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By *usthere4u OP   Man
over a year ago

North East

I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

drink and chat for me first, I'm never in a huge rush to fuck n go!!!!!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?"

Definitely have to have a drink and chat. It would be strange otherwise?

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By *usthere4u OP   Man
over a year ago

North East

I am curious how most op people react.. For some is waste of time.. Some just want to know eachother first... Speccialy if is a home meeting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat drink little flirt cautious touch kiss and see what response u get

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Oh for me it really has to be chilled,non rushed.

Drinks, chat, flirting ....

If someone is a clock watcher they're not for me!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Drink and a chat,I can't say I've ever jumped in with two feet before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?"

Always a social either wine bar or costa.

Most look nothing like their profile pics so it has to be done

If they are attractive ill tell them on the social I want to meet them again, not sure if say lets fuck though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually meet in a pub and have a few drinks, allow the flirtation to build up. Then invite him back to our house if it seems appropriate. Subsequent meets might involve dinner at our house, or attending a club together. Either way we always make an evening of it and have a nice time.

Mrs

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We usually meet in a pub and have a few drinks, allow the flirtation to build up. Then invite him back to our house if it seems appropriate. Subsequent meets might involve dinner at our house, or attending a club together. Either way we always make an evening of it and have a nice time.

Mrs"

Agreed - this is the best way to do so. One needs to break the ice and a quiet drink in a pub/ bar is the best way. Best to meet in neutral place. When I have met directly in a couples house - it can be a bit awkward at first

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By *olwaymanMan
over a year ago

penrith

What about those on here who have , " Not Meeting" or " Social meets only" on there profile , they'll meet you in a pub lead you on , buy your round or 2 or 3 , then sorry your not for us lol too many on here like that , sure meet , coffee unless you all walked/taxied to the pub your all breaking the law and a danger to others!

Coffee is best doesnt take long to know if you'll click , then onwards and upwards lol

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By *usthere4u OP   Man
over a year ago

North East

Tequila is a good helper..!can blame tequila

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social for me first and if we click then fun and lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about those on here who have , " Not Meeting" or " Social meets only" on there profile , they'll meet you in a pub lead you on , buy your round or 2 or 3 , then sorry your not for us lol too many on here like that , sure meet , coffee unless you all walked/taxied to the pub your all breaking the law and a danger to others!

Coffee is best doesnt take long to know if you'll click , then onwards and upwards lol "

A quick coffee isn't axactly an aphrodisiac. But a seduction over a bottle of wine - then a man will be glad he didn't stay home and masterbate!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"drink and chat for me first, I'm never in a huge rush to fuck n go!!!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on previous conversations before the meet and attraction!

Sometimes it's a chat and drink first and other times it's straight to kissing and playing when the front door closes X

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By *usthere4u OP   Man
over a year ago

North East


"It all depends on previous conversations before the meet and attraction!

Sometimes it's a chat and drink first and other times it's straight to kissing and playing when the front door closes X "
... Depends how hungry of him/her/ you are..

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By *heDevilsAngelCouple
over a year ago

Naughty

When I was on here as a single lady, was always a social first. A lot of them was just that too. So I'd always recommend a social so you can decide if u want to get naughty or not

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Depends on the person - their reaction to you and the "tension" of "the moment".

A drink is nice if you need to feel more comfortable as it give you time to chat and get to know each other a bit better.

But on other occasions just get down and dirty as quick as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really!

First meet is usually a social more times than not, a drink j and a good chat.

If it's a repeat then again, a bit of a chat first before undressing.

Though there has been a few meets where the cock gets pulled straight out!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I tend to have a social but round 2 there is little talking generally....

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Generally a social meet, usually a drink

I actually enjoy the flirting during a first meet

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By *usthere4u OP   Man
over a year ago

North East


"I tend to have a social but round 2 there is little talking generally.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're fully social swingers never just go straight at it

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We like to chat/flirt for a while first to get to know each other, we don't rush the social or the fun bit of a meet

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Has to be a few drinks and a chat. I can't stand quick half hour "fuck n run" meets. I want to feel relaxed and enjoy an evening of pleasure.

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?"

Socialise. Talk to me like you would if you bumped into me in a pub. Come out with 'hello let's fuck' and you get told to fuck off. Only a moron with no social skills would say that surely.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?

Socialise. Talk to me like you would if you bumped into me in a pub. Come out with 'hello let's fuck' and you get told to fuck off. Only a moron with no social skills would say that surely."

Well said x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Either a car meet if ive not spoken much .

..or a drink and chat ...

Better to be careful ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious usualy how people act on meetings... Is something like "hello let"s fuck?.. Or a bit of socialising... a drink before...?"

I've had both kinds of meetings. Met a couple off here and entered their hotel room, did not even have chance to sit down before being told to strip. On the other hand I met lots of people for socials, meeting them another day for fun.

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