FabSwingers.com forum: Would you stay or leave?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To all you single ladys on here, if you met someone and started a relationship would you want to continue to be on fab and play together or would you not use this anymore?

Personally i feel that now ive been on here i cant see me having a relationship that doesnt involve having other guys play too.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

It would depend on the dynamics of the relationship and what each party were getting from the world of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It would depend on the dynamics of the relationship and what each party were getting from the world of swinging "

I guess, but i find it a massive turn on now and think its gunna be hard to find someone who wants the same haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend on the dynamics of the relationship and what each party were getting from the world of swinging

I guess, but i find it a massive turn on now and think its gunna be hard to find someone who wants the same haha"

Like the reverse of a couple who start swinging to spice things up. A swinger who decides to just go with a 1on1 relationship. Yes, that loving sexual relationship is going to be boring.

Just go with the flow dude. If it's right for your partner, you do it. If swinging feels good fog you both, then carry on. You seem to be enjoying it, why stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here before, met someone in the 'real world' and closed my account.

However that went tits up so here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't meet on fab but when we got together we both had singles accounts on here. So yes, for us, continuing swinging was the thing we wanted to do. It's the same for some other couples on here too, but it really depends on the dynamics of a particular relationship as to whether it would work or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm not interested in swinging at all, it does nothing for me.

i'd still stay on here but only for the forums, like i am doing now. if the guy was up for 3sums then here would be the perfect place to look and i'd use fab for that as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be on here if I was in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Different views then i guess,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am simply not interested in monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Different views then i guess,x"

of course...

if everyone thought the same way about everything, life would be a bit dull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy not on here but we both had single accounts he decided we should close them, then decided he could come back and just hoped I never found out

O well I found out and am back again

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Different views then i guess,x

of course...

if everyone thought the same way about everything, life would be a bit dull"

We are not swingers, don't play with couples etc. However finding a longterm bi-fem "out there" as it were was proving very difficult, here it has only been difficult (but closer than we've ever been) & we now enjoy the club side even if we don't play in them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was what we both wanted I'd carry on with both of us meeting as a couple. I'm not sure I'd want to meet singularly though.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend on the dynamics of the relationship and what each party were getting from the world of swinging

I guess, but i find it a massive turn on now and think its gunna be hard to find someone who wants the same haha

Like the reverse of a couple who start swinging to spice things up. A swinger who decides to just go with a 1on1 relationship. Yes, that loving sexual relationship is going to be boring.

Just go with the flow dude. If it's right for your partner, you do it. If swinging feels good fog you both, then carry on. You seem to be enjoying it, why stop.

1 on 1 sexual relationships needn't be boring at all.

Swinger sex can become very samey and boring. Just doing the same thing with different people doesn't make sex exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!"

Personal choice. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be on here if I was in a monogamous relationship, but I don't have meets with couples either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!"

fab also has cam rooms for people who will never swing, stories and fantasies section full of non-swinging stories. you can join the site as a single and meet, be verified, as a single.

the title of the site means nothing, how it functions does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!

fab also has cam rooms for people who will never swing, stories and fantasies section full of non-swinging stories. you can join the site as a single and meet, be verified, as a single.

the title of the site means nothing, how it functions does. "

oh and you can block couples from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the swinging side of it excites me so much, hopefully one day ill be on here as a couple but for now im just having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never ever attempt a monogamous relationship ever again. I will consider my partners' wishes or discomfort and may evenlimit my play accordingly. But ultimately, my body is mine, my sexual expression is mine - open relationships only for me. It is not experiencing swinging that changed me, I only joined cos I was like that already.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!

Personal choice. Simple"

I totally get the personal choice thing but to see some people posting how they wouldn't dream of being here if in a relationship and would never swing makes it seem like they think swinging is an abomination. Kinda hypocritical really considering the name of the site that they're on!

There's absolutely nothing wrong with singles being here. After all, without them where would couples find their third person for mmf etc. Oh and we met here as singles too so it can be a fantastic place to meet someone with a similar outlook to yourself. It's the holier than thou attitude that some people have that irritates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd leave. Happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To all you single ladys on here, if you met someone and started a relationship would you want to continue to be on fab and play together or would you not use this anymore?

Personally i feel that now ive been on here i cant see me having a relationship that doesnt involve having other guys play too."

I would love a non-vanilla relationship, however, if my future guy wanted vanilla then I'd accept that providing he was kinky and we could role play with phantoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always bemused by those that say they wouldn't be here if in a relationship, the site is called fabSWINGERS after all!

Personal choice. Simple

Well I certainly don't have that attitude at all, and don't find swingers an abomination at all. I say good on anyone completely comfortable with their sexuality and preferences and the confidence to act on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy. You're in the fortunate position to do so.

To do anything else would not be being true to yourself, and that will inevitably lead to discontent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - I'd talk to the person you're having a relationship with and see what they say.

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