FabSwingers.com forum: For the couples who are in love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who got you into swinging and how was it getting the other person on board?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby had been to swingers clubs before he met me and persuaded me to try one. I absolutely loved it and have never looked back! Mmmm so many naughty fantasies fulfilled and many more to come! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who got you into swinging and how was it getting the other person on board?"

The wife brought it up we talked allot about it and decided its something we would both like to try then we talked even more about what we would both want and expect out of it and what we would or wouldnt do and established our ground rules

I dont profess that our way is right but it has worked well for us our simple rule is neither of us have a thought we didnt vocalize that way all cards are always on the table

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Who got you into swinging and how was it getting the other person on board?"

We both saw it on tv, always had a very open relationship so we're intrested to see it had a name. Looked on net saw a club and both decided to go look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who got you into swinging and how was it getting the other person on board?

We both saw it on tv, always had a very open relationship so we're intrested to see it had a name. Looked on net saw a club and both decided to go look."

It's just something we both fancied at the same time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redhead and I met through here and we both agreed that we couldn't do monogamy again. We both love it and look forward to our continued journey

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

Because love and sex are different. sex doesnt have to invole emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a chat we had one night and thought oh why not give it a bash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a long time ago so the details are fuzzy, but Mrs had known she was bi since a young age. She'd been in a relationship with a woman.

So we started of your typical unicorn hunters, but ended up meeting a single guy on a whim, and never looked back.

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Mrs de ja had a g/f and asked if I would like a 3some

that's us started lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whrn it was decided that Bonnie was going to move in with me I thought it best that I confess to her my swinging past with my ex years previously before she hear it from someone else. After I had told her she started asking lots of questions on how we had met other "swingers" alike. So I showed her a website (not fab) and was totally stunned when she said "we'll go on then, sign us up!!" Two weeks later we experienced our very first 4some together! She was like a duck to water!! That was 6 years ago and she just as keen and eager to give new experiences a try! I'm one very lucky fella!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We both swung before and I guess I did as Dick wanted to see me with another woman I started on here for a suprise 40 th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we met off site we both had singles profiles on here so natural progression really continuing what we both enjoy, but the pleasure of doing it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my husband and we have often discussed our fantasies during sex. I suggested swinging as a way for me to meet a bi fem. He has known I'm bi almost since the day we met, about 13 years ago.

I have talked to him about it numerous times, offered him a MFF on a plate, but he isn't interested. Hence, why I am on here as a single fem. Rather envious of the couples who are in love with each other, that can swing together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are still debating which of us instigated !

We are coming to the conclusion that it wasn't either of us but a very mutual decision both being of the same mindset.

Like the other posts, we were really interested in clubs and parties and once we had explored it felt so natural for us to enjoy all that the life had to offer.

We both get really turned on by each other and seeing each other in a new perspective is amazing.

Before we thought that swinging was just about shagging others but now we realise its so much more and its a really intense kind of foreplay for when we are alone together.

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

John has been swinging before with some but not every girlfriend. He told me he enjoyed swinging on our second or third date and after initially saying "no way" we talked more about fantasies etc he thought I would enjoy it. We tried a club two weeks into our relationship and he was right I loved it! We have been swinging happily ever since and getting married in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

Because love and sex are different. sex doesnt have to invole emotions. "

You are spot on, sex is sex love is something very different

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

You know you have more on a different level than anyone else they meet. Nothing comes close (sorry to the vocal single ladies who don't like couples saying this), but anyway he doesn't meet ladies although he does chat to them. If anything it further validates what you have because nothing else comes close. If its a shared experience, then even better. Not to say we do it very often though ...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We met on here although had very different experiences of the scene. If anything since being together we have developed our relationship and our tastes .... we have each explored what the other is interested in as we have done with other areas of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were having a conversation about sex toys and Mr brought up that he had done this in a previous relationship (I hadn't ) . I agree to try , we set up a profile and hey presto .

Mr doesn't play with other women as it doesn't interest him so we do mmf And as other poster said it's very much like intense foreplay. We already had a great great sex life but the sex after a meet is mindblowing . I also feel it's brought us closer

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By *sym45Man
over a year ago

JE2

Jeez.Your husband is a very lucky man ! I'd give anything to meet someone like you....

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

Because love and sex are different. sex doesnt have to invole emotions. "

This, and we don't kiss others,

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

We started by talking about having a threesome and it went from there. Not sure we imagined it leading the way it has but we love it. Both of us get turned on by seeing the other pleasured. We always enjoy reliving some of the fun afterwards!

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By *akeyousmile30Man
over a year ago

greenwich

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

Because love and sex are different. sex doesnt have to invole emotions. "

I agree 100%

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Started as bedroom fantasies and then we decided to give it ago for real and have never looked back.

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Great and very interesting thread!

Everyone is different.

We actually met on another website (killing kittens) over 3 years ago with the plan to go to parties and be fuck buddies.

We got married two weeks ago ????

So I guess you can say this lifestyle works perfectly for us. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but there is absolutely zero jealousy and it is easily the most secure and happy relationship both of us have ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great and very interesting thread!

Everyone is different.

We actually met on another website (killing kittens) over 3 years ago with the plan to go to parties and be fuck buddies.

We got married two weeks ago ????

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife was trying her bi side when we met and one lady mentioned a swinging site Had a look and been swinging 6 years now

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By *llabouttheOCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Bolivia, Wine in a basket and a very confident Aussy Lesbian.

Forward one night..

A broken sink, a trip to hospital and a very new side to our sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been friends for a number of years and she knew that I had been involved in swinging in a previous relationship.

When we started dating I assumed she was a "good girl" as she seemed very conventional. I was happy to accept that as I really liked her.

Very very early in the new relationship however she surprised me by saying she had a fantasy about group sex.

I arranged for a guy from another website to join us but thought she might chicken out.

How wrong I was. Within minutes of meeting this complete stranger she was face down naked in our bed with her bum in the air begging to be fucked.

I fell in love with this stunning beautiful and lovely woman. It was a delightful extra to discover that sexually she was happy to do anything, anywhere with anyone.lol

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Re met each other after about twenty yrs of not seeing each other.... Hooked up with 'friends with benefit quick fling' kind of intentions.. Similar interests

Few months in he joined us as a surprise.... 3 yrs later completely in love and fab is just a nice add on X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and miss are very much in love, sickeningly so to most.

Spend very little time with anyone but each other.

I (mr) instigated the sexual adventures.

Miss knew I had delved into the world of all things non-vanilla very early on.

We discussed it but she wasn't ready back then.

7 years on she has just started her journey (last 6-8 months) and is flourishing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at a fetish social so the conversations were completely open before we had our first 'date'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was jewels idea to look for a woman to join us after we visited a lap dancing club in Amsterdam. She had been in a relationship with a woman before we met and wanted to have sex with a woman again.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met on here as singles,took a bit of time away to get to know each other and decided to come on and meet as a couple.

Miss

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Very soon after we had first met, we both admitted we'd had a lot of sexual variety when married to our exes, and conventional faithfulness wasn't likely to be part of our relationship. So we decided to try visiting a swinger club, loved the scene and we've been swinging ever since. We married after a couple of years but kept on playing regularly. Swinging really works for us, we are still very much in in love after 12 years but still shagging other people too! It's more fun to play together openly rather than having furtive affairs and one night stands as we did with our exes.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

After 10 years together we decided to spice things up, one of the things on the checklist was some exhibitionist sex.

We went to Xtasia (to give you an idea of how long ago it was, you could still smoke inside

), had absolutely no intention of swinging, just shagging each other.

A really hot couple asked us if we wanted to join them. We both hesitated, look at each other, then eventually said no.

The next day we had "the chat" as to why we both hesitated instead of just shooting it down. So we went back two weeks later and so began our swinging journey. 10 years later and we're still going, even stronger than ever.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

But that's half the fun!

We both get really turned on watching each other having some fun with another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We discussed some things when we first got together as my ex was going to dish the dirt to my new partner about my teenage experiences with a guy. Felt it best to be honest in the end and let her make up her own mind.

Turned out to be a bit of a turn on for her and led to her saying she'd thought about being with girls.

A year later we went to Townhouse, got involved in some light fet stuff and she had a couple of experiences with girls. Met a couple for some soft swap fun a few months ago and we've talked more since about what we'd like.

Were looking to go to the next step but pregnancy put things on hold for a while it seems.

Would love to meet a bi couple near us to build up a proper friendship and have some fun along the way

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We met st a swingers club ... the rest is history lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

Because love and sex are different. sex doesnt have to invole emotions. "

This

I used to be on here as part of a couple ... I absolutely idolised P .. loved him ... when he suggested me having sex with another guy I wasn't sure.. We went to clubs etc and found it so hot .. He loved seeing me turn other men on knowing I was his... so it worked for us ..

We had a ffm too and although weird at first I also found it hot ..

Don't try to understand it . You either like it or you don't x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Still can't get my head around been in love with someone, and wanting to shag others!!!!! It would kill me to see my man been intimate with another person.

What is there to get your head around? If it's not for you, you don't need to get your head around it. The people who do enjoy it have got their heads around it just fine!

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