. Take it as a compliment, as you get older it's definitely a pro to look younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger guys....or ones that at least look younger than me...I don't really find guys that look much older than I feel (which is my twenties not my 40s as my actual age is), that attractive for some reason....although that is not set in stone, but it is not far off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.

How come we have same username

Hahaha great minds, huh?! .

I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you? "

As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look a lot younger than I am. Used to hate it but love it now I'm an old git.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.

How come we have same username

Hahaha great minds, huh?! .

I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?

As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18 "

Haha, and how do you suggest I prove that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a beard i look at least 42 !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the toy boy look does tend to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without a beard i look at least 42 ! "

Nice beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Without a beard i look at least 42 ! "

Does wonders then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without a beard i look at least 42 !

Nice beard "
cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without a beard i look at least 42 !

Does wonders then?! "
something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that as a female. It was a nightmare when I was younger. Hated being called 'cute' whereas other women were sexy. I like it now that I am older though. Some women do go for the more baby faced look, it's all horses for courses on here.

How come we have same username

Hahaha great minds, huh?! .

I'll be going back to my old one tomorrow. So just a loan for now, if that's okay with you?

As you're cute I let get away this time I'll let you borrow it longer if you can prove you're over 18

Haha, and how do you suggest I prove that?

"

Copy certified of your ID . You can inbox it to me

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Women on here always say I look young ...... oh and cute ...... which is a term for not good looking .... haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women on here always say I look young ...... oh and cute ...... which is a term for not good looking .... haha"

Its really not when I say it. I always mean it as hot!!

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Women on here always say I look young ...... oh and cute ...... which is a term for not good looking .... haha

Its really not when I say it. I always mean it as hot!! "

I might have got this wrong then ...... damnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got called cute yesterday! At 43 it still has me thinking is that a good thing or not

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

J looks young for his age thats why i tell him to keep his beard!

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Lol I hope I look younger than my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I hope I look younger than my age "

Absolutely shit hot for 95!!!!!

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"Lol I hope I look younger than my age

Absolutely shit hot for 95!!!!! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I hope I look younger than my age "

Not a day older than 94.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I look quite young and it's not helped by my height.

Like all things, there's pros and cons. Just have to make it work for you.

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By *JC003Man
over a year ago

Welling, London

I look younger than my age, personally doesn't bother me, but can be annoying as people think I'm much younger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When I met my other half off here he was surprised I was really 53 and said I could knock at least 10 years off (he'd knocked five years off his). My sisters and I don't look our age, we call each other Dorian Grey.

The guy in the phone shop said "no way!" when I gave my date of birth and the doctor at the hospital rechecked my date of birth as he didn't believe my age.

My daughters all look about 12 but are married with families of their own. My youngest is a doctor but gets asked for id all the time.

Personally I could care less if at 56 I look 40...I'd rather be 40 looking 56, because "younger looking" and "young" are different things and I'd rather be young.

As for young looking men: absolute turn off for me. I prefer the aesthetics of an older man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 42 but still look like im in my late twenties.

My Fab swinger problem is that even though a woman or a couple are looking for a young looking man.. Many set the age limit to 40.

Ive seen kids with full beards and 6'5 tall that look older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do quite like a baby faced guy of any age but I don't stick to that .........

I still get that I'm cute etc and being the age I am now I'm more than happy that I look 10 years younger........

there's pros and cons to everything .........

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Ied rather look younger then I am was told I looked at lest 39 broke my heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got called cute yesterday! At 43 it still has me thinking is that a good thing or not "

Happened twice to me today so far ha! I definitely don't think it's a bad thing if it's meant as a compliment

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I hate at times that I look younger too- doesn't help in work when everybody thinks you are younger and Less experienced than you are. I think it does become more of a plus the older you get though- lots start getting jealous then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a lot. It can be a bit of a curse as well as a blessing.

I'm over 30 but people tend to think late twenties which can sometimes rule me out of playtime.

The best comment was one couple felt I was looked too close in age to their son. Awkward

Each to their own. Age is only a number and if attraction is there it shouldn't matter ( within reasonable and legal sense might I add)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow a beard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grow a beard"

I'm considering it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apparently look quite a bit younger than 30, I still get asked for ID quite often and most people we meet can't believe I'm 30 and a mother of 4, yes it's a compliment I guess but I do find it frustrating when I'm trying to buy alcohol with my weekly shop and a child hanging of each limb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing worse than being called cute or adorable. Especially when they're shaking your face from side to side while holding your cheeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my 38th birthday I got asked for identification I told the bouncer it was my birthday and I'd been coming to that establishment since when he was on his mother's tit and just walked in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look quite young. I hated it when I was actually young but the older I get the more I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wouldn't mind seeing this baby face...

You have mail "

Hope you've got somewhere?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldn't mind seeing this baby face...

You have mail

Hope you've got somewhere? "

Not with this particular lovely lady, but I did get another message off someone lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get told I look quite young. I hated it when I was actually young but the older I get the more I like it. "

Yeah I think once I hit 30 I'll be loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in mixed thoughts with my face would you say it's a baby face? I will message it if you message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss likes meeting young guys so not a problem just a preference thing.

We all have a niche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I tell some people my age they do look a bit surprized sometimes as they expected me to be about 10 yrs younger,

maybe they are just being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - Being young is an asset.

I'm of the age where I see adverts only looking for people older than me - and there's not a jot that I can do.

I also know there's a lot of adverts out there from people only looking for people older than me.

Being young can have lots of disadvantages, but I wish I was 25 again!

That also goes for looks, would you rather look older or younger than your years? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30 maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30 "

Don't worry about it. Could be the opposite

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like nice young men

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Consider improving your profile and photos as much as you can - and then targeting people who are looking for guys with fresh, young looks. Your photos don't really give much away about how you look and I think they're a major let down for you atm. I'm assuming that your body could have photos taken of it that would potentially look good? The current range is going to be limited in their appeal to many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told this regular.

Just embrace it

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid


"Same. Ppl say too young. 33 man"

You're cute, I wouldn't say you're too young.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I look younger than I am, and in the past I've had some pretty good responses to it but I feel like I'm on to a loser with it on Fab. Has anyone else had this experience? I feel like I'd have more success if I looked 30 maybe I'll have to come back when I'm 40 but look 30 "

I'm 40. I don't think I look it. But I'll be sure to let you know if it helps when I decide to start meeting new people again (my fab age being accurate may stymie the experiment though).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say over the last few years I'm just starting to look my age but in my 30's many people thought i was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Mr, have been told that I'm kind of young and boyish looking. It seems that a lot of women on the scene prefer a rugged man, but you just play to the niche lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I'm 40. I don't think I look it. But I'll be sure to let you know if it helps when I decide to start meeting new people again (my fab age being accurate may stymie the experiment though)."

Aw, I'm damn sure your age won't be a hindrance! Best of luck and let us know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'm assuming that your body could have photos taken of it that would potentially look good? "

Hahaha ouch!

But yes, it can. I do keep meaning to take more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like nice young men "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues here. Had a full beard when I was 15!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I love young looking men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love young looking men!"

Hooray

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