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By *irtygirl11 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About?

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By *tuartb1970Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "

Just seen your pics, clearly they have no taste, I certainly wouldn't mess you about

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By *iceThickCockMan
over a year ago

Banbury

Line me up lol

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico Gran Canaria

Well pity I didnt live nearer because if I was invited I wouldnt let you down.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm guessing that declarations from guys on the forum that they'd definitely turn up aren't really helping your problem.

Did the guys have verifications?

Not foolproof by any means, but a start...

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By *irtygirl11 OP   Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Yes they had veris...just no balls to say can't make it.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

If we had an agreement to meet, it would be kept by me. Just believe in honouring arrangements whether they involve swinging or other aspects of life...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Happens to us all, unless local now we try to have fallback plans, might not be Fab type plans but at least its not a night wasted.

S

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've had 2 timewasters x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can hardly get a reply from a message let alone arrange a meet to then not turn up. It's people like this that give us single guys a hard time

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Happens all unfortunately you message ,arrange then nothing..Had a couple recently

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I've had 2 timewasters x "

Ffs

xx

H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here before and left purely because of that very reason, fed up of sorting meets out and going to all the time and effort for a no show, genuine people getting harder to find

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some just like the fantasy i think ,its bad form to just not show up.Hope you reported and blocked them.

Miss

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I was speaking with a couple on here and planned a meet after speaking a lot..i even got the room booked..A few days before the meet they went quiet etc so I cancelled the room..luckily I was able to cancel the room with out loss of funds..The annoying thing though is that they still come on to my page and like pictures etc

Annoying if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many time wasters on here ,was meeting at 2pm with a gent but no show and he blocked me as well

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey


"I can hardly get a reply from a message let alone arrange a meet to then not turn up. It's people like this that give us single guys a hard time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had quite a few men come to our house, and some several times. We'd meet somewhere neutral first though. We've never come across a true time-waster.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's terrible when that happens. I arranged to meet someone (from another site) and they didn't show, no message or anything.

Later on I got a message from them just saying "lol!" Charming!

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By *ust DoraWoman
over a year ago

rochdale

Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him

Luckily he became a regular visitor when he finally plucked up the courage, but it is very annoying when people don't show, and it's not just the singles either, couples are just as bad x

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him

Luckily he became a regular visitor when he finally plucked up the courage, but it is very annoying when people don't show, and it's not just the singles either, couples are just as bad x"

Did he ever explain his vanishing act? Cold feet I imagine.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

With couples I think often one is keener than the other the less keen one bottles out.

It's still good manners to let you know meet is off, not just to disappear.

Happens to everyone, a fact of life.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him

Luckily he became a regular visitor when he finally plucked up the courage, but it is very annoying when people don't show, and it's not just the singles either, couples are just as bad x"

Actually you don't hear much on the forums of second chances and eventual meets after an initial no show...worth a thread I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once again I've been let down.

Planned to meet a women who was staying in a hotel about 15 minutes away from my work. We planned that I would get there just gone 12 when I finish. She was all happy with that. Been talking all evening. It gets to half 11 I say I'm nearly done and gonna come over and then all of a sudden

'I'm really tired'

'Don't think it will happen im to tired'

Now if I had done that to her then i would have got a bad reputation cause I'm a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't men turn up to meet couples like yourselfs? Most likely because they use this site to fantasise about meeting couples like yourselfs. Another explanation is that they are nervous to move from fantasy to reality.

They piss me off as well, since I'm one of the males who does meet when I say I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had our fair share of time wasters too, the best one, I was talking to him on the phone and he said he would be five min he was at the bottom of the street, three years later we were still waiting for him x"

You must live on a very long street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't men turn up to meet couples like yourselfs? Most likely because they use this site to fantasise about meeting couples like yourselfs. Another explanation is that they are nervous to move from fantasy to reality.

They piss me off as well, since I'm one of the males who does meet when I say I will."

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "

op your looking for super confident self assure men .

I'm sure you realise must men are timid yes they talk a good game but with most its force confidence not real all for show .

it takes a very confident self assured guy to go to a couples own home and then preform in front of the hot wife's husband.

such men are super confident have a sense of self worth and easily get pissed off with how some couple choose to treat them , you know like walking cocks at there beck and call .

once that happens such guys walk away from the swinging world for a bit because think on this when have you ever seen a confident guy self assured guy struggling for sex the answer is never .

so the minute such a guy thinks he's not being treated fairly by play partners or the swinging scene in general he walks away on grounds he just doesn't need it .

which of coarse leads to a shortage of such guys hence your frustrations .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One stocks in mind more then the others.. I travel so I'm going out of my way for them to just sit at home and relax but one guy gave me a different address to his. I knocked and some random Guy answered. Could of been a potentially dangerous situation for me as a single female. I messaged him on here but instead of replying, he blocked me. I'm a 5ft2 woman so pose no threat to anyone, i just don't get some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else gets passed off with Them? Trying to get single males to visit our home is a nightmare. We check them out as much as possible, speak to them on the phone to confirm....then they don't turn up. Wtf is that all About? "
We feel your pain

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By *eterbeebeeMan
over a year ago

Derby

I would love to come and meet people but now don't drive so it's difficult but love to entertain

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