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is their any genuine ppl on here

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By *indzngary OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

weve been on here for months both as a couple and a single female, but never find a genuine ppl that would meet up with us so is their any genuine ppl on here ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is, i am genuine but pointless us chatting as we are so far away from each other

Try socials and clubs

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"weve been on here for months both as a couple and a single female, but never find a genuine ppl that would meet up with us so is their any genuine ppl on here ????????"

I am a real person. But due to you profile would never choose to speak to you, as you are nit interested in a male on his own. but there are real people here you just have to find them. x

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

genuine here too well last time we looked in mirror anyway

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I understand there was one in a week last Wednesday but then I think they deleted their account

but to answer the question - of course there are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, was definitely genuine the last time I checked!

Maybe the question should be "But are you"

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

You are one couple out of many who are looking for the elusive single bi female. They apparently are few and far between. Your location is also not very central, so . . . . Good luck.

Jane x

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness

genuine here too, but im starting to find myself, that there are a lot of people on here that are not so!!! i cant see a reson to join a site like this, moan about not getting meets, then when things look like they are sorted, bottle at the last minuite, and waste peoples time!!!

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By *indzngary OP   Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock


"genuine here too, but im starting to find myself, that there are a lot of people on here that are not so!!! i cant see a reson to join a site like this, moan about not getting meets, then when things look like they are sorted, bottle at the last minuite, and waste peoples time!!!"

yh this is wat we are finding ppl who arange to meet then dont why join if they have no intesion of meeting up or even arranging to meet if they aint gonna do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are one couple out of many who are looking for the elusive single bi female. They apparently are few and far between. Your location is also not very central, so . . . . Good luck.

Jane x"

There's no shortage of single bi females out there but, perhaps because they're always in demand, there's no great need for them to advertise their availability on the internet.

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By *xxmale76xxxMan
over a year ago

inverness

i have managed to meet some really nice people on here! but have beenmessed around by more than i have met! inverness is a strange place full off strange people! nobody wants to meet anyone from inverness, but when you message people from outside off here, they tell me its too far lol! think i need to move lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have managed to meet some really nice people on here! but have beenmessed around by more than i have met! inverness is a strange place full off strange people! nobody wants to meet anyone from inverness, but when you message people from outside off here, they tell me its too far lol! think i need to move lol!"

There's plenty of aspiring swingers at Lossie and Kinloss but they're almost all men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first 9 months were great since then nothing except 20 odd arranged meets that didn't happen, either no shows or never heard from again after saying yes to a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are genuine people out there but these sites will always attract the time wasters and idiots, its just part and parcel of this type of site. I am afraid if you want to stay on here you have to sift the wheat from the chaff however long and laborious that is. Hope you manage to find what you are looking for. Still havent found what im looking for, the search continues lol

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By *sian_coupleukCouple
over a year ago

manchester

more time wasters than genuine ppl on here, many dont even read your profile and have crap profiles and expect meets as if we owe them just coz they message us saying fancy a shag etc...

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"My first 9 months were great since then nothing except 20 odd arranged meets that didn't happen, either no shows or never heard from again after saying yes to a meet "

Wow what is the world coming to when a sexy woman like yourself cannot get a meet. Are all the men gay or blind in your area?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"more time wasters than genuine ppl on here, many dont even read your profile and have crap profiles and expect meets as if we owe them just coz they message us saying fancy a shag etc..."

So do you fancy a fuck lol?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

This is interesting....

There are genuine swingers on here. I tend to find it goes in peaks and troughs on here...

There will be weeks that no one speaks to mee...then weeks where everyone does.

I think the best way is get yourself to a social or party at least initially.....

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

No - none of us are genuine and all verifications are made up...... It's all just a random system of computer generated entries, including all of these replies...

Of course there are - you've had a meet yourself, so you know it can happen. Location and age (possibly) may work against you, but there are people out there.. Try social events, clubs.. and take it all lightly and in the spirit of fun Or take a break (hide profile) and return again in a couple of months and see what happens then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IN my opinion this is simply another post where the poster hhas not been searching for profiles showing genuine people(if its fems there is plenty, it is a myth that theres elusive single bi-fems)...Iam sorry poster but there is one verify and not much else to go on....this would be worrying for single fems I would imagine to see a profile with so little on the outside.using the cam rooms may also help.And again, there is clubs and parties being held pretty frequently-check meets and events, do some research as it appears to me ur expecting women to fall into ur lap.Asking if there is any genuine people really does annoy me, from single men,single females, cpls...of course there is its why the scene is so popular.Hope I havent sounded mean but these posts are recurring too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im very genuine and also single bi female xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes !

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we are but get messed about alot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a silly question, why question all people when you only want women? You have an age range of 18-33 and won’t meet smokers, so you’ve pretty much narrowed your chances of meeting any before you’ve even begun.

Meeting couples would greatly increase your chances even if it’s just for fem-fem fun, but since you don’t want to do that there’s no point questioning if people are genuine when 98% of the site are probably outside you’re preferences and that’s before taking distance into things.

Good luck though, it’s best sticking to what you want on here, but there’s no point complaining or questioning whether people are genuine when you’re in effect searching for a needle in a haystack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IN my opinion this is simply another post where the poster hhas not been searching for profiles showing genuine people(if its fems there is plenty, it is a myth that theres elusive single bi-fems)...Iam sorry poster but there is one verify and not much else to go on....this would be worrying for single fems I would imagine to see a profile with so little on the outside.using the cam rooms may also help.And again, there is clubs and parties being held pretty frequently-check meets and events, do some research as it appears to me ur expecting women to fall into ur lap.Asking if there is any genuine people really does annoy me, from single men,single females, cpls...of course there is its why the scene is so popular.Hope I havent sounded mean but these posts are recurring too much."

I wouldn't have been so restrained: these types of threads annoy me too, so I'll just *nod in agreement*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are lots of help posts, mainly by single guys, maybe you should read a few, your profile does need work, and your only looking for single girls do you know the chances of that??

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"IN my opinion this is simply another post where the poster hhas not been searching for profiles showing genuine people(if its fems there is plenty, it is a myth that theres elusive single bi-fems)...Iam sorry poster but there is one verify and not much else to go on....this would be worrying for single fems I would imagine to see a profile with so little on the outside.using the cam rooms may also help.And again, there is clubs and parties being held pretty frequently-check meets and events, do some research as it appears to me ur expecting women to fall into ur lap.Asking if there is any genuine people really does annoy me, from single men,single females, cpls...of course there is its why the scene is so popular.Hope I havent sounded mean but these posts are recurring too much.

I wouldn't have been so restrained: these types of threads annoy me too, so I'll just *nod in agreement*. "

dont have to read them.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try meeting couples just for fem on fem. the guys sit back and watch the fun.. we had problems with time wasters too. but recently things were all good. good things come to those that wait.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"weve been on here for months both as a couple and a single female, but never find a genuine ppl that would meet up with us so is their any genuine ppl on here ????????"
there is some indeed

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"weve been on here for months both as a couple and a single female, but never find a genuine ppl that would meet up with us so is their any genuine ppl on here ????????"

Ok if you limit the search to scotland and 18-33 single women looking to meet couples that puts the returns at 100 who are verified and have a picture of some kind.

So then I've no idea on travel time so you can probably know off a further 25-50%, for travel.

The return search of single women looking for couples after a fem returns 300, but thats the limit of the basic search, the actual could be over 1000 or more. So those single fems have alot of choice.

If I was a single fem, I would not contact anyone with no public photos. I would need to know if there was some attraction even if it was only a body shot.

I'm not trying to be mean, but everthing is a competition in life and selling your profile on here with more detail may help as may 1 or 2 public pics, as the lady will need to have some attraction to the both of you. A quick glance at the moment would favour other couples who have more about what they like. But thats the way I would look, others may be different.

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By *acmushCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We are genuine We would definately recommend a meet at a swingers club, if you get a no-show you can still have fun.

Mush & Mac

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is. We are a very genuine couple who have enjoyed several meets with single ladies.

Must say tho it did take a lot of patience and chatting to find them.

The quote that single bi-females are like "rocking horse shit" isn't totally true but alas as a female they are understandably cautious about meeting and shagging all in one day.

Just keep trying they are there xxxx

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


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Ok if you limit the search to scotland and 18-33 single women looking to meet couples that puts the returns at 100 who are verified and have a picture of some kind.

So then I've no idea on travel time so you can probably know off a further 25-50%, for travel.

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ran a search based on verified non-smoking women in their age range in Scotland, who can travel and are looking for couples and only returned 59 (of whom over a third haven't logged on for at least 2 months)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ran a search based on verified non-smoking women in their age range in Scotland, who can travel and are looking for couples and only returned 59 (of whom over a third haven't logged on for at least 2 months)"

send me the list...of course do some more research on those who smoke and aint single....am greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

"

what is an odd sort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

what is an odd sort? "

Stick around a little longer and you'll find out I'm surprised you haven't already!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

what is an odd sort?

Stick around a little longer and you'll find out I'm surprised you haven't already!"

explain, then I know what to look out for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

what is an odd sort?

Stick around a little longer and you'll find out I'm surprised you haven't already!

explain, then I know what to look out for. "

Oh gosh, well people who get upset when you're meeting other people as well, people who get stroppy when you don't reply within 5 minutes of reading their mail, people who get inappropriate and say the type of things you'd usually reserve for a partner, people who get abusive when you don't want to meet. Just a few things off the top of my head!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

what is an odd sort?

Stick around a little longer and you'll find out I'm surprised you haven't already!

explain, then I know what to look out for.

Oh gosh, well people who get upset when you're meeting other people as well, people who get stroppy when you don't reply within 5 minutes of reading their mail, people who get inappropriate and say the type of things you'd usually reserve for a partner, people who get abusive when you don't want to meet. Just a few things off the top of my head! "

obviously, I have not been here long enough or just luck up to now. Never met these odd sorts, as yet.

I have heard about guys being jealous when they here that some that they have met is meeting someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first 9 months were great since then nothing except 20 odd arranged meets that didn't happen, either no shows or never heard from again after saying yes to a meet "

As recent newbie overwhelmed with messages and not able to answer all of them

I get the feeling that people don't try again over time, somtime timing is everything

I have meet a few people already but will always get the " your not genuine or a timewaster " becuase you just can't meet everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"obviously, I have not been here long enough or just luck up to now. Never met these odd sorts, as yet.

I have heard about guys being jealous when they here that some that they have met is meeting someone else. "

I'm sure you'll get your fair share

But to answer the OP's question, yes of course there are genuine people on here. The site wouldn't exist if it was just a few hundred thousand people all dodging real meets. It just takes a little patience and time get to know folks, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lots of real nice people and yes a few odd sorts ! xx

what is an odd sort?

Stick around a little longer and you'll find out I'm surprised you haven't already!

explain, then I know what to look out for.

Oh gosh, well people who get upset when you're meeting other people as well, people who get stroppy when you don't reply within 5 minutes of reading their mail, people who get inappropriate and say the type of things you'd usually reserve for a partner, people who get abusive when you don't want to meet. Just a few things off the top of my head! "

om god there is so much of that, they just go on my ever growing blocked list

Just have to hold out out and there are some great people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just have to hold out out and there are some great people out there

"

Yes, some really lovely ones who make up for the ones you end up blocking!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Just have to hold out out and there are some great people out there

Yes, some really lovely ones who make up for the ones you end up blocking! "

Alot of the real friendly people will aways seem to be far away, but stick with it, the real people close to you will find you as you will also find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just have to hold out out and there are some great people out there

Yes, some really lovely ones who make up for the ones you end up blocking! "
oops and forget to give you your prezzie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just have to hold out out and there are some great people out there

Yes, some really lovely ones who make up for the ones you end up blocking! oops and forget to give you your prezzie "

who gets a prezzie and what is it mm

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