FabSwingers.com forum: Pre op TS or Post Op TS

By *andy Velvet OP TV/TS
over a year ago

bicester

Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few weeks ago I was talking to a TS. She said that since surgery she has less people interested in meeting her. Guy especially seem to like the idea of pre op, but not post op it would seem. Personal like both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think such a big desicion like that should be thought about long and hard.

Obviously there's the element of how much sex can I get with each, that's got to be an influence, but ultimately what would you be happier with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a very interesting subject. I think a lot of "fab straight" guys prefer pre op as they are really bisexual or gay but won't admit it.

Do pre op TS identify as male or female? Or gender fluid? I suppose everyone can identify as they wish but I just wondered.

OP you have to decide what is right for you in every sense and not just because it'll get you more attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your journey, OP.

Define yourself, don't define yourself based on the needs of others.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will make you happy?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Ive met both pre and post and tbh i feel the same with both your still women with a cock or not xx Though must admit found the tightness of post op so nice and would never think she was trans her surgery was that good xxx But you have to decide OP for you because once its gone its gone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Wow! "

I thought that as well

shudder

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I have to admit, I prefer my girls with a willy. It's that little bit extra that makes it oh so special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Wow!

I thought that as well

shudder

At least hes being honest.

For a lot of ts's it's not a choice- they feel wrong with a dick.

If its not that clear cut then its entirily upto you and if you love your body as is or if you need changes to feel 'right'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

If you cut off your cock you will be like a woman... Your cock with your boobs making you special...

To be honest with you real ts really turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

Who is paying for this designer vagina?

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich

"It's a very interesting subject. I think a lot of "fab straight" guys prefer pre op as they are really bisexual or gay but won't admit it.

Do pre op TS identify as male or female? Or gender fluid? I suppose everyone can identify as they wish but I just wondered.

OP you have to decide what is right for you in every sense and not just because it'll get you more attention.

These are very wise words !!

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

Who is paying for this designer vagina? "

Given that she lives in Knightsbridge, London I suspect covering the cost will not be a problem.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From talking to many pre and post op I've come to the conclusion that if you base it entirely on the interest you get, you're better off keeping it.

If you're transitioning because your cock repulses you then get it removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only have it done if you want to its a life changing op me personally I'd say keep the little fella if ur putting it down to a vote best of both worlds cant go wrong

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

If I know men (I work with nothing but), and fab in general, I'd say keep the dick! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel like you're a woman born in the wrong body. Get it cut off. If you're a guy who gets of looking like a woman, keep it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

Who is paying for this designer vagina?

Given that she lives in Knightsbridge, London I suspect covering the cost will not be a problem.

Xxx"

Stop assuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

Who is paying for this designer vagina?

Given that she lives in Knightsbridge, London I suspect covering the cost will not be a problem.

Xxx

Stop assuming "

What does it matter who is paying?

OP it's your decision, it's a life changing one so I would suggest if you're not 100% sure then don't do it just yet

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Sweet fucking Christ.

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

On initial read of this post and your profile I'd suggest that you've no real intention of transitioning.

But even if you were, basing that decision on wether you're likely to get more sex is hardly the right reason. And any gender specialist would kick you off the list for mentioning it.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Outrageous

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

Do what's best for you x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

If that is all you are basing your decision on, then you're making it for the wrong reasons.

Is this just an attempt at a look at me thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

Who is paying for this designer vagina?

Given that she lives in Knightsbridge, London I suspect covering the cost will not be a problem.

Xxx

Stop assuming

What does it matter who is paying?

OP it's your decision, it's a life changing one so I would suggest if you're not 100% sure then don't do it just yet "

I rather the NHS money go to cancer patients, not spent on a designer vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather the NHS money go to cancer patients, not spent on a designer vagina "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather the NHS money go to cancer patients, not spent on a designer vagina

Agreed."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's with you 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pre op. For me. All the ts and ladyboys I have met I only go for pre op.

I have no interest in meeting post op. As its just the same as a female otherwise, and might aswell just meet a female.

A ts with a dick makes you unique, and men love that.

A ts with a pussy is just a woman.

Wow!

I thought that as well

shudder

At least hes being honest.

For a lot of ts's it's not a choice- they feel wrong with a dick.

If its not that clear cut then its entirily upto you and if you love your body as is or if you need changes to feel 'right'.

Ok a little clarification just for you.

I "shuddered" not at the OP, although basing his reasons for undergoing a major life changing operation in order to get more sex is highly questionable. I "shuddered" at the subsequent post saying a ts without a penis is JUST a woman.

I'm not going to pretend I understand what makes a man dress as a woman and want sex with men, I'm no psychologist, however saying someone is JUST a woman makes me shudder. So I hope that clears up my original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock "

I'm sorry but this seems like a really shallow question.

My son at 14 came out as transgender (he was born a girl)

It has taken a whole load of therapy and family counselling to be able to move forward, and still his fear of injections holds him back from having the body he feels he should have been born in.

Then you are here asking what the best route is to go to give others sexual pleasure?

I don't think you are ready for any kind of change - you have to do it for yourself not anyone else, it is life altering.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

I'm sorry but this seems like a really shallow question.

My son at 14 came out as transgender (he was born a girl)

It has taken a whole load of therapy and family counselling to be able to move forward, and still his fear of injections holds him back from having the body he feels he should have been born in.

Then you are here asking what the best route is to go to give others sexual pleasure?

I don't think you are ready for any kind of change - you have to do it for yourself not anyone else, it is life altering. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

On initial read of this post and your profile I'd suggest that you've no real intention of transitioning.

But even if you were, basing that decision on wether you're likely to get more sex is hardly the right reason. And any gender specialist would kick you off the list for mentioning it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so much wrong with this proposition.

To seek to have in excess of £10k of NHS money in surgery based on where you'll get more interest, whilst all GICs have funding such that waiting lists over a year just for a first appt and whilst disphoria for those on the waiting list literally destroys lives is just wrong.

Posting this just trivialises gender disphoria and contributes to the misunderstanding and sexualisation of trans women.

Rant over x I'll go get my hard hat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's so much wrong with this proposition.

Posting this just trivialises gender disphoria and contributes to the misunderstanding and sexualisation of trans women.

Rant over x I'll go get my hard hat x

This!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Should I have surgery and have a designer vagina

Would I get more interest

Or keep my cock

I'm sorry but this seems like a really shallow question.

My son at 14 came out as transgender (he was born a girl)

It has taken a whole load of therapy and family counselling to be able to move forward, and still his fear of injections holds him back from having the body he feels he should have been born in.

Then you are here asking what the best route is to go to give others sexual pleasure?

I don't think you are ready for any kind of change - you have to do it for yourself not anyone else, it is life altering. "

Spot. On.

Being transgendered isn't a flippant sexual choice but one of gender.

I struggled with my own for a long time and had considered transitioning but finally accepted my lumpy female body and express my gender queerness in other ways. Of all my trans friends who have gone the full journey, it's a lot of thought, soul searching, upset, acceptance before anyone touched them with a scalpel. They are the bravest people I know.

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