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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

after reading another forum post what is the difference, i would say im more than just bi-curious now but what is the difference between being bi and just having fun with another lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you go with the flow at a party, it doesnt necessarily mean that you are bisexual, you become that if you like to meet ladies as well as men and get turned on by them as equally as men;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fun with all my girlfriends, shopping, holidays, theatre etc, can honestly say I've never wanted to go down on any of them!

Then again I'm happy with my sexuality and can say I'm 100% straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after reading another forum post what is the difference, i would say im more than just bi-curious now but what is the difference between being bi and just having fun with another lady "
im the same im well past bi curious/if you sleep with a girl once and dont do it again that is bi curious/so if you sleep with a girl and do or want to do it again then your bi (right?).im bi and love girls there so nice to kiss and play with.xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats exactly what i mean if you didnt like it you just wouldnt do it again lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well sassy everyone is different i can honestly say im having 100% FUN AND LOVING IT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"after reading another forum post what is the difference, i would say im more than just bi-curious now but what is the difference between being bi and just having fun with another lady im the same im well past bi curious/if you sleep with a girl once and dont do it again that is bi curious/so if you sleep with a girl and do or want to do it again then your bi (right?).im bi and love girls there so nice to kiss and play with.xx"

Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think there’s any difference, the only thing complicated with sexuality is some people’s reluctance to accept what they are, cannot quite understand why especially if they enjoy it??

As for being bi-curious, I would imagine once you’ve done it once or twice and want to do it again that you’re no longer curious, and if you don't ever want to do it again after trying it then you're straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bisexual.....and 100% happy with my sexuality!! I've had a girlfriend but couldn't commit to the "gay" thing....she was I wasn't. Curiosity has long gone but I like both men and women simple x

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i think sometimes ppl just dont want to be labeled in anyway either if its bi-curious/bisexual or whatever some ppl just like to go with the flow as other ppl have said above.

me kinky know im more the curious,i love playing with women as much as i do men alot of the times more depending on how sexy the girl is hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels are important though, image taking all the labels off the tins before putting them away in the cupboard

Whether people like labels or not they are there to best describe people, and when searching for someone there isn’t a “go with the flow” option sadly, having said all that I personally wouldn’t expect someone who labels themselves as straight to go with the flow anyway when it came to same sex play so that’s where such labels help.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

According to research being bisexual is something your are born with, like straight are born straight and gays are born gays.

In this hobby it seems that bi-curious means 'want to try same sex sex' and bisexual means 'like same sex sex and want more'.

We haven't knowingly met a TRUE bisexual in this hobby as yet but we've had plenty of same sex sex.

It could also be said that we are all bisexual but most people are limited to platonic relationships with same sex.

How many straight people out there with a same sex 'best friend', you share their pain and joy, you miss them if you don't seem them often enough... is this not a platonic bisexual relationship?

Its also said that true bisexuals have a preference one way or the other, so perhaps the man or woman who lives day-to-day in a heterosexual relationship can be a true bisexual. That's 'seems' to make sense of a lot of what goes on in swinging until you add the other ingredient... the true bisexual with same sex preference they might look like gay but straight-curious?!?!?

I would say this... I'm straight and in a serious full time heterosexual soon to be married relationship... but I don't let that get in the way of sex play with same sex and the same applies to my misses

It seems that bisexuality is a grey area that even the psychologist haven't worked out yet. Confuse it still further, straight guys and straight females masturbate, so that's a man enjoying playing with a willy or a woman enjoying playing with a pussy. OK so its their own bits but its still same sex sex

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to research being bisexual is something your are born with, like straight are born straight and gays are born gays.

In this hobby it seems that bi-curious means 'want to try same sex sex' and bisexual means 'like same sex sex and want more'.

We haven't knowingly met a TRUE bisexual in this hobby as yet but we've had plenty of same sex sex.

It could also be said that we are all bisexual but most people are limited to platonic relationships with same sex.

How many straight people out there with a same sex 'best friend', you share their pain and joy, you miss them if you don't seem them often enough... is this not a platonic bisexual relationship?

Its also said that true bisexuals have a preference one way or the other, so perhaps the man or woman who lives day-to-day in a heterosexual relationship can be a true bisexual. That's 'seems' to make sense of a lot of what goes on in swinging until you add the other ingredient... the true bisexual with same sex preference they might look like gay but straight-curious?!?!?

I would say this... I'm straight and in a serious full time heterosexual soon to be married relationship... but I don't let that get in the way of sex play with same sex and the same applies to my misses

It seems that bisexuality is a grey area that even the psychologist haven't worked out yet. Confuse it still further, straight guys and straight females masturbate, so that's a man enjoying playing with a willy or a woman enjoying playing with a pussy. OK so its their own bits but its still same sex sex "

interesting observations, enjoyed reading that.

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