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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi people, I'm new to posting and am not exact;y sure if this is posted in the correct forum, but here goes, apologies if it is.
The other day a couple asked me about what cuckolding was, and thought I would post my answer on here incase any other people have heard the term before, but weren't exactly sure what it was.
This is just intended to be a brief introduction, and not at all an exhaustive essay, and any one who would like to add their own views or points to the thread, please feel free. I would love to hear your thoughts and any advice or experiences you would like to discuss.
SO...
'Cuckolding' can involve many different things and basically it all comes down to the needs and desires of the couple.
Usually it involves a man who desires to see his wife satisfied by another lover other than himself, for various reasons.
The term Cuckolding, originally comes from the term cuckold, which was when a guys wife would cheat on him behind his back, and usually the husband didn't find out about it, then he would be known by people who knew about the affair as a cuckold, or that he was cuckolded.
Now the term has grown to encompass the whole sexual pastime where a husband actually wants his wife to take a new lover, and actively encourages her in the process, as it is a huge sexual turn on for the both of them.
Sometimes it can be because the husband feels he doesn't sexually satisfy his wife, and wants her to take another lover who can give her what she needs.
Sometimes it is just the thought of seeing his wife being fucked by another guy which is the turn on.
If a couple wants to find some one to regularly meet with the married women for sexual fun, the lover is often referred to as the 'Bull' or 'Stud', and the husband is called the 'Cuckold' or 'Cuck', and the wife is called the 'Cuckoldress'.
This is the very basics of what cuckolding actually is, but of course there can be many various activities involved within a couples individual situation.
Sometimes the wife will be the person in the driving seat when in a cuckolding relationship. Whereby she gets to choose what lovers she can take. Often this extends to the wife being the dominant figure in the relationship, with her husband being submissive to her wants.
Sometimes when this is the case the wife will actively try to humiliate her husband (usually with his consent and encouragement), either privately or publicly, depending on what they enjoy as a couple.
This can range from something as small as telling her husband how much of a superior lover her Bull is compared to her 'little limp dicked husband', to the extreme where sometimes the husband is denied all sexual access to his wife by keeping his penis locked in a chastity device for extended time periods, and now she chooses only to fuck her Bull.
A lot of submissive cuckold husbands enjoy pleasing or servicing their Cuckoldress and her bull in various ways, submitting to the wants of his wife and her lover.
One popular activity is called 'cleaning up' which usually means the cuckold husband licking his wifes pussy clean after her Bull has just come inside her, with the husband enjoying eating another mans spunk from her pussy.
However every cuckold relationship is different, sometimes the husband chooses what lovers she will take, or they decide together as a couple, and the whole relationship is a just a regular marriage where the wife occasionally has extra lovers.
Sometimes the husband enjoys seeing his wife being fucked, other times couples prefer that the wife meet alone with her lover, and then later she tells her husband about how her meet went.
As you can see a Cuckolding relationship is as individual as the couple, and entirely based on their wants and desires. It can be a very extreme relationship in some cases, but often it is quite tame and little more than a horny husband enjoying watching his wife fucking another guy from time to time.
Obviously I haven't covered all the finer aspects of cuckolding, and I don't pretend to be an expert on the matter anyway, but I hope this gives you a basic idea into what Cuckolding is generally regarded as in this day and age.
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