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"Disgusting " how very narrow minded. | |||
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"Disgusting " Could we have an unequivocal view please ? | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " Don't worry about what people think or feel. Everyone in clubs is a consenting adult. You will get those who want to enjoy you and those who won't. | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " bearing in mind she only plays with women x | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. bearing in mind she only plays with women x" there are some people that forget pregnant women have been having sex for as long as they have been getting pregnant for... the forum view thankfully doesn't seem to be the general view at clubs. Enjoy | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. bearing in mind she only plays with women x there are some people that forget pregnant women have been having sex for as long as they have been getting pregnant for... the forum view thankfully doesn't seem to be the general view at clubs. Enjoy " Yeah dead right. Surely its the woman's choice. And what's wrong with going to a club? Pregnant ladies work, drive, soccialise, carry on with life in every other way, right! | |||
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"Disgusting " Really?! Would you like to explain why you feel so disgusted at the thought of a pregnant woman being out and about and enjoying herself? One of our regular friends is pregnant and has found that her libido has gone through the roof! For our part, we have enjoyed exploring the changes to her body! I expect you find that notion "disgusting" too. | |||
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"Perhaps the first respondent was thinking that pregnancy is a very special time and a little more care and thought is put into the seeking of pleasure?" And they're right to think that | |||
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"Can't really see any difference regarding sexual health..surely you'd be just as careful whilst pregnant (although high heels on the narrow stairs at chams might want more consideration! ) " The difference being, if you catch an infection while swinging it can be transferred to your baby. | |||
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"Perhaps the first respondent was thinking that pregnancy is a very special time and a little more care and thought is put into the seeking of pleasure? And they're right to think that" I totally agree. I happen to think that ladies with child are quite beautiful but because of their status in the circle of life not for sexual reasons. I also agree with the comments that refraining from recreational sex is not that much of a hardship as any risk to the on board passenger is just not worth it. | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " I played with a pregnant woman in a club. NBD. | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " More needed | |||
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"Perhaps the first respondent was thinking that pregnancy is a very special time and a little more care and thought is put into the seeking of pleasure? And they're right to think thatI totally agree. I happen to think that ladies with child are quite beautiful but because of their status in the circle of life not for sexual reasons. I also agree with the comments that refraining from recreational sex is not that much of a hardship as any risk to the on board passenger is just not worth it." | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " I imagine you'll be receiving a lot of positive attention. It's your body and if you want to go to a club and play, then you do whatever you're comfortable with. I would have thought clubs would be very supportive of you attending. I'd choose to ignore any negativity about it you read or hear. You know what's best for you. | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " Love it ... so fucking sexy to play with a pregnant lady which we've done in the past . | |||
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"I have no problem with a pregnant woman having sex, but you have to remember that even with condons there is a risk of getting an sti, and whereas they are usually easily treated in an adult, they can cause long term severe health problems for the baby, and cause stillbirth or death in the first few weeks after birth. I used to be a midwife, I have seen it happen Not trying to scaremonger as I realise the risk is very small, however it is there, and if it was my baby, would I take that very small risk for a few thrills. No way, it's 9 months of your life and your children have to be your priority over anything!" Plus a lot of the treatable stis you can catch can't be treated during pregnancy so you are left in discomfort for quite some time depending on how far into the pregnancy you caught one I think it's important for anyone pregnant that is considering playing to do some reasrarch of the pros and cons in order to make an informed choice as opposed to rushing into a decision on the subject | |||
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"Disgusting " Can't believe you're saying this. Really??? | |||
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"I wouldn't go to clubs or play with other people.Is my duty as a mother to protect my bundle of joy." Definitely | |||
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"I wouldn't go to clubs or play with other people.Is my duty as a mother to protect my bundle of joy." | |||
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"Disgusting " I don't know how some people on a swingers site can be so judgemental. The majority of the population think that people that visit swingers clubs are perverted weirdos, We are supposed to be the broadminded ones. If it's between consenting adults then anything goes Apart from that I think pregnant women are hot | |||
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"Im curious to know what all the people posting about finding pregnant women sexy- what is it about it that makes them so sexy?! Genuinely curious " I find pregnant women sexy, but honestly can't verbalise why. I just do -Mr | |||
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"Im curious to know what all the people posting about finding pregnant women sexy- what is it about it that makes them so sexy?! Genuinely curious " There's many theories One is primal and animalistic, they know she's fertile and therefore the can sow their seeds (appeals to breeders) One could be as most women experience that "pregnancy glow" so have a new found confidence, confidence is an attractive trait for many One could be that many girls are attracted to curves on women so a swollen prolly is an immensely attractive curve One could be the visualise her as a mother so the homely comforting quality of that is attractive Could be past experiences of an highly sexually charged session with an horny pregnant woman left a lasting impression on them Could be that they have a lactation fetish so know she'll soon have lovely milky boobs to play with | |||
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"Is it wrong that I'm picturing a pregnant woman walking into a swingers club and everyone assuming she's looking for the father? Cue mass of guys running for the fire escape. " | |||
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"Is it wrong that I'm picturing a pregnant woman walking into a swingers club and everyone assuming she's looking for the father? Cue mass of guys running for the fire escape. " So glad someone else found that funny, thought I'd get flammed for trivialising someone else's serious question. | |||
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"Is it wrong that I'm picturing a pregnant woman walking into a swingers club and everyone assuming she's looking for the father? Cue mass of guys running for the fire escape. So glad someone else found that funny, thought I'd get flammed for trivialising someone else's serious question. " Well a sense of humour is important with swinging. Plus this question gets asked every few days, so it's difficult to keep giving the same serious answer. | |||
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"Is it wrong that I'm picturing a pregnant woman walking into a swingers club and everyone assuming she's looking for the father? Cue mass of guys running for the fire escape. So glad someone else found that funny, thought I'd get flammed for trivialising someone else's serious question. Well a sense of humour is important with swinging. Plus this question gets asked every few days, so it's difficult to keep giving the same serious answer. " Really? Don't think I've spotted it before. That means I'll be able to keep reusing this joke then. | |||
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"How do ppl feel about pregnant ppl playing and going to clubs etc. " We done it twice when I was pregnant loved it xx | |||
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"So many strange responses in here. My wife is pregnant and yes we still go to our local club. Absolutely nobody else's business about why we are there. We have a right to make our own decisions full stop. Too many judgmental people on this forum. " Absolutely right, however the op asked for opinions, and that's what they are getting | |||
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"I think the risks to the baby outweigh the benefits. Stds can cause blindness and other disabilities in unborn babies. It only takes one...personally not a risk I would take. " | |||
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"If i'd met my present partner when we were younger we may well have decided to have a baby together and I know without any doubt that we'd have stopped swinging during pregnancy. Partly because of the health issuse mentioned above, the wellbeing of any baby of mine would take priority over anything, but also because i know from when i had my two babies, pregnancy is such a special time, it's about but ng a family, nurturing a new life, nest building. I loved being pregnant and wanted to cherish it, keep that time special, and between us. Basically it comes down to the fact that swinging is a hobby, not our lives, and our lives together, with our families, always take priority. I've never understood the term hardened swingers before really, but I guess this is one of the differences, whether swinging becomes your life, or is just a small part of your life. I'm not saying anyone swinging during pregnancy is wrong, if it's what they want then fine, but i don't understand it, and not for me." | |||
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"So many strange responses in here. My wife is pregnant and yes we still go to our local club. Absolutely nobody else's business about why we are there. We have a right to make our own decisions full stop. Too many judgmental people on this forum. " Always the way I'm afraid | |||
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"So many strange responses in here. My wife is pregnant and yes we still go to our local club. Absolutely nobody else's business about why we are there. We have a right to make our own decisions full stop. Too many judgmental people on this forum. Always the way I'm afraid " Its a forum where questions are posed or statements hypothesised. Respondents then comment which usually has an underlying or overt opinion. That's the way it works? | |||
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"So many strange responses in here. My wife is pregnant and yes we still go to our local club. Absolutely nobody else's business about why we are there. We have a right to make our own decisions full stop. Too many judgmental people on this forum. Always the way I'm afraid Its a forum where questions are posed or statements hypothesised. Respondents then comment which usually has an underlying or overt opinion. That's the way it works?" So if a reply was racist towards someone, fair game. Just an opinion right? | |||
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"So many strange responses in here. My wife is pregnant and yes we still go to our local club. Absolutely nobody else's business about why we are there. We have a right to make our own decisions full stop. Too many judgmental people on this forum. Always the way I'm afraid Its a forum where questions are posed or statements hypothesised. Respondents then comment which usually has an underlying or overt opinion. That's the way it works? So if a reply was racist towards someone, fair game. Just an opinion right?" If someone said i won't fuck black men because i dont like them, then that is a racist remark to most people, however it is also their opinion, and they are entitled to have an opinion, no matter whether most people think its wrong or not. Its not against the law to think things, only act on them, and a lot of people do still have views like this, on all sorts of things | |||
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"Disgusting " Don't hold back on the feedback! | |||
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"I think it's her body and her business . She's not asking to have it up the ass while pushing the baby out ! People are so judgemental " Love this answer | |||
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"Well, we haven't experienced any "to our face" negativity. There are risks early on in pregnancy but that's to do with things *full stop*, swinging, or not, wouldn't affect that. The STI risks to the baby are beyond minimal if there was any sort of infection, and can be mitigated. (There's a greater issue from douching than an STI for stat nerds...) I am sure if someone was going hell for leather with a BBC BB Gangbang there might be bigger issues with your cervix getting hammered... But I guess indeed, it's just one of those opinionated things... Some people don't like Bi guys in swinging, or Asians, or fat people... Happily, all we have had is positivity on Phoenix's "blooming" looks, or "wow how big are your boobs" (lol) - and that's from club goers and club owners, and no judgemental dickheads or bitches who don't know how the body works. Flames " I think that's fantastic, I'm single and pregnant (not through choice, but life can be a bitch) I've had nothing but positive comments and the people I have met have been very considerate lovers. My baby is well protected in there, and I wonder how many of the 'judgmental' people have had a 'cheeky glass of wine or a quick ciggy?' Whilst pregnant. Good luck in your pregnancy and most of all enjoy your life and you bubba xx | |||
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"Disgusting " Another one to add to the block list | |||
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