FabSwingers.com forum: How does your man like you to dress ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like to know what you wear that does it every time for your man or what your dream outfit for a girl is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never wear short skirts or dresses or anything low cut .... I know Mr A would love me to show a bit more off but tough... I'll keep that for the bedroom lol x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

He usually tells me he likes anything I wear which is so sweet and obviously not the case. He did seem to really like the red dress last week though. He didn't take his eyes off of me all night. It was lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most men like me to be naked, probably coz i'm covered in tattoos and they like that.

i've started showing off my legs a lot this past year when going out and know guys like that hehe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I tend to think anything too revealing is too easy for them and not sexy !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tattoos are a kind of dress sense though arnt they!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Heaven when that happens.. Like to share where the dress is from and what style it is? I'm sure it's not just me that's curious. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now and then he says wear a nice bra, but he doesn't say otherwise.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Heaven when that happens.. Like to share where the dress is from and what style it is? I'm sure it's not just me that's curious. X"

It was just a cheapy from Boohoo. The front split shows off my tattoo when sitting down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tattoos are a kind of dress sense though arnt they!!"

yeah, i do feel a little bit 'dressed' when naked because of them.

i agree that showing too much isn't always good, it doesn't let mens' imaginations run wild about what you'd look like naked. but still love showing off my legs.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I dress how I want to, not for him, so this isn't something I'd even want to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's ever she is comfortable in....is never tell her what to wear and be pissed off if she didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my Mrs puts on a Tight short dress and heels it always turns me on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Describe the tight shirt dress she wears that turns you on most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32057

I dress for myself - though this always gets the desired effect

My current lover likes me in his oversized shirts and a pair of my own pretty knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress in whatever way I feel comfortable and whatever I want to dress like really.

However, my ex did like it when all I would show was a little cleavage, not too much but enough. He also didn't like other guys looking so I guess that's why he never liked what I wore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lingerie..lacey stuff, fishnets and heels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leather and lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Geeeeez touchy feminists on here right!! Go preach somewhere else please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For normal day to day life I dress pretty formally.

For fab meets my hubby loves slutty. The most revealing outfits possible.

We have a meet planned for the 15th and I have an outfit he will love - the most see thru blouse I have ever come across with a micro mini and heels. The mini is so short it barely covers the curve of my ass and of course no panties or bra will be worn. Lol

It should be fun wearing that out in public to meet our fab friends.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Feminine and girly in the daytime

Sexy and elegant when we go out

Less the better when we are in the house

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Interesting. ..some women dress for men...

Do men ever dress for women?? Apart from those who's mothers buy their clobber...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always black , and always slutty .

Never any underwear .

Stockings and suspenders .

Low cut top , short skirt just covering the top of my stockings .

I love it , he loves it , and people we meet love it too . It makes me me feel so good

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Interesting. ..some women dress for men...

Do men ever dress for women?? Apart from those who's mothers buy their clobber...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul tells me I look great all the time, which I highly doubt, but he seems to like it best when I'm dressed in 1950s dresses or in dresses that show off my cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. ..some women dress for men...

Do men ever dress for women?? Apart from those who's mothers buy their clobber..."

To be fair Paul does when we're on a date night he will ask for my input on which shirt to choose and we always clothes shop together and he asks my opinion.

Also I think the majority of men we have met on socials have dressed to impress as they are often looking great, well groomed and smelling good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For meets from here, I wear what I want. Fortunately my choices of lingerie and stockings and dresses and heels go down well.

My husband likes me to wear dresses and look like I've made a bit of an effort, which is my preferred look too so it works out well.

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By *arteeneWoman
over a year ago

aylesbury

Guys love me to dress classy and sexy nice heels and seamed stockings to go with a lovely dress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting. ..some women dress for men...

Do men ever dress for women?? Apart from those who's mothers buy their clobber..."

I have things I like my husband to wear, and he'll listen to me so yes, I think some do.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Hmmmm I dress for myself and my confidence nobody else's, however I am aware of certain outfits or styles that make wolf get all hot n bothered.

Good shoes or boots are a must

Good lingerie is a must

Any of my red dresses

Any of my vintage 1950s dresses (flare or wiggle)

A high waisted Pencil skirt and good blouse

And if I'm just dressing playfully for the bedroom, just to tease him. My tartan skirt.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"Interesting. ..some women dress for men...

Do men ever dress for women?? Apart from those who's mothers buy their clobber..."

Wolf knows a shirt and trousers does it for me, or even better a full formal tux if we have somewhere very special to go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab."

Ha same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

Ha same"

Each to their own but personally I see a relationship as a much more nuanced thing where continual trades and compromises from either side are necessary.

If he likes to see me out in a micro mini and see through top then I have no particular issue. In fact I love the effect on him and anyway get a thrill from knowing that I am at risk of flashing my pussy.

Goodness knows he invests in our relationship in many other ways.

So I have no problem here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now that's a spot on!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Mr loves "slutty". I oblige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

Ha same

Each to their own but personally I see a relationship as a much more nuanced thing where continual trades and compromises from either side are necessary.

Goodness knows he invests in our relationship in many other ways.

So I have no problem here."

It's not even a trade or compromise on my part . If my husband doesn't like what I am wearing , then neither do I . I spent so long in previous relationships with the attitude of I will wear what I like , and sod what he likes , and it showed . I look at pics from back then and I can't believe I was so frumpy !

I now feel confident , desired , sassy and sexy . So no problem at al, for me to wear what he likes to see me in , it's changed my life for the better and I am so grateful for that

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

Ha same

Each to their own but personally I see a relationship as a much more nuanced thing where continual trades and compromises from either side are necessary.

Goodness knows he invests in our relationship in many other ways.

So I have no problem here."

My partner likes me whatever I am wearing, same as I do him. I don't need to dress up or be someone else ..... I don't see that as an investment in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geeeeez touchy feminists on here right!! Go preach somewhere else please! "

I wasn't preaching at anyone. I will dress appropriately for the occasion but I won't be told what to wear. Never in any relationship I've had has my partner questioned what I've worn. They've always liked what I've worn because I wear things that I feel suit me.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Geeeeez touchy feminists on here right!! Go preach somewhere else please! "

Women aren't allowed to have an opinion unless its one that you agree with? Is that how it is now? I think we belong here as its a discussion forum.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Jay likes me in simple things, he cannot stand anything so i try and remember not to wear pink when hes here, he wouldnt say anything i just know he doesnt like it.

Sometimes i will wear something that i think is very ordinary and he might still be going about how lovely i looked the next week.

In the bedroom hes easy, warm, wet and naked. He just loves a naked woman.

I dont care what he wears but he has one pair of trousers that i think are hidious and ive told him i point blank refuse to go out with him in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

Ha same

Each to their own but personally I see a relationship as a much more nuanced thing where continual trades and compromises from either side are necessary.

Goodness knows he invests in our relationship in many other ways.

So I have no problem here.

My partner likes me whatever I am wearing, same as I do him. I don't need to dress up or be someone else ..... I don't see that as an investment in a relationship"

Oh lord

What a sanctimonious tight arse you sound.

Are you trying to say that there is nothing. Absolutely nothing you wear that he particularly likes?

If you are saying that then you are a lying sanctimonious tight arse.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"I've never dressed for a man in my life, not with my ex husband or long term partner and I certainly won't dress for some guy on Fab.

Ha same

Each to their own but personally I see a relationship as a much more nuanced thing where continual trades and compromises from either side are necessary.

Goodness knows he invests in our relationship in many other ways.

So I have no problem here.

My partner likes me whatever I am wearing, same as I do him. I don't need to dress up or be someone else ..... I don't see that as an investment in a relationship

Oh lord

What a sanctimonious tight arse you sound.

Are you trying to say that there is nothing. Absolutely nothing you wear that he particularly likes?

If you are saying that then you are a lying sanctimonious tight arse."

Wow! Why should you care? Or even dare to name call here .... I wear what I want because he respects me as my own person. If he likes it great. I wouldn't need to be with someone who doesn't love and respect me for who I am and be trying to make me conform to their ideal. Anger much??

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"I dress how I want to, not for him, so this isn't something I'd even want to find out"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry can I just say something.. This is a forum right so if you don't like the topic why bother giving negative opinions! Would you burst into someone's pvt conversation and impose your thoughts on them..

This is a bit of fun so if you do t like the topic bigger off somewhere that a topic suits you ...

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