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By *ickeyandmouse OP   Couple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

It may have been discussed before, but the amount of ladies in the swing scene who are either bi or at least bi curious does surprise us. Or is it not out of proportion to the "vanilla" world out there. That is, are most women at least on the bi curious side but for whatever reason never get to explore it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Me too,it's made me look at women differently when I'm out now thinking how many are not completely straight,something that's never crossed my mind before joining here.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It's not just the ladies...

You'd be surprised at the amount of men that are bi or at least curious, they just won't admit it!

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"It's not just the ladies...

You'd be surprised at the amount of men that are bi or at least curious, they just won't admit it!"

I don't mind admitting I like one in my mouth.. But you are correct, I wonder just how many men if they knew they would never be found out would try it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says straight on my profile and I always thought of myself as a manly man yet since being on here I did become curious as to what it would feel like to have a man fuck me and it happened last week I met this guy no kissing or stuff like that I gave him a bj then I took his cock in my arse I did enjoy it at the time but whether id do it again I doubt it but never say never, I tried my curiosity but being with a man does not even come close to being with a woman

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"It's not just the ladies...

You'd be surprised at the amount of men that are bi or at least curious, they just won't admit it!

I don't mind admitting I like one in my mouth.. But you are correct, I wonder just how many men if they knew they would never be found out would try it.. "

10 outta 10 for honesty, it goes a long way and doesn't make you any less of a person or even a man.

That's all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just the ladies...

You'd be surprised at the amount of men that are bi or at least curious, they just won't admit it!

I don't mind admitting I like one in my mouth.. But you are correct, I wonder just how many men if they knew they would never be found out would try it.. "

I think your right more would try if they had no chance of being found out. I am happy on here to admit I like giving a blow job but would never admit it in the vanilla world. As it would cause problems with the rest of my family and impact on my work. I know it's a bit of a double standard but that's the way life needs to be for me and I am sure a lot of others.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"It says straight on my profile and I always thought of myself as a manly man yet since being on here I did become curious as to what it would feel like to have a man fuck me and it happened last week I met this guy no kissing or stuff like that I gave him a bj then I took his cock in my arse I did enjoy it at the time but whether id do it again I doubt it but never say never, I tried my curiosity but being with a man does not even come close to being with a woman"

Again, 10 outta 10.

I am also a man, just in case you hadn't noticed! Lol You see me in the shop, I'm a man. You see me in work, I'm a man, infact you'd be hard pressed to even guess what I do in my spare time because I don't really advertise it publicly.

Back to your point, I do love the ladies but I like cd/tv and transgender too....

Men don't even come into the equation.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not just the ladies...

You'd be surprised at the amount of men that are bi or at least curious, they just won't admit it!

I don't mind admitting I like one in my mouth.. But you are correct, I wonder just how many men if they knew they would never be found out would try it.. "

Isn't that a shame though. Women can be openly curious about thing's,whilst some men feel they havd to do it secretly,even on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with the type of site this is, more people, both female and male find themselves able to be a lot more open about their sexuality or sexual preferences than in the 'vanilla' world.

No doubt people would feel more judges off of here and in the real world so many hide their desires, especially from family and friends. It took me 19 years to come out as a bi fem to my best friend, she already knew but never asked me or questioned it but I still hid it from her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

There are so many sexually fluid men yet remain firmly in the closet. Society sucks

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By *layful CplCouple
over a year ago

We notice quite often that a profile will often say no bi men or a couple with a bi male which we find a little puzzling as how could anyone know that someone's being completely honest about there sexuality, at least we're honest and put it on our profile which is a rarity on here, bi for us is just exploring the fun between us all and not a way of life but most couples look and move on, shamefully there'll never know what there missing out on because we're both pretty hot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many are bi and how many are just doing it for their husband/ boyfriend to get off on.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I wonder how many are bi and how many are just doing it for their husband/ boyfriend to get off on. "

I'm bi for sure

MrsSB

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I wonder how many are bi and how many are just doing it for their husband/ boyfriend to get off on. "

I was bi before I met Mr (as he was before he met me) and I had had fem fem meets. I tend not to meet women with him though, as I like to have that one to one time, unless it happens in a group. To be honest at that stage we aren't observing each other to the point that I would be doing it for him .... when I am in the moment, I am lost in the moment and its for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many sexually fluid men yet remain firmly in the closet. Society sucks "
People can be so judgemental if you come out as bi guy especially on this site. The closet has to remain nearly closed but with enough of an opening to peep out!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We have commented before though that we feel that due to sensibilities some women will put bi or bi curious & wanting M/F, Couples but the only ever meet men according to their veries.

So do their sensibilities stop them joining and just asking for guys? As I can't believe a bi-fem would have any trouble finding a couple or another lady to play with..

Or is it that few actively search for them due to fear of rejection so sit & wait for the first message?

I dunno, i'm just a bloke, past fifty too so three nails in the coffin already according some

S

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I wonder how many are bi and how many are just doing it for their husband/ boyfriend to get off on. "

I'm definitely bi, I spent 30 years wondering. Now I know...

I'm bi.

Oh, and single too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good thing about this site or the lifestyle is you can be who you are no judgment you live once enjoy it

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"The good thing about this site or the lifestyle is you can be who you are no judgment you live once enjoy it "

I dont think that is the case at all ... you only have to look at peoples preferences and some of the comments on here or go to clubs to see judgement is alive and well, even thriving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The good thing about this site or the lifestyle is you can be who you are no judgment you live once enjoy it

I dont think that is the case at all ... you only have to look at peoples preferences and some of the comments on here or go to clubs to see judgement is alive and well, even thriving."

Clubs are fine no probs there atleast all the ones we go to are. Never had mo probs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always just ignore anyone who is judgemental. There are things I don't and won't try but I don't feel the need to judge those who do, or air my views on the www!

My bi experiences began at university and involved friends and alcohol. I've remained bi ever since. Not to be confused with falling in love with a bloke but being able to enjoy sexual stimulation and enjoyment. Mmf three sums vary from crap to brilliant. It's all about the dynamic and going with the flow but equally being honest enough to say no that's not really doing it for me.

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By *ip73Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

I'm bi curious, in life I'm an out gay man but have a curiosity for a straight or mmf experience.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"The good thing about this site or the lifestyle is you can be who you are no judgment you live once enjoy it

I dont think that is the case at all ... you only have to look at peoples preferences and some of the comments on here or go to clubs to see judgement is alive and well, even thriving.

Clubs are fine no probs there atleast all the ones we go to are. Never had mo probs lol"

We rarely see male bi play at clubs

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By *urely4funMan
over a year ago

london

This site opened my eyes up to trying new things, i would have said i was 100 % straight before fab, but now, even though im not attracted to men, i love sucking cock every now and again.

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I just wonder how many are genuinely bi or is it just perhaps their male partners living out a fantasy.Having met a few ladies on here its surprising how few are what is put in their profile

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I just wonder how many are genuinely bi or is it just perhaps their male partners living out a fantasy.Having met a few ladies on here its surprising how few are what is put in their profile "

I've just been checking out our most fabbed pics,250 odd fabs. bifems do not appear to Fab pics of the female body much, even the tasteful ones. Tells us quite a bit does that.

S

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By *ick111Man
over a year ago

Swindon

They won't admit it on here as it seems to reduce their chances. It's amazing how many ask for meets. Even when their wives are on as bi they say she wouldn't understand.

I think it's better to be real and admit it.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I just wonder how many are genuinely bi or is it just perhaps their male partners living out a fantasy.Having met a few ladies on here its surprising how few are what is put in their profile

I've just been checking out our most fabbed pics,250 odd fabs. bifems do not appear to Fab pics of the female body much, even the tasteful ones. Tells us quite a bit does that.

S"

Maybe they look at female bodies differently to men and yours are more appealing to men (have they been taken by a man from the male POV?) the other thing is I dont think women fab as much as men, or aren't as visual. I never fab any pictures whereas the OH has repetitive strain injury from fabbing pcitures

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's absolutely no problem that people are bi - the problem is when people assume that everyone has a bi side just waiting to be released. I do have one and say so on my profile, but I approach other women very carefully to avoid offering something they might not want. My partner on the otherhand is totally straight and he (like me) is completely turned off by guy on guy action. We just expect people to respect our boundaries as we do theirs and not try to "let him show his bi side". Believe me, he does not have one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may have been discussed before, but the amount of ladies in the swing scene who are either bi or at least bi curious does surprise us. Or is it not out of proportion to the "vanilla" world out there. That is, are most women at least on the bi curious side but for whatever reason never get to explore it."

It does not surprise me, but it is surprising how many men who claim to be straight are, at the very least, orally bisexual.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I wonder how many are bi and how many are just doing it for their husband/ boyfriend to get off on.

I'm bi for sure

MrsSB "

She is, definitely I checked, a few times

I am too btw

Bun

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