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By *ack_Jones11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just curious....

At what point in your relationship did you start swinging. Was it fairly early after getting together, or much later after the relationship has become more established, perhaps you had been togetherness for yours.

Open to all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been together 19 years married for 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul knew I was a swinger from our very first date. But I refused to sleep with him on the first date to prove a point. Anyway about 3 months in I organised a FMF for him and then we eventually joined fab. Obviously I dragged him into it kicking and screaming

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Just curious....

At what point in your relationship did you start swinging. Was it fairly early after getting together, or much later after the relationship has become more established, perhaps you had been togetherness for yours.

Open to all...."

We were fairly early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked about it after about a year, fantasised for around 5 years, then went ahead and had an mfm, and not looked back

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By *ack_Jones11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Thanks for responses. I'm interested to hear more.

I should contribute, in my last relationship which lasted for 3 years, we started playing in clubs after just over a year. We've split up now but not as a result of swinging although it did create tension at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband knew my history. I told him I was unlikely to change. It worked for a while.

History.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 months into our relationship "Bonnie" was curious, we spoke about trying out swinging (soft play) signed up to a website, 2 weeks later we were enjoying our very first experience with a sexy couple (soft play went out the window!) Never looked back as we love it!! That was almost 6 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool thread!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

H has always been more attracted to females & we would always window shop ladies together when out & about "Holy shit look at her!" Would be said by H just as much as by me Then last year a very pretty girl started working with H & H wanted to do more than window shop.

So we had long conversations about what to do about it and as it turns out it's me who is more "open" to do things like playing alone etc. But H doesn't want to, so we started going to Vanilla clubs picking up the odd girl on ocassion but although enjoyable they were not what we really wanted.

Then we discovered this place which as it turns out is far harder work than a Saturday night boogy & flirt but we are slowly getting there & with like minded not so pished people

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together for years before we started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met through swinging and just carried on...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

19 years in. We'd spoken about for about 19 years too, lol, but only seriously for the past 3. We didn't know how to go about it, then found fab which compliments our daring/naughty sex side which we've had from day one.

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston

Together 25 years married 21, we were having a good talk one day when we both realised it was something we had both wanted to try but thought the other wouldn't. Been doing it 6 months now and we are really enjoying ourselves.

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

We started about 4 or 5 months in and have been together about 2.5 years now. MiscM told me that he had done it before and I thought it sounded good so we did it!

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By *ack_Jones11 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Thanks all for contributions.

Would love to here any more stories about how you and your partner began swinging x

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By *limaxinnylonCouple
over a year ago

CHESTER

Jon had played as a single guy before me. We got together and he brought up the subject about two months in to our relationship. Week later first FFM whilst her hubby watched. Turned me on watching Jon fuck another woman. Never looked back and we have been together nearly three years now!

Jayne xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just curious....

At what point in your relationship did you start swinging. Was it fairly early after getting together, or much later after the relationship has become more established, perhaps you had been togetherness for yours.

Open to all...."

We met on here.

We're taking a break as we don't have time for each other so others will have to wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swung into a relationship entirely accidentally.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We actually met on this site and have been swinging together ever since...

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

We have been married for 22 years and only been swingers for nearly a year, we had talked about it for many years, found Fab and decided to give it a go.

Its just a bit of fun, we love each other and have found that it has opened the only part of our relationship that could have had secrets.

We've always tell each other everything, we are friends, lover's, husband and wife and swingers

Not effected our marriage at al

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been together for just over a year when we started .

We married a year after we started swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were together for about 2 years

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

we started after about 16/17 yrs of marriage, but julie has always been a flirt lol

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

We had both had 3somes before we got together after a couple of months we decided to have a 3some ourselves first couple of times it was soft play that soon went ot the window and 12 years later still at it.we feel its kept our relationship fresh and exciting

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We have been married for 22 years and only been swingers for nearly a year, we had talked about it for many years, found Fab and decided to give it a go.

Its just a bit of fun, we love each other and have found that it has opened the only part of our relationship that could have had secrets.

We've always tell each other everything, we are friends, lover's, husband and wife and swingers

Not effected our marriage at al

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Exactly this.

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