FabSwingers.com forum: Have u told any one you swing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi just wondering if any one has told there family or friends they met outher people we've been spotted bye a freind not sure if to deny or confess we don't want to be judged

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By *icplforbimalebarrowCouple
over a year ago

barrow in furness cumbria

One of our friends know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only puks brother and a couple of friends that is all one vanilla friend attended one of our parties lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Close friends and family knew I joined fab. I probably wouldn't normally have told quite so many but I was mid-mania and my judgement was off. Fortunately they were all, with the exception of my brother, fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About half a dozen friends know, but the only bad reaction I've had is from my best friend. An ex knows and he's on here too. My current lover knows I'm here too and he's been a bit curious about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people I have told on a night out and they have joined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're open minded I mean we had sec with a freind just woryed about people judgeing us

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's no secret here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent told anyone. Basically because i havent had a meet or anything yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of my friends know i do adult pics for a living

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By *he Gentleman CallerMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Only the Bishop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my brother knows and my ex found out which caused a giant shit storm but to be honest I'm glad that people know.

I have no time for people judging my choices in reference to their moral high towers though. Its what I do and I'm happy. It's like Dr Seuss said; 'The people that matter don't mind and the people that mind don't matter.'

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make things worst. Parents freinds messaged me asking to meet and then we exchanged face pics and realised but we arent awkward about it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make things worst. Parents freinds messaged me asking to meet and then we exchanged face pics and realised but we arent awkward about it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but I don't class myself as a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why"

I have young children and I'd hate to think my being on here could impact negatively on them. Only the people I trust know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why"

Because we don't fancy being asked if we fancy a fuck in Tesco.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point made because no one wants anyone knowing. slag on street....he'll fuck owt... and to be fair theres plenty of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why"

Don't confuse discretion with secrecy

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No discretion at all what i said is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Point made because no one wants anyone knowing. slag on street....he'll fuck owt... and to be fair theres plenty of both"
. I gather u wouldn't let ur partner join in thresome with men then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few know, the rest wouldn't be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner is bi and her gf is gay ive not alot to complain about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few close friends know, and I also told my brother recently. I also have face pics on here but as a single guy am I really a swinger?? When I was with my ex wife, and we were on the scene we were a lot more guarded, but as she was a district nurse and regularly went into people's homes alone, I think that was only right.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've only told one person i'm on here - my best mate.

He is ok with it but has expressed a little concern, basically just telling me to be careful.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"But in next breath how many do you see with full face pics on here....very few and i wonder why

Because we don't fancy being asked if we fancy a fuck in Tesco. "

This made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came out on Fab, haven't actually meet anybody so does that mean I don't swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asda much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only people who I have told are on this site and in the clubs I visit. I've not told anyone in vanilla life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One friend knows a couple suspect but that's it

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

Several of our friends know - mainly because Tif likes to fuck them on nights out! We live in quite a tight military community in Italy so word spreads quite quickly out here so most of our friends and colleagues are aware that we invite others into our sex life. We don't rub it in people's faces but if people ask we never deny it because we are not in the slightest bit ashamed! We find very few people judge us and those that do we don't need as friends anyway!

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By *ee wonky willieMan
over a year ago

glasgow

My friends and family are aware of my lifestyle. They think I'm mental, but no one avoids due to being a swinger. I'm a good person. Surely that's all that matters

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

nope no even my best friend but i do get a kick being out with vanilla friends and they have no idea what i was up to the night before.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

No one outside of this world knows i do, i think from family abd friends there would be a hell of alot of judgement. They dont even know im bi let alone anything else. after a very awkward conversation a few months back my mouth is staying truely shut about this side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a birthday party and decided it was a bit of a bust so we figured we'd bail out and go to quest, as we were about leave I (ess) announced to our friends ( whom I have known pretty much all my life and grew up with) that we were going to a swinger's club, as I'm the jovial clown of the group I don't think they believed me but I do know that they will all have questioned my sincerity of the announcement Lol, I'm just waiting for one of them to ask me if I was joking or not Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few friends know, a couple have now joined fab. Eldest daughter knows we go to clubs but not on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one except the people I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no one knows but they all think I'm sex mad anyway as I watch alot of those channel 5 documentaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow . Any way don't be afraid . U can recon if he insist , what the fuck , u are only spicing you're sexual lid nothen else . And it's also you're choice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a friend I'd known for years, and within a month she'd joined up. I also told another friend a few years back, she also joined, but because she lives in a town, it would seem that half the male population of that town are also on here, and she's met them, she came off it as she kept getting stares from the wives as she recognised the men while shopping in Tesco. I have told two other friends, they aren't interested in joining as it's not for them.... oh and I did tell a psychiatrist too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger, i just like sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I like to keep some things to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I confided with a workmate one day over drinks and she is my fcuk buddy now.

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

My ex an her daughter both know I m a swinger,her daughter is on the site with her other half,we have blocked each other so no problems.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Nope, I like my private life private, it has no concern of theirs so I keep myself to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't think of anything worse. Private life is private. I'd also hate to bump into someone I know. I like discretion I open up to like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows, we keep our two lives very separate x

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

our family,s know what we do. some guy (on a different site) tried to blackmail us years ago, saying if we don,t meet him he would tell mrs,s family as he knew who we where. we told him to fill his boots. he never did, would loved to see his face when they said so what? we already know,lol.

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