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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

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over a year ago

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

No because it wouldn't feel right. I want to be with someone because they want to be with me for who I am not my wallet.

Also I believe that sex is a two way thing, mutual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

I pay for toys then shove them in a drawer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past, when I was single, lonely, in a new area and had gone a long time without any, I did. Fulfilled a need at the time. Jobs a good 'un.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Good question... Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Yes I have done in the past, always been fun

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

No, never. I do this for fun because I enjoy it, I have met escorts but no money was ever exchanged. If I went to a meet and they said that'll be £50 or whatever, I'd just jump in the car and bugger off.

FAB IS FOR FUN NOT FINANCIAL GAIN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because soon money is exchanged,became a business transaction!I am up for pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would yes because if I pay I dictate what happens

I think it would be great to have sex where I get exactly what I want with a guy I have chosen

You just can't get that on here because most guys I like turn me down plus you have to think about their needs too not just what you want if your not paying

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

No - I want a man to fuck me because he finds me attractive and wants to fuck me, not because I've paid him to.

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By *..strawbsNcreamCouple
over a year ago

SO31 Close to the waters edge... dip your toes x

I've looked into hiring a sexy ts for hubby and I to enjoy together. This place has some beautiful girls but getting no where with our desires to share a mf/ts. Didn't find anywhere to actually book one through mind you, and Thiland is so bloody expensive

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules."

Why? where in fab rules does it say that if you use fab, you may not use escorts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single and wanted something specific then yes I would have no qualms about paying for it.

I wouldn't let any old random try to fix my car just because they didn't charge, I'd pay to get it done right by a professional. I see no difference in paying for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Hell no. Nothing against people in the profession but to me those that use these services are generally the lazy, or the inept.

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By *..strawbsNcreamCouple
over a year ago

SO31 Close to the waters edge... dip your toes x


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Hell no. Nothing against people in the profession but to me those that use these services are generally the lazy, or the inept. "

Really lol. Not that everyone isn't entitled to their opinion, but come on. For some, it's paying for exactly what they want and when they want it, taking away anything to do with kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would yes because if I pay I dictate what happens

I think it would be great to have sex where I get exactly what I want with a guy I have chosen

You just can't get that on here because most guys I like turn me down plus you have to think about their needs too not just what you want if your not paying "

I'd do whatever you want me to do without pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, as I don't need to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debating it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because you know you are timed, it's a commercial transaction only and that they probably have contempt for you anyway....also I doubt if they really.enjoy the sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Hell no. Nothing against people in the profession but to me those that use these services are generally the lazy, or the inept.

Really lol. Not that everyone isn't entitled to their opinion, but come on. For some, it's paying for exactly what they want and when they want it, taking away anything to do with kinks. "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done before and would certainly consider it again

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

I would as it's probably less complicated and safer than picking up a random guy off a site. They are regularly checked, safe sex and it's a business transaction (so there's no dramas).

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By *bermanMan
over a year ago

The North West


"No - I want a man to fuck me because he finds me attractive and wants to fuck me, not because I've paid him to."

He might consider you to be the most attractive woman in the world but in the world we live in money trumps that - whether its to put bread on the table or to buy a car for a six figure sum. That said as a woman can always get a guy albeit of different qualities I don't see the point of it from a woman's perspective. I accepted an extra payment to have sex with an Irish girl after giving her another strippergram the day after the first one and I thought she was bloody gorgeous...I'd never do it again though as felt bad after it!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Yes, if I needed to, but I don't need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done before and would certainly consider it again"

I'd like to hear more, it's not often you hear of women using male escorts and I'm genuinely interested in how it came about and what your experience was like

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"If I was single and wanted something specific then yes I would have no qualms about paying for it.

I wouldn't let any old random try to fix my car just because they didn't charge, I'd pay to get it done right by a professional. I see no difference in paying for sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets not forget how women dont need to pay lol

Would i pay, depends how good its going to be i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well men have to pay for sex in some kind of way. A lot do the wine and stuff ....not me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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FAB IS FOR FUN NOT FINANCIAL GAIN."

could be wrong, but I think OP is asking a general question, not if you'd pay someone off Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, for me sex is as much about the other person enjoying it than just me.

To pay for it I think compromises the whole purpose of it IMO.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

sadly no OP for me it would be fake so it does not work for me which is a pity because some absolute stunning escorts have approach me in the past on other sites offering to let me dom them for a price.

I have nothing against such people and I treat them with respect but that sort of thing doesn't work for me sexual .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......"

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

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Well if you think that,makes me think how great you are in bed! I certainly don't fake it! If the guy isn't great I tell him! Why fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

Well if you think that,makes me think how great you are in bed! I certainly don't fake it! If the guy isn't great I tell him! Why fake?"

Im like a sponge and have seen it on the forums quite alot admitting having faked before and if you cum with everyone that would also make me question how great you are also

Id personally rather pay a woman to fake stuff than just be lied to

Of course its impossible to make everyone cum from a one off night

But that dont stop them coming back for round 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

Well if you think that,makes me think how great you are in bed! I certainly don't fake it! If the guy isn't great I tell him! Why fake?

Im like a sponge and have seen it on the forums quite alot admitting having faked before and if you cum with everyone that would also make me question how great you are also

Id personally rather pay a woman to fake stuff than just be lied to

Of course its impossible to make everyone cum from a one off night

But that dont stop them coming back for round 2 "

Maybe you can't read propley! When I did say I would cum with every men!I said I stated I would tell him not fake it! I would like to see where you took your statistics from! 90% hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

Well if you think that,makes me think how great you are in bed! I certainly don't fake it! If the guy isn't great I tell him! Why fake?

Im like a sponge and have seen it on the forums quite alot admitting having faked before and if you cum with everyone that would also make me question how great you are also

Id personally rather pay a woman to fake stuff than just be lied to

Of course its impossible to make everyone cum from a one off night

But that dont stop them coming back for round 2

Maybe you can't read propley! When I did say I would cum with every men!I said I stated I would tell him not fake it! I would like to see where you took your statistics from! 90% hello!"

Properly is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like iv said, depends how good a fuk she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not right that biggest portion of women fake orgasms ?

Well if you think that,makes me think how great you are in bed! I certainly don't fake it! If the guy isn't great I tell him! Why fake?

Im like a sponge and have seen it on the forums quite alot admitting having faked before and if you cum with everyone that would also make me question how great you are also

Id personally rather pay a woman to fake stuff than just be lied to

Of course its impossible to make everyone cum from a one off night

But that dont stop them coming back for round 2

Maybe you can't read propley! When I did say I would cum with every men!I said I stated I would tell him not fake it! I would like to see where you took your statistics from! 90% hello!"

I aint getting sucked into a needless slanging debate as im not that bored ( yet )

But where did i say that anyones ever faked it with me ?

Im not the only person that has selective skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hired an escort once, it was shite, sex was better with then partner, what a waste of money

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes. Sometimes it would be nice to be gaurunteed a sure thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont make an escort blush hang up ya gloves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Yes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I openly support the sex trade (if they are in it willingly) but I personally would not use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules."

Whats it got to do with fab ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Would never go to a prositute.. would put me off how many men she sucked before me that day

I like intimacy best when there is a connection and not a payment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules.

Whats it got to do with fab ? "

You're not allowed to use pay for sex services from a meet on fab. Escorting and prostitution are against the rules on here

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

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Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules.

Whats it got to do with fab ?

You're not allowed to use pay for sex services from a meet on fab. Escorting and prostitution are against the rules on here"
is that in a court of law lol yes there is no place for that on fab. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

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People think they are though

There is a huge difference between sex workers and victims of abuse

Not all sex workers are pimped out some actually do it off their own backs and work for nobody but themselves

Don't confuse the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

Some do it willingly. Look at porn stars and camera models. Even escorts on a certain website are all self employed. Pimping is bad and wrong, but willingly selling your body wwithout coercion is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never go to a prositute.. would put me off how many men she sucked before me that day

I like intimacy best when there is a connection and not a payment"

How do you know how may men a woman off here had sucked before you that day

I could meet you at 8pm and had a 12 man gang bang the same morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never go to a prositute.. would put me off how many men she sucked before me that day

I like intimacy best when there is a connection and not a payment

How do you know how may men a woman off here had sucked before you that day

I could meet you at 8pm and had a 12 man gang bang the same morning "

*passes a tooth brush, tooth paste and mouth wash*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never go to a prositute.. would put me off how many men she sucked before me that day

I like intimacy best when there is a connection and not a payment

How do you know how may men a woman off here had sucked before you that day

I could meet you at 8pm and had a 12 man gang bang the same morning

*passes a tooth brush, tooth paste and mouth wash* "

Nah I'm not that lucky

Was just saying

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I personally haven't used a male escort but would have no moral issue or hesitation using one if the need arose. Thank goodness Fab has some sexy hot guys so why pay for something I can get for free. That said, one of my best mates she's a full time escort and lives a good life and NO, she's not a victim she does it on her own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally haven't used a male escort but would have no moral issue or hesitation using one if the need arose. Thank goodness Fab has some sexy hot guys so why pay for something I can get for free. That said, one of my best mates she's a full time escort and lives a good life and NO, she's not a victim she does it on her own. "
think il go back to reading my bible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the past yes and would be happy to pay again if needed to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Specifically for dominatrix sesh

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By *ixFoot2nFun4UMan
over a year ago

gosport

I learnt from one meet that they were also on an escort site, you know the adult one.

I have now taken to cross checking this site with that one. If they are on both i personally avoid and dont approach them.

I dont have an issue with the sex trade but i would prefer to have a meet from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules.

Why? where in fab rules does it say that if you use fab, you may not use escorts?"

i thought this, I didnt realise fab now controls my private life lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No

Nothing against working guys and girls. Just wouldn't be for us.

It's also very much against Fab rules.

Why? where in fab rules does it say that if you use fab, you may not use escorts?

i thought this, I didnt realise fab now controls my private life lmao"
sex sex sex lets rock n roll.we appreciate the sex industry free or other ..well we all love a freebie *back to my bible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......"

Talk about stereotyping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt from one meet that they were also on an escort site, you know the adult one.

I have now taken to cross checking this site with that one. If they are on both i personally avoid and dont approach them.

I dont have an issue with the sex trade but i would prefer to have a meet from here."

But if they approach you on here you are having a meet from here

Or are you saying if a woman is an escort but also uses this site to meet guys in here own time for her own pleasure you wouldn't meet her because she's an escort in her working time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because soon money is exchanged,became a business transaction!I am up for pleasure! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done before and would certainly consider it again

I'd like to hear more, it's not often you hear of women using male escorts and I'm genuinely interested in how it came about and what your experience was like"

I used a female escort. It was to join a male friend and I a few years back. We chose that route as it was easy to arrange and we knew we would get what we wanted. The girl was lovely, we all had a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmmm now there's an idea

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Talk about stereotyping "

yeah i know i read that too and though, she can not be serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used escorts in the past to try things that my previous partner wouldn't, such as strapon, pegging and Bdsm. When receiving acts in the world of Bdsm it is important that the giver has some idea of what they are doing, otherwise your fantasy is often a disappointment. If you pay good money then you usually get a good service..

I also saw someone mentioning their TS fantasies here - ts escorts are often a good way to try that as their quality is usually high (London Manchester & Birmingham are the UK hot spots)

It also taught me a lot about the skills I wanted to learn too so there are upsides.

However straight sex is usually bland with an escort and you find yourself wishing you'd just blown off your steam by yourself. .

Live and let live I say. There are a few escorts on here but from what I see they use the site for personal pleasure, not business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Not the place for this talk and against fab rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to i spend minimum £35 max 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a mean to a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Not the place for this talk and against fab rules"

No it's not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

i have escorted...its fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Not the place for this talk and against fab rules

No it's not...."

I wasnt awear that talking about escort's was against the rules either

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Not the place for this talk and against fab rules

No it's not....

I wasnt awear that talking about escort's was against the rules either "

Maybe there was some kind of meeting while we weren't here

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over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Not the place for this talk and against fab rules

No it's not....

I wasnt awear that talking about escort's was against the rules either

Maybe there was some kind of meeting while we weren't here "

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......"

Have to agree with Lusty there is a world of difference between an escort & prostuite, an escort is usually a throughly regular health screened sex worker / business women & a prostuite lives off her wits on the street & prone to drugs drink & usually poor hygiene.

Yes both provide sex for pay but the difference is like eating at Joe's cafe or dining in a nice restaurant...like anything in life you get what you pay for.

A guy could pay £50 to get into a club where he is not guaranteed sex or a definite quick shag for the same amount with an escort...both places provide a place for implied sex but one is the more genuine in terms of the persons needs.

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

As long as everyone involved is a consenting adult then yes, why not?

I'm sure the plumber who fixes my toilet would rather be at home with the family but nobody thinks he is a victim.

If I'm horny and can get guaranteed hassle free sex for a fee I can afford then everybody else's opinion is irrelevant.

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By *teph-SammieCouple (FF)
over a year ago

just visiting :)

Actually find it strange its frowned upon so much yet the porn industry ( where people get paid to have sex, often with actors they haven't met before ) is widely acceptable....

Double standards surely ?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Actually find it strange its frowned upon so much yet the porn industry ( where people get paid to have sex, often with actors they haven't met before ) is widely acceptable....

Double standards surely ?"

We get it in the neck just as much being in porn lol, a lot of the people here are very moralistic even though they swing which is equally just as jaded to normal society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've thought about this a lot, both using one and becoming one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......"

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster..."
i bet99% of blokes on here have paid for lapdance table dance or massage at some stage maybe a stripper Lol ITS LIFE!!!

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

this is one hundred percent true

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster..."

Swinging is lumped into the sex industry because its big business these days & being paid or not to have multiple sexual partners doesn't determine a person's character...does it ?

It would be like the church saying all swingers are doing this because of drug habits their social standing living conditions or they being forced into illicit sex acts by others. You have to agree this moralistic attitude would be thought of as crazy to us so spare a thought for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem..it is also an adicktion...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster...

Swinging is lumped into the sex industry because its big business these days & being paid or not to have multiple sexual partners doesn't determine a person's character...does it ?

It would be like the church saying all swingers are doing this because of drug habits their social standing living conditions or they being forced into illicit sex acts by others. You have to agree this moralistic attitude would be thought of as crazy to us so spare a thought for others. "

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By *errible2sumCouple
over a year ago

london

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have. Just the once.

Before we really got into swinging, we were wary about the dynamic of adding another person to our sexlife. Having never been in the position before.

We wanted to make 100% sure that we could handle seeing each other focusing attention on another person.

And rather than jump in with both feet in a club and risk complicated feelings surface, also put another persons feelings at risk, we paid for a professional.

We researched it thoughly, looked at 100's of independant escorts. Rang several to discuss our requirements before making our selection.

It certainly did'nt come cheap, but considered it an investment....it would either kill or cure the swinging desire.

It was a very positive experience and gave us the impetus to get involved with the scene.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster..."

I have to agree

I have no idea where people get the idea that escorts are clean and get checked regular

Your just as likely to meet a dirty person in any walk of life being an escort does not mean you shower regular and get regular checks just as being a street walker means you don't get checked

Also not sure where this escort/prostitute thing is coming from either, if you charge for sex your a prostitute regardless of if your pick guys up off the street or advertise on a site, its different names for the same things

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

you pay for sex with a prostitute, a escort you pay for their time. not all escorts have sex with their clients.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wanted an escort when I was younger but could never afford one

I had to settle for a fiesta but it was never the same

We are talking about cars aren't we ?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster...

I have to agree

I have no idea where people get the idea that escorts are clean and get checked regular

Your just as likely to meet a dirty person in any walk of life being an escort does not mean you shower regular and get regular checks just as being a street walker means you don't get checked

Also not sure where this escort/prostitute thing is coming from either, if you charge for sex your a prostitute regardless of if your pick guys up off the street or advertise on a site, its different names for the same things "

Charging for swinging parties is classed as prostitution or living off immoral earnings to the council so are these the same too...

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


" Charging for swinging parties is classed as prostitution or living off immoral earnings to the council so are these the same too..."

You absolutely sure about that from the legal point of view?

Have you tried reporting any of these clubs operating in plain sight or the council that seem to avoid getting arrested for opening committing a criminal offence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......

Sorry, but this is the most uninformed trash I have ever read. Just because someone calls themselves and "escort" makes them no cleaner, no safer and no less likely to have a drug problem...

That's like calling a Ford Focus a Porche 911 and expecting it to be able to go faster...

I have to agree

I have no idea where people get the idea that escorts are clean and get checked regular

Your just as likely to meet a dirty person in any walk of life being an escort does not mean you shower regular and get regular checks just as being a street walker means you don't get checked

Also not sure where this escort/prostitute thing is coming from either, if you charge for sex your a prostitute regardless of if your pick guys up off the street or advertise on a site, its different names for the same things

Charging for swinging parties is classed as prostitution or living off immoral earnings to the council so are these the same too..."

Depends if the women are getting a cut of the entry free

If I go to a party and the organisers charges £50 a head but I don't get paid a penny then no I wouldn't see myself as the same, I'd see myself as a twat for shagging a load of men for free who paid £50 a head to come in but that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery "

Blow job for a fiver ? Would they accept tobacco ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its making a woman money and shes happy with her choices then fuk it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery

Blow job for a fiver ? Would they accept tobacco ?"

No idea, I just pulled that number up off the top of my head as that's the opinion most seem to have about 'prostitute's'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery

Blow job for a fiver ? Would they accept tobacco ?

No idea, I just pulled that number up off the top of my head as that's the opinion most seem to have about 'prostitute's' "

The tobacco was a joke lol, id never ask that in seriousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery

Blow job for a fiver ? Would they accept tobacco ?

No idea, I just pulled that number up off the top of my head as that's the opinion most seem to have about 'prostitute's'

The tobacco was a joke lol, id never ask that in seriousness"

I would if I though I could get a good licking for half an ounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery

Blow job for a fiver ? Would they accept tobacco ?

No idea, I just pulled that number up off the top of my head as that's the opinion most seem to have about 'prostitute's'

The tobacco was a joke lol, id never ask that in seriousness

I would if I though I could get a good licking for half an ounce "

A rolli and its a deal lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Never paid an escort but I did date one for a brief few months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just call a spade a spade that's all

Escorts are prostitute if they have having sex with the guys who pay them

They are no better than anybody else

And I'm not calling anybody because I work in sex clubs, I don't pick guys up off the street and I don't give a blow job for a fiver but what I do is still prostitution, I'm no better than anybody else because of how I choose to work

I just don't like snobbery "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, I've paid guys before. I don't see a problem with paying to get exactly what you want.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Wouldn't pay as I'm always broke lol. I do think though that I can find whatever Im looking for anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - I want a man to fuck me because he finds me attractive and wants to fuck me, not because I've paid him to."

Exactly, you want your body to be wanted. Not money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bummer, I thought this was going to be about the retro Ford variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead right I have and would do it again n again lol and it's not against anyone's rules it's a free world plus cum on fellas with the I wouldent cos it wouldent be right or I want to be with someone who wants to be with me ha ha it's like them liars that say they don't wank give the girls a break oh and sum cash ha ha lol Jimmy the Geordie escort bashed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started off with a 1.3L and worked up to a rs turbo..... no wait...

Did get a bj off a stripper once I paid to get in so I guess I paid for the bj.

and in Amsterdam I saw a lovely black lady mmmm awesome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

WHO.

SAID.

THEY.

WERE ?

Are you warm enough dear ?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


" Charging for swinging parties is classed as prostitution or living off immoral earnings to the council so are these the same too...

You absolutely sure about that from the legal point of view?

Have you tried reporting any of these clubs operating in plain sight or the council that seem to avoid getting arrested for opening committing a criminal offence? "

I didn't say clubs just private house parties that charge a fee, why do i need to report anything anyway as im all for private enterprise & was just making the point none of us swingers are any different to other areas of the sex industry where fee's are taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

I would not pay since I think the best things in life are free. Adds the the bittersweet experience swinging is that way. And you can find whatever you want swinging, maybe not when you want it though

I do support others rights to pay for it though, if it works for them. It just is not for me.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Dead right I have and would do it again n again lol and it's not against anyone's rules it's a free world plus cum on fellas with the I wouldent cos it wouldent be right or I want to be with someone who wants to be with me ha ha it's like them liars that say they don't wank give the girls a break oh and sum cash ha ha lol Jimmy the Geordie escort bashed lol"

I don't wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have paid for a prostitute but it was some time ago. It was quite an amusing experience. On a sexual level it was very disappointing. Just poor quality sex. No kissing or enjoyment for her. What's to like really?

She was Romanian and her English was poor. However it turned out she'd lived in Seville and spoke good Spanish so we had quite a conversation in Spanish (which I speak a bit of). Fascinating to hear about her life. She'd made a stack of cash and was heading back to Romania. Actually a really nice girl. Nothing like the stereotype of hard faced, exploited East European sex worker (although I'm not saying those don't exist).

I wouldn't repeat though.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I use punternet, just because its funny reading some of the bad reviews.. I have yet to out my hand in my pocket. Never say never, I have known an escort who was lovely and married a client

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

FAB IS FOR FUN NOT FINANCIAL GAIN.

could be wrong, but I think OP is asking a general question, not if you'd pay someone off Fab "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Why did you ask the question???? Going to presume by asking you are either considering or have.

Personally I'd call it a new LOW in life if you have to pay.

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over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Why did you ask the question???? Going to presume by asking you are either considering or have.

Personally I'd call it a new LOW in life if you have to pay."

Firstly I never have and never will but that statement is quite ignorant. It's the world's oldest profession because some men and woman need that service and always will. Calling it a new low is a snotty attitude to have when in many countries it's legal and no different to getting a haircut.

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over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Why did you ask the question???? Going to presume by asking you are either considering or have.

Personally I'd call it a new LOW in life if you have to pay.

Firstly I never have and never will but that statement is quite ignorant. It's the world's oldest profession because some men and woman need that service and always will. Calling it a new low is a snotty attitude to have when in many countries it's legal and no different to getting a haircut."

Just an opinion dude and a lot of women in modern society wouldn't be too happy knowing their man has had to pay for it

Low: if you previously never had to pay for it , what else is it??????

Doesn't matter if it's a only just been thought of; it reflects an animal instinct.

Snotty attitude.... Good it's staying and I'm not climbing down from it.

If you don't like peoples answers then don't ask questions you're not likely to want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Why did you ask the question???? Going to presume by asking you are either considering or have.

Personally I'd call it a new LOW in life if you have to pay.

Firstly I never have and never will but that statement is quite ignorant. It's the world's oldest profession because some men and woman need that service and always will. Calling it a new low is a snotty attitude to have when in many countries it's legal and no different to getting a haircut.

Just an opinion dude and a lot of women in modern society wouldn't be too happy knowing their man has had to pay for it

Low: if you previously never had to pay for it , what else is it??????

Doesn't matter if it's a only just been thought of; it reflects an animal instinct.

Snotty attitude.... Good it's staying and I'm not climbing down from it.

If you don't like peoples answers then don't ask questions you're not likely to want. "

and strangely enough I do know an escort who I used to be VERY good friends with n here. Nice girl, but we don't speak about what she does, and she's on this site and I've even photographed her professionally and have her in my portfolio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been in two long term relationships that covered a large part of my life and been single for a few years I have met five escorts. One is fairly local and I have seen her perhaps 5/6 times over a year. Lovely woman personality wise...relaxed..fun...pretty next door type...good figure...and the biggest and best bust I've ever handled...half my age too. Will certainly see her again. Would not do it if I was in a relationship...but i have a gap in my life so thought I'd give it a go..glad I did too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Why did you ask the question???? Going to presume by asking you are either considering or have.

Personally I'd call it a new LOW in life if you have to pay.

Firstly I never have and never will but that statement is quite ignorant. It's the world's oldest profession because some men and woman need that service and always will. Calling it a new low is a snotty attitude to have when in many countries it's legal and no different to getting a haircut.

Just an opinion dude and a lot of women in modern society wouldn't be too happy knowing their man has had to pay for it

Low: if you previously never had to pay for it , what else is it??????

Doesn't matter if it's a only just been thought of; it reflects an animal instinct.

Snotty attitude.... Good it's staying and I'm not climbing down from it.

If you don't like peoples answers then don't ask questions you're not likely to want.

and strangely enough I do know an escort who I used to be VERY good friends with n here. Nice girl, but we don't speak about what she does, and she's on this site and I've even photographed her professionally and have her in my portfolio. "

I never asked the question just disagree with your comments. Its an old fashioned reaction to tar everyone with the same brush. Some people might want to have regular sex when they want it but not have time for a relationship. Does this make them low?

Don't want to get into a huge debate. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always wanted an escort when I was younger but could never afford one

I had to settle for a fiesta but it was never the same

We are talking about cars aren't we ?

"
stickypages ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an opinion dude and a lot of women in modern society wouldn't be too happy knowing their man has had to pay for it"

I wouldn't have a problem with it. It shows that he knows what he wants and would rather not waste his time pissing around on sites like this to get the particular thing that he wants.

Same reason as I pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?

Hell no. Nothing against people in the profession but to me those that use these services are generally the lazy, or the inept. "

There actually not some have kinks that they don't want to go home and ask the wife to do. Some don't have wife's/gfs and want to feel the closeness of someone and not just there hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a common misconception that escorts provide a service for people who can't get a shag any other way, and while I'm sure some of their clients do fall into that category, I assume they mainly appeal to people looking for convenience, last minute meets, a particular appearance or kink and such like. That's certainly been my experience of using escorts.... we wanted a girl to join us one night, quite last minute, with no hassles or awkwardness (I was still 'curious') so we hired a professional. There's no shame in that at all and I certainly don't see it as a low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no way when you know that most of them have issues or addictions that you should find it horny handing moolaa to someone that just sees you as a earner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're far to stingy to pay..

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

Most use them to save time and it's just a call away. Business men away for the week rich guys more money than sense are another. The moral issue is the payment is for your time and expenses that's the normal line. Trans do it with two excuses to justify it most common the money is towards my boob job. The other one is because it's difficult for them to find jobs. Fab is a fun site and everyone is allowed to have fun if someone operates as an escort outside of fab then what's the issue. It's only if they operate arranging on fab that's against the rules. Anyone here that says they would not get paid to meet a random stranger for sex well there a liar because your just doing exactly the same every time you meet for free.

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By *horley ChickWoman
over a year ago

Chorley


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Possibly - if I was older and still single (and a damned sight richer than I am now!) - and no longer able to shag guys I find really attractive without paying for it!

Hoping that time never comes though (except the 'damned sight richer' bit!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

"

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out "

So could anyone on here. What's your point?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I personally wouldn't but I don't judge those who do.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

I get off on giving genuine pleasure to a sexual partner - for most working girls I imagine that having a pleasurable experience isn't high on their list of experiences. Hence for me escorts have always been a no go area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out "

So could a swinger you meet on here no?! Why does her being an escort mean she has any of those issues?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could anyone on here. What's your point?"

Exactly!

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By *uffnsmovCouple
over a year ago

Leeds/Wakefield


"To all the men who pay for sex, come with us and we will pimp you out for 12 months, then we'll ask you your opinion on paying for sex. You can pay for your own councilling and when you feel ready you can decide if you would like for your children upon reaching 18 to work for us.....

Not.

All.

Sex.

Workers.

Are.

Victims.

"

On a recent Sex Workers thread on a Punting/Escorts site I read that about 4 girl's whow worked as Escorts professed to be singers as well. And As a very avid ex-punter know of 3 girls I visited that were WG''s the consensus on this thread was if you love your hobby why not make it into a business. And good luck to them. Vicky is fully aware of my history and has no problem at all.It would however be strange if we met them via. FAB...I do wonder what would ensue

Onward and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to an escort three years ago and started to see here on a regular basis. however it wasn't just an escort client basis with sex, but we became and still are best friends. We see each now and again outside her working hours which includes going for walks and also inviting each other to our homes for meals. If I need sex I know I have to pay for it,but at least its guaranteed unlike this site where I can't get meets and most of the people on here are time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hookers and escorts on here isn't there? Only escort for me would be a rs turbo or xr3i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex is way more than a dick in a pussy, for me I need a connection and to know the person is enjoying it not enjoying counting my money

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Some of the self entitled messages I've had clearly think that the women here are free sex workers. Does it count when I tell then to go away and pay for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hookers and escorts on here isn't there? Only escort for me would be a rs turbo or xr3i "

I have a Sierra XR4i, but my Escort is only Ghia.

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By *i-shoptonMan
over a year ago

bishopton

Apologies if it's already been said but my fall back position has always been

" if it flies ,floats or fucks , then rent it !!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no way and never will. Rather have a wank then pay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the self entitled messages I've had clearly think that the women here are free sex workers. Does it count when I tell then to go away and pay for it?"

I've heard that from a lot of women here - men randomly offer them money for sex. I guess it must just be the "thrill" of getting a "regular" woman to turn a trick for you. I find it strange though, I'd rather connect with someone and have them want to do me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a difference between a escort and a prostuite ...escorts are clean and get checked requaly and play safe ,most enjoy there job other wise they would not do it and cost more than £50 ,they also do dinner dates as well and ,prostuite stand on street corners and most are on drugs and your more likely to catch somthing from them as they are not fussy who they shag ......"

I think you are quite quite wrong here. I know 'escorts' who work from home. They don't go out, escort gents to dinner etc. They have the men visit their homes... Half hour later they leave,with money exchanged. It all depends on what the individual likes to call themself. Escort, prostitute.. Same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out "

WTF

I seriously can not believe I just read that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of mixed opinions on here like

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out "

Yeah, cos EVERYONE on fab is as pure as the driven snow, where sex is the only vice, and everybody gets tested regularly.

Oh my word!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could anyone on here. What's your point?"

Nobody on here should be selling it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could anyone on here. What's your point?

Nobody on here should be selling it ...

"

I think everyone has a right to be on here escorts or not, the wo.en of fab are as fussy as the wind in a tropical cou try in any case so its not like the non escort women would be missing out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could a swinger you meet on here no?! Why does her being an escort mean she has any of those issues?!"

Crying out loud..it's not rocket science..anyone on here that is like that you avoid...some tosser needing his balls emptying that's happy to pay for it crack on...just don't tell me it's fucking great when ya potentially boffing a miscreant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could anyone on here. What's your point?

Nobody on here should be selling it ...

I think everyone has a right to be on here escorts or not, the wo.en of fab are as fussy as the wind in a tropical cou try in any case so its not like the non escort women would be missing out ?"

So this site should change its name to adultwowork then hahaha...

Hell no...keep the pros off tyvm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

So could anyone on here. What's your point?

Nobody on here should be selling it ...

I think everyone has a right to be on here escorts or not, the wo.en of fab are as fussy as the wind in a tropical cou try in any case so its not like the non escort women would be missing out ?

So this site should change its name to adultwowork then hahaha...

Hell no...keep the pros off tyvm "

You seem to be pretty well clued up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if those selling it are to be banished from fab then so should those willing to pay ?

I feel this somewhat seems like a witch hunt

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"Would you pay for the services of an escort or prostitute to enjoy pleasures that you cannot normally get ?"

Yes i have seen escorts for many years. If you want to know why it's all on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Crying out loud..it's not rocket science..anyone on here that is like that you avoid...some tosser needing his balls emptying that's happy to pay for it crack on...just don't tell me it's fucking great when ya potentially boffing a miscreant "

A miscreant is a person who has done something wrong or unlawful. So, I guess let those who live in glass houses throw the first stone or something.

BTW - I am not a tosser that needs his balls emptying, yet I have paid several times for sex. And the sex was fucking great. Sorry to shatter your glass house of illusions.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I hired an Escort once, fucking thing broke down on the motorway.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"No - I want a man to fuck me because he finds me attractive and wants to fuck me, not because I've paid him to."

Go on then, you twisted my arm !

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Sorry, this may have already been said (too much to Read!)

Is there really a lot of difference between paying to go to a swingers club and paying to guarantee sex?... talking from a male point of view here.

The majority of men will be going to a swingers club because they are looking for sex surely? So if you search for an escort online and really like the look of her, why not pay her to guarantee sex?

I personally don't do either!... I'm here to talk to women one on one and want a fuck buddy.

Because she could have a nasty drug habit..drink habit or just a nasty and only want ya money ..it's not hard to work out

Yeah, cos EVERYONE on fab is as pure as the driven snow, where sex is the only vice, and everybody gets tested regularly.

Oh my word!!!!"

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Wow. Lots if whore hating going on here.

I'm a sex worker and know of others on Fabs are too.

We are entitled to a private sex life outside of work. Just as IT folk play with computers or journalists read. Work is frequently very different to personal pleasure.

If you don't get that analogy and cast us all to the bowels of morality, then you should probably reassess your reasons for being on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Lots if whore hating going on here.

I'm a sex worker and know of others on Fabs are too.

We are entitled to a private sex life outside of work. Just as IT folk play with computers or journalists read. Work is frequently very different to personal pleasure.

If you don't get that analogy and cast us all to the bowels of morality, then you should probably reassess your reasons for being on a swinging site. "

Blooming right!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" not all escorts have sex with their clients. "

I can't imagine them lasting long in the business if they don't lol

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