FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

What was your longest period without sex.

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Go on

This should be interesting!!

Mine was six months.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icplforbimalebarrowCouple
over a year ago

barrow in furness cumbria

8 month's for the mr of our cpl

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"8 month's for the mr of our cpl"

Wow how comes?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I've not had sex since April 2015, so 18months and counting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

6 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icplforbimalebarrowCouple
over a year ago

barrow in furness cumbria

He was working away

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"6 years "

Snap

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not had sex since April 2015, so 18months and counting"

Wow

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not had sex since April 2015, so 18months and counting

Wow "

Years I see for some of you??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icplforbimalebarrowCouple
over a year ago

barrow in furness cumbria

Not sure I could go six years lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and the 4 years joined here to catch up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 mths but it was only down to birthdays and anniversaries by that point so if you minus those it's a good few years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure I could go six years lol"

I can probably last a week

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My first seventeen years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"6 years "

Same. 1 year while I was still married and then the next five years after we split up. I had three kids to bring up so meeting anyone wasn't on my to do list.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do some of you cope? Is it blocked from your mind? Or do you just pleasure yourself?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 5years and 10 months almost 6 years.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

About 12 hours

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"15 years "

Really

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/10/16 22:43:21]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"15 years

Really"

well yeah!!but after that 1st time id say a week or 2!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fifteen days short of a year.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

14 years until I lost my virginity then Maybe a dry spell of around 2 years max between long term partners.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Since being active (otherwise 19 years 2 month) about 8 months and that was in a relationship

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since being active (otherwise 19 years 2 month) about 8 months and that was in a relationship "

8 months with a body like that? You poor soul

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Half past three this afternoon. Starting to suffer withdrawal symptoms

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3-5 years, I gave up counting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

After losing my virginity...?

God knows. I was regularly having sex when I was 17... never really stopped...

Maybe a couple of miserable months?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Just over 2 yrs,while in the forces

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yep and the 4 years joined here to catch up "

I've been here 4 years too. This is getting spooky

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was around the year mark...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After I lost my V, maybe a couple of months? Not long. I enjoy sex too much!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After I lost my V, maybe a couple of months? Not long. I enjoy sex too much!! "

And you are a sexy women indeed good on you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How people can go on for years is what baffles me. But each to their own

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't a choice to go that long but never dated anyone or even met anyone over that time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

7 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here about a year

In the vanilla world about 3 weeks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About six months

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do the sexy ones on here go without it for years?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 and a half years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am currently in it, and it's long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/10/16 10:11:13]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16 years. From birth to first time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Since losing my virginity my longest period was 28 days of self imposed chastity for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months was the longest. Been 5 months so far this year which feels ages.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

About 2 and a half years, separation leading to divorce... I was going to be glib and say that I can really recommend divorce but on reflection I'll say that I really recommend choosing your life partner with care!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five years can't get enough now lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure, I don't hold on to things like that. It ended and I was glad that it did. Onwards and upwards

Beard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

10 months

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

Two months in the vanilla world. The responses are puzzling in so far as one would have thought that the membership of this site would be more disposed towards NSA sex between relationships.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I signed up to fab .... lmao

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not had sex till 25 years old which was 1991 then from 1997 till now 18 years and still not…this no lie its all true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad thread this anyone can get a fuck these days there's no excuse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad thread this anyone can get a fuck these days there's no excuse "

if that's true then i would of been happy but i do not lie. so where the proof

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably about six to eight weeks ish I think

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

can't remember!??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few months

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

October 2014 and counting!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About seven months after being together 6 months he had a bad car crash and certainly wasn't put to it so had to wait

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years..unbelievable but true

Her x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/10/16 19:45:50]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ony_W69Man
over a year ago

Richmond

I can see your 7 years & raise you another one!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last eight years of my marriage was sexless

When we split I was terrified the first time I had sex again because it had been that long I knew I'd be shit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 years spent trying to rebuild a marriage. She died and I began again. Tough now I am 83 years old. But still swinging.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years then I lost my virginity and haven't looked back since

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 yrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last eight years of my marriage was sexless

When we split I was terrified the first time I had sex again because it had been that long I knew I'd be shit "

But how good are you now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on

This should be interesting!!

Mine was six months."

15 months without any

Currently 3 years with the hubby

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

2 years for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last eight years of my marriage was sexless

When we split I was terrified the first time I had sex again because it had been that long I knew I'd be shit

But how good are you now "

Needs more practice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last eight years of my marriage was sexless

When we split I was terrified the first time I had sex again because it had been that long I knew I'd be shit

But how good are you now

Needs more practice "

I know what you mean, but am bloody good at oral

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inglenfreeMan
over a year ago

london


"How people can go on for years is what baffles me. But each to their own"
. Don't be baffled. I was widowed and have only had 1 meet in two years. So once in two years. Still trying to get a second meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

October 2014

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York

Male half here 7 years was my longest without when I was younger from 21 to 28 years old good reason for it thro

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

In the 8 years I've been swinging - 2 weeks is my longest.

Before that, a rather sad story actually. My ex was my first and only fuck - lost my virginity at 21 to him (yes, that late !) and he was my only sex partner for 5 years (including 3 years of marriage). Sex would be sporadic, perhaps 2 times a month.

Have done my best to catch up since then but don't think I've gotten my due share ...... yet ! LOL

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Five years.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"35 years spent trying to rebuild a marriage. She died and I began again. Tough now I am 83 years old. But still swinging."

Get in that man, legend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"How do some of you cope? Is it blocked from your mind? Or do you just pleasure yourself?"

After my marriage ended I concentrated on my daughters. They had two parents who adored them but they needed to feel secure. They were my priority, sex was the last thing on my mind.

I have three well adjusted happy, educated, loving daughters with families of their own. My "sacrifice" paid dividends.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"35 years spent trying to rebuild a marriage. She died and I began again. Tough now I am 83 years old. But still swinging.

Get in that man, legend

"

And he has verifications...take note whingers!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"35 years spent trying to rebuild a marriage. She died and I began again. Tough now I am 83 years old. But still swinging.

Get in that man, legend

And he has verifications...take note whingers!"

Damn right.

The next time some snot nosed "entitled" twonk opens a poor me thread I shall point it out.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go on

This should be interesting!!

Mine was six months."

0 - 19...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Well i had ny first kissing girlfriend aged 6 (only Kissing! Good God folks i was 6!!!).

So 7 years from 28 to 35. Thats when i started swinging to avoid going bonkers. (Some say i left it too long to avoid going bonkers but they are just mean!) Reasons are personal but lets say if one door closes you find the fire escape.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 6,7 or 8 months for me. A long dry spell. Luckily now it's raining (where's that cheesy music!)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be almost 2 years now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 hours

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Whilst in a relationship was 2 years, longest time without on here was 9 months purely because I couldn't find someone I was attracted to

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ubgirl66Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

I once went a week without having sex gawd in was difficult

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5yrs from aged 16 till 21

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"October 2014 and counting!"

Amended entry - 7th October 2016! Finally!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Too long, too often............!!! Droughts are too common around here...!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r havin a laughMan
over a year ago

Innerleithen

2 years 5 months, I suppose I was getting fucked though cos it was at "Her Majestys Pleasure"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over two years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years,

but i lost my virginity at that age.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first seventeen years "

my first 27

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"How do the sexy ones on here go without it for years?"

I know the OP is gone but it's not always by choice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

It was probably over 10 years. Can't remember exactly. The most dreadful time in my life. Sex was the last thing I was thinking of to be honest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Started in February this year. Not had any since then.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months and counting !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably over 10 years. Can't remember exactly. The most dreadful time in my life. Sex was the last thing I was thinking of to be honest."

10 years !wow .thats a very longtime . Im at 18'months which is ok but I do miss it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugatits76Woman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Wow I can't even go a week without sex and I'm single

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ony_W69Man
over a year ago

Richmond

Setting SatNav for Blackpool!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

48 hours..........had to work away from home one night

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate


"Not sure I could go six years lol

I can probably last a week"

that long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

9 months my longest

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top