FabSwingers.com forum: Should of stayed a fantasy?

By *erts NN OP Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Anyone acted out a fantasy and later regretted it? Should some things remain in fantasy land?

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By *aster C the kinksterMan
over a year ago

Darlington

This has been a question of mine before. What happens if a fantasy turns out to be a let down..and yet it had turned you on so much as just a thought?..

S..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so far. I guess I've been incredibly lucky. If I want to do something I tend to jump in feet first and crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you tried it and didn't like it strike it off your fantasy list and move on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ain't had that chance to judge one of mine yet

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I always figure I'll regret the stuff I haven't done more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to act out mine next thurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still have a few to try, but the ones I've done so far have turned out to be great!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

No, kind of builds the next level. Still I'm a kind of person who's clouds have silver linings, not linings have clouds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone acted out a fantasy and later regretted it? Should some things remain in fantasy land?"

Done some stuff we wouldn't do again , but no regrets .

Better to have tried it and know for sure its not gonna work , than to spend a lifetime wondering and never knowing

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

"I always figure I'll regret the stuff I haven't done more.

Exactly this!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've acted out a fantasy that didn't quite workout as I'd hoped but I don't regret it. I'm simply using the experience as a lesson for the next time I try it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've acted out a fantasy that didn't quite workout as I'd hoped but I don't regret it. I'm simply using the experience as a lesson for the next time I try it out

Always remain teachable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been lucky enough to live out a few of ours...

It helped confirm that one thing is an avenue we want to enjoy over and over!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yup. But it's better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't done.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been lucky enough to live out a few of ours...

It helped confirm that one thing is an avenue we want to enjoy over and over!"

We've yet to find that ' one thing ' ...

But when we do , like yourselves we will no doubt want to try it again and again too .

I guess it's just a matter of getting in touch with ones animalistic side and letting go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't have put it better guys!

Xxx

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I fantasized about being a taxi driver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you are getting turned on by a fantasy it'll likely drive you mad if you don't attempt it in reality. Most fantasies should stay in your imagination but you won't know that until you actually experience them.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"This has been a question of mine before. What happens if a fantasy turns out to be a let down..and yet it had turned you on so much as just a thought?..

S..xx"

You find another fantasy

H&S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone acted out a fantasy and later regretted it? Should some things remain in fantasy land?"

I don't regret it, but a 3some wasn't as good as the fantasy. 1 man women here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone acted out a fantasy and later regretted it? Should some things remain in fantasy land?

I don't regret it, but a 3some wasn't as good as the fantasy. 1 man women here

Same here - but I put that down to the two ladies I was with. They weren't into each other at all. Just one of a number of untruths. So my fantasy has now evolved from a FFM 3some to a good FFM 3some!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's not the fantasy that disappoints , it's the person you did it with if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the experience of a fantasy not working out, but I'm glad I had it since I got to know more about myself, and crucially what turns me on. There's always other fantasies

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